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Stills from Yan Ni's "Breakout"
On October 21, 2021, the 45-episode urban reality drama "Breakout" was simultaneously broadcast in Zhejiang, Oriental Satellite TV, Tencent Video, Youku and iQiyi. The popular actress Yan Ni played the female number one and vice chairman of Zhongfu Company "Shi Hongxing" in the play, and her superb acting skills won the praise of the audience.
Yan Ni in life is a kind, gentle, smiling woman, even a little silly. She was divorced from her ex-husband for 17 years and the two remain friends to this day. The affectionate Yan Ni also gave her ex-in-laws as a daughter, and the different kinds of affection made people cry...
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Born in 1971 in Xi'an, the ancient capital of the Six Dynasties, Yan Ni graduated from the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts and was later admitted to the Air Politics Repertory Theatre in Beijing. Since her debut, Yan Ni has successively starred in a series of popular dramas such as "The Legend of Wulin", "The North Wind That Blows", "Three Seven Collides with Twenty-One", "Young Pie", "Female Army Soul", "Loading Stage", "Mountains and Seas", etc., and has won many awards such as the Audience Favorite Actress Award of Chinese Television "Golden Eagle Award" and the Outstanding Actress Award of Chinese TV Drama "Feitian Award".
Yan Ni has created many classic roles, which contrast greatly with herself, and she is recognized as a talented actress.
Yan Ni with her daughter
Yan Ni is an early marriage among actresses, and in 1996, when she was just 25 years old, she married Zou Wei in Beijing. A native of Beijing, Zou Wei served in the military and joined the Beijing public security system after changing careers. In 1998, daughter Zou Yuanqing was born.
Yan Ni wanted to shoot a scene, and Zou Wei had to go to work, so as soon as her daughter was born, Yan Ni entrusted her to her in-laws to take care of her. The in-laws have long retired, kind and loving, and take care of their granddaughters to be healthy and lively, so Yan Ni is particularly relieved, even if she is filming for two or three months, she does not worry about her daughter.
Yan Ni and her husband are free in love, and the emotional foundation is solid. Now that they have a common daughter, the family of three has had a happy and peaceful time.
However, the actor's life is irregular, and Yan Ni is often separated from her husband for two or three months. Zou Wei understood Yan Ni, but the long-term gathering was less and more, diluting their feelings, and the couple had a gap.
Yan Ni
Gradually, they did not have the tacit understanding they had once had, and they looked forward to reunion when they were separated, but they were reunited easily, and there was not much communication, and sometimes there was nothing to say.
Neither of them wanted to make it up, and felt it would be more appropriate to be friends apart. In 2004, Yan Ni calmly went through divorce procedures with Zou Wei. They had no quarrels, no entanglements with property and children. On the day of the divorce, they didn't have much sadness on their faces.
Because they have a common daughter to raise, the two just get along in a different way.
After the divorce, the daughter lived with Yan Ni.
Yan Ni's divorce made her in-laws sad. Mother Zou tearfully said to her son: "Yan Ni is such a good woman, how can you be willing to be separated from her?" The father also scolded Zou Wei: "You don't treat marriage as a child's play, your divorce from Yan Ni is equivalent to losing a treasure." ”
Stills of Yan Ni and Haiqing's "One Servant and Two Lords"
Zou Wei whispered, "Separating from her is not my decision alone." "The Zou family's parents could not accept it, and they could not eat well and sleep well for several days.
A few days later, Yan Ni came to see her daughter at her former mother-in-law's house, and the former mother-in-law grabbed her hand and said with tears: "I have not been able to accept that you and Zou Wei have come to this step." Where can there be no friction between husband and wife? Listen to your mother's advice, will you and Zou Wei remarry in the future? ”
Yan Ni knew that it was impossible for her to return to the past with her ex-husband, but in order not to make her ex-in-laws sad, she said vaguely: "It depends on fate." ”
Yan Ni's words gave the ex-in-laws unlimited fantasy space, and they looked forward to Yan Ni's remarriage with her son.
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At this time, Zou Yuanqing went to elementary school, and it was her grandparents who brought her up these years. Yan Ni originally wanted to take her daughter away, but the former in-laws were reluctant and consulted with Yan Ni: "No matter how your relationship with Zou Wei changes, Yuanqing will always be the granddaughter of our Zou family, and I will always be her grandmother." You are usually too busy filming, and we will take care of it after Yuanqing. ”
Over the years, Yan Ni has witnessed the care of the two old people for their daughters, and handed over the daughter to the second elder, and she is relieved of a hundred. So Yan Ni continued to let her daughter live in the former in-laws' house, and after filming, she came to pick up her daughter and went home to live for a while. The next time she entered the group, she sent her daughter to her ex-in-laws' house.
