The "Six Memories of Fusheng", known as the "Little Red Chamber", writes the love story of Shen Fu and Chen Yun, which is comparable to Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, who have a covenant of "Wooden Stone Former Alliance" in "Dream of the Red Chamber".
The Six Tales of Floating Life
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" > shen fu's married life with Yunniang, more like the second half of Bao Dai's deep love after marriage. </h1>
Yunniang is Shen Fu's cousin in Suzhou Qingmei Bamboo Horse, and the book says that she did embroidery at a young age, and she could actually support a family of three and earn the cost of her brother's schooling. Her younger brother dictated the "Pipa Line", and after she recited it well, she was able to read the words, and she could also chant "Autumn invades the shadows of thin people, and frost stains chrysanthemums fat." " sentence.
If Chen Yun was born in a rich and noble family, with Tanhua Lang as his father and Jia Yucun as his teacher, wouldn't he be Lin Sister who suppressed Qunfang?
Shen Fu, a thirteen-year-old cousin at the time, regretted her talent, fearing that she would meet someone unladylike in the future, so he took the initiative to ask his mother to marry Yunniang, and made a marriage contract between the two in one word.
When she was about to get married, Yunniang "hid porridge for her husband", which attracted ridicule from relatives and friends, which made her shy and silent; and she heard that Shen had come back to smallpox day, so she made an oath of fasting on the day of the next month and month to seek the safety of her husband-in-law, which shows her deep affection.
Five years after the engagement, a pair of Bi people married in the Canglang Pavilion, Xiao Shuang upstairs, lived as a companion in the situation of the fireworks fairy, and once burned incense and worshiped the moon on the night of Tanabata: "May life be a husband and wife."
Shen Fu treats Yunniang equally, let her dress up as a man to participate in the temple fair, visit Taihu Lake in Wujiang, drink together on the night boat, and the life of the little couple is loving and sweet. Although the couple was expelled from the house twice, it was fun to live a poor life.
When Shen Fu was having a drink with her friends, Yunniang cooked fish and shrimp for offering, so that the wine of Zhixingshi was gone, and she quietly sold the hair as a selling fee, which was "a little bit of wisdom in the heart, and the hook spring wine was warmed from the next seat." " portrayal.
Stills from "Dream of the Red Chamber"
The turbulent and displaced life of Shen Fu and his wife undoubtedly makes people see the appearance of Bao Dai's love after losing jia fu's dependence.
However, under the oppression of feudal etiquette, the couple could not withstand the world's slander, and the romance could not resist the invasion of poverty: when the husband followed her father to Haining to make a living as a staff member, the father-in-law let her write letters to contact him on behalf of her mother-in-law. Not wanting to let the rumors start for a long time, the mother-in-law suspected that Yunniang had something inappropriate to say, so she did not let her write a letter.
The father-in-law, who had been resentful for a long time, was furious and expelled them from the house. The couple was in a turbulent displacement, and Yunniang's old illness recurred and there was no money for treatment, and she died desolately. When Yunniang was dying, Shen Fu swore not to marry again, and this hatred lasted forever.
Yunniang's true temperament was exchanged for a white-eyed wolf, and Shen Fu's guarantee for the person was betrayed by him, and he was forced to leave by the creditor, and it was difficult to return home. Both husband and wife are frank people, and in this misfortune, the life under the fence is extremely bleak.
According to research, after the fall of the Cao family, Cao Xueqin fell into a place without a fixed place to fight people, and his self-description in "Dream of the Red Chamber" that he lived a life of rope bed tile stove is not an exaggeration. After the collapse of the Jia Mansion, without the protection of the family, leaving the Grand View Garden, Bao Dai and his wife will most likely fall into the predicament of exhaustion, even worse than Shen Fu and his wife.
Yunniang's greatest grievance was the matter of taking concubines for her father-in-law and husband.
The father-in-law was lonely and wanted to take a concubine in Yangzhou, and asked Yunniang to help find a concubine. Yunniang then concealed her mother-in-law and took a daughter who lied about her neighbor's son to take her home, but the paper wrapped in helpless paper could not hold the fire, and after the father-in-law ordered someone to take the woman, the mother-in-law also offended.
Shen Fu's drinking of flower wine and prostitutes in Guangzhou was instigated by relatives and friends, but he only went to the countryside to play with the customs. Before lying down with Xi'er's candle, Xi Yunniang could not swim here, far from quenching her thirst, looking back at Xi'er's moon, it was still faintly similar, and that was it.
And just after being expelled from the house, when the economy was stretched, Yunniang bet on her husband's face and people, and took the initiative to find a "beautiful and charming" woman for her husband as a concubine. After yunniang learned that Shen Fu was interested in a prostitute named Yuan Yuan, she enthusiastically befriended her sisters and gave her a jade bracelet as a souvenir. As a result, because the family was poor, he was rejected by Mother Wen, and the concubines ended up fruitless. Yunniang was indignant about this.
