Everyone knows Lu Xiaoman, probably to a large extent because of Xu Zhimo, most people are very disgusted with Lu Xiaoman, but I personally do not think so, in my heart Lu Xiaoman is a woman who dares to love and dare to hate.
Lu Xiaoman, born on November 7, 1903, is the only surviving child in a famous family. So her parents are also very delicate to her.
In 1910, she enrolled in the Primary School Affiliated to Beijing Women's Normal University.
In 1918, he entered the Sacred Heart Academy in Beijing. In the same year, Lu Ding specially invited a British female teacher to teach English for her.
In 1920, he was hired by Gu Weijun, the chief foreign minister of the Beiyang government, as a diplomatic translator, and gradually became famous in Beijing's social circles.
Lu Xiaoman has been a beautiful embryo since childhood, a famous social flower, not only has a good-looking skin bag, but also has an outstanding talent, even Hu Shi said that Lu Xiaoman is a must-see scenery in Beijing, you can imagine, at that time, Lu Xiaoman, how charming.
Lu Xiaoman received a Western-style education from an early age, was proficient in English and French, often met celebrities from various countries, became a translator for the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, and achieved extraordinary achievements in painting.
Lu Xiaoman, who was so perfect, did not escape the marriage arranged for her by her parents in the end. His first husband was called Wang Geng, Wang Geng was also a very good person, the two met each other's good feelings, it did not take long to get married, but because Wang Geng traveled frequently after marriage, this marriage was different from the marriage that Lu Xiaoman imagined, Lu Xiaoman longed for love, is a long-term companionship, Lu Xiaoman often appeared at some banquets, at this time, he met Xu Zhimo, who was deeply hurt, the two had a good feeling for each other, at this time Xu Zhimo had not divorced Zhang Youyi, Lu Xiaoman soon fell deeply in love with Xu Zhimo, and wanted to divorce her husband Even though she was pregnant at the time and risked beating up the child, she had to be with Xu Zhimo, and because she was even weak, lu Xiaoman was infertile for life.
At the wedding of Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman, Liang Qichao's testimony made us remember:
"Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman, you are all divorced and remarried, and you are all people who have come over, all because of your lack of dedication, and you will regret it in the future... I send you a word: I wish you the last time you get married! ”
It can be seen that at that time, everyone was not optimistic about them, because of this matter, Lu Xiaoman's parents broke with Lu Xiaoman, and Xu Zhimo's parents were not satisfied with Lu Xiaoman, they only identified Zhang Youyi as a daughter-in-law, so Xu Zhimo's parents also cut off economic contacts with Xu Zhimo.
All the sources of the family rely on Xu Zhimo's work, because Lu Xiaoman spent money from a young age, and after marriage, he was even more profligate, which made Xu Zhimo have to run back and forth in several places, Lu Xiaoman often held banquets, and then he was infected with elegant films, and Xu Zhimo's salary was difficult to support Lu Xiaoman's expenses.
After marriage, Xu Zhimo really spoiled Lu Xiaoman to the bone, Xu Zhimo really loved Lu Xiaoman, but because Lu Xiaoman spent a lot of money after marriage, and Xu Zhimo had more than enough and lacked strength, often quarreled because of money, once they quarreled, Xu Zhimo went away, and soon after returning, he saw that Lu Xiaoman still had another quarrel, if there was no quarrel at that time, Xu Zhimo might not have taken that plane, some people said that Xu Zhimo was in a plane crash on the way to see Lin Huiyin's speech, no matter what the facts were? It was a regret in the end. After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman realized his deep love for Xu Zhimo, and in the years of Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman sorted out Xu Zhimo's manuscripts and published them, which made us know many of Xu Zhimo's works.
This is a book I read several years ago, Lu Xiaoman's autobiography, many of my friends around me, very much like Lin Hui, so I like Lu Xiaoman, I like her kind of dare to love and dare to hate character, like her disregard for the world's opposition, with her beloved people together, even if the final ending is tragic, but in love there is really no way, but also admire her after Xu Zhimo died to realize her mistakes, did not escape, did not escape, did what should be done. In that feudal era, I felt that a woman could do this, without considering his life, there was still something worth learning.