Yan Ni has to pay living expenses to her daughter every month, but the two old people resolutely do not accept it: "Our pension is not low, raising our own granddaughter, what money do you want you to pay?" So Yan Ni bought food for the two old people, bought them clothes, and rushed to pay them water, electricity and heating bills. Yan Ni's understanding made the ex-in-laws feel warm.
Although he is divorced from Yan Ni, Zou Wei's love for his daughter is not less. He sent his daughter to learn dance and piano, and every time the school held a parent-teacher conference, Zou Wei was not absent. He also often said to his daughter: "Dad will always love you the most and is willing to do anything for you." ”
Bathed in the love of two generations of parents and grandparents, Zou Yuanqing, who lives in a single-parent family, is sunny, cheerful and lively, without the sensitivity and melancholy common to some single-parent children.
In 2008, Zou Wei had a new relationship. The parents knew that it was impossible for their son to remarry Yan Ni, and the old man was very disappointed in his heart, but he still accepted this reality.
When Yan Ni came to see her daughter, the former mother-in-law said to her: "You are not the daughter-in-law of our Zou family, we will treat you as a daughter." The ex-mother-in-law burst into tears as she spoke. Yan Ni also had a taste in her heart, and she said to the second elder emotionally, "I am willing to be your daughter." ”
After Zou Yuanqing entered junior high school, he wanted to study abroad, but Yan Ni resolutely disagreed. She discussed the matter with her ex-husband and ex-in-laws, and they did not agree.
The daughter grinds with Yan Ni every day, and finally Yan Ni is grinded to the point of losing her temper and agrees. So she in turn did the work of her ex-husband and ex-in-laws, and everyone agreed that Zou Yuanqing would study abroad.
Yan Ni and her ex-husband were responsible for handling the procedures for her daughter to study abroad, and then she personally sent her daughter to Los Angeles in the United States to attend junior high school. After returning to China, Yan Ni consulted with her ex-husband: "It is not convenient for me to go abroad, so please go to see your daughter more in the future." Zou Wei agreed.
Yan Ni earns more than her ex-husband, and she covers her daughter's tuition and most of her expenses. Zou Wei goes to the United States once a year to see his daughter.
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Grateful for the Zou family's parents to bring up their daughter, after the daughter studied abroad, Yan Ni still often brought gifts to visit her ex-in-laws. The second elder was very moved: "Now that YuanQing is not around us, you don't have to be so nice to us." ”
Yan Ni and Wang Qianyuan's "Three Seven Collides with Twenty-One" stills
Yan Ni said: "You are Yuanqing's grandparents, I am your daughter, and the relationship between us will never be separated." These words warmed the heart of the ex-in-laws.
Since then, Yan Ni has been in constant contact with the zou family's parents, sometimes busy filming in the crew, yan Ni will also call the second elder to tell the situation of her daughter.
After Yan Ni returned to Beijing after filming, her ex-in-laws would take her to her home for a meal. The mother-in-law cooked herself and cooked Yan Ni's favorite dishes. Yan Ni's warm affection with her ex-in-laws has become a good story in the community.
Because of her daughter, Yan Ni has been in contact with Zou Wei like friends, and the two often exchange information about their daughter on the phone to remind her of her precautions overseas.
In 2014, Yan Ni received a phone call saying that she was suspected of fraud. Yan Ni had never experienced such a thing, and her heart was completely confused. In the panic, she called Zou Wei, who said decisively: "This is a liar, you must not be deceived." ”
Then Zou Wei asked for the scammer's phone from Yan Ni, and immediately called back, frightening the scammers to never dare to look for Yan Ni again.
In 2015, Zou Yuanqing dropped out of the United States because he missed his grandparents and returned to Beijing to take the college entrance examination. The following year, Zou Yuanqing was admitted to the Acting Department of the Central Academy of Drama.
During this period, the former mother-in-law was getting worse and worse due to her age, and Yan Ni and her daughter often went to visit the two elderly people. The former mother-in-law said to Yan Ni many times: "Don't always be single, take advantage of your youth to become a family, so that we will be solid in our hearts." Yan Ni told the old man, "I haven't met the right one yet." ”
In 2020, Zou Yuanqing graduated from the drama and also entered the show business circle. The mother and daughter are like a pair of sister flowers, blooming in the film and television circle.
In 2021, Yan Ni is 50 years old and still single. Zou Wei told his daughter to take more care of her mother, and he also reminded her daughter to urge her mother to have a love home as soon as possible.
Many women are divorced, and they are like water and fire with their ex-husbands and ex-in-laws, and they have no contact with each other in old age; but Yan Ni regards her ex-husband as a friend and makes a daughter to her ex-in-laws. Her virtuousness, kindness and tolerance make people move and make people sigh!
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