Stills from "Six Tales of Floating Life"
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > If Jia Fu declines and does not fall, will Dai Yu take the initiative to take the concubine for Bao Yu like Yunniang? </h1>
As in Gao Yan's sequel, the situation of Jia Province is acceptable, the skinny camel is bigger than the horse, and Bao Dai can still have food and clothing.
First of all, could Jia Baoyu take a concubine? Possibly, but never proactively.
It should be known that the ancients paid attention to filial piety and three, and no queen is greater. Lin Ruhai's several concubines are indeed not fake, probably because they do not have sons.
In the "Dream of the Red Chamber", it is said: "Lady Xing is stupid and weak, and only knows that She accepts Jia's forgiveness to protect herself, and the second time she takes the goods for her own self-sufficiency, and the family's next big and small affairs are at the mercy of Jia Amnesty." ”
According to this, Lady Xing connived at Jia Amnesty because she was filling a house to please her husband, and she had no children who were unstable.
Jia Baoyu's affection is stronger than Jin's, and he will not be half-hearted and untrue to Sister Lin. In addition, concubines are different from wives, just like Baoyu and Raiders have had the love of clouds and rain, and there is no love. "A man has no righteousness to remarry", but he does not accept the responsibility of a concubine.
He once said to Sister Lin with his heart and lungs that in addition to his grandmother and parents, she was the person he loved the most. Although Dai Yu is the first in love, it is also the only one. It also shows that Jia Baoyu will not go against the parents' decision for love.
There is a law that says, "Whoever is at least forty years of age and has no heirs may take a concubine." ”
Jia Yu rewarded Qiu Tong with his son, and Jia Lian secretly married Second Sister You, which was naturally the reason for passing on the lineage. Sister Feng had no choice but to smile one by one.
If Lin Daiyu did not have children, and the attacker became an aunt and had no children, Jia Baoyu was likely to take a concubine again based on the pressure of the elders.
Today's people can't ask Sister Lin, who pursues love, to be everyone's bridesmaid, to go beyond the times to boldly oppose the emperor and anti-feudalism, and resolutely oppose Baoyuna's concubines, but this is still fundamentally different from Yunniang's concubine.
After Jia Baoyu took a concubine, although Lin Daiyu, who was aware of the overall situation, was not Zhuo Wenjun, who dared to elope, he had the courage to "wenjun has two intentions, so he came to a duel." "I want to come to Sister Lin just like the mother who wants to maintain the grace of Houmen Qianjin, after all, she is difficult to calm down and depressed.
Secondly, Lin Daiyu is not Yunniang and will not take the initiative to take the initiative to take the concubine of Bao Yu Zhang Luo.
Some people may say that three wives and four concubines in ancient times are very normal, for example, many big wives in "Dream of the Red Chamber" have taken the initiative to choose concubines for their husbands. Wang Xifeng was so powerful that she forced Ping'er to become a member of Jia Lian's room; Jia Yu took a fancy to the Mandarin Duck, and Lady Xing immediately ran to do the Mandarin Duck's ideological work, wasn't she more anxious than her husband?
Zi Juan said it well in "Dream of the Red Chamber": Although there are many princes and grandchildren, which one is not three rooms and five concubines, and now it is facing east, and Ming'er is facing west? Marrying a celestial immortal is only three nights and five nights, and it is also placed behind the neck, and even pity the new and abandon the old and turn into a vendetta!
Although it is better to block than to be loose, the wise hostess will choose a candidate who is not much of a threat for the sake of virtue. For example, the dowry maid. The heart of the superior to compete for favors is not certain at all, and the servility is not easy to remove. But it is much more controllable than the husband taking another concubine room.
Wang Xifeng forced Ping'er to become a person in Jia Lian's house, but she was afraid of the moral requirements of feudal marriage, one was afraid that people would say that she was not virtuous enough, and Ping'er covered her tongue; second, Ping'er obeyed her orders for the dowry maid, so that she could tie up her husband's heart, better than letting him go outside and make a fool of herself, and the dirty and smelly ones were pulled into the house.
Some people also say that Lin Daiyu is not also called a good sister-in-law? In the old days, the status of wives and concubines was not the same, which showed that she did not mind many people in the treasure room.
Because the Daizhu Fairy and the Divine Attendant are true love. They have a covenant of "wooden and stone former alliances" and cannot tolerate others.
The love of men and women is inherently exclusive, and there is no infinitely tolerant love in the world. Especially when people are young, Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochao say two more words, and Shi Xiangyun is intimate, and Sister Lin will lose her temper and cry for a while, that is what a girl should look like in love.
As a married wife who is in love with each other, if Yunniang takes her husband out to share with her good sisters, this "generous" stupid thing cannot be done. Lovers must also love themselves, and after a woman who is accustomed to self-sacrifice loses herself, the ending is not much better.
Yu Zhengxie, a contemporary of Shen Fu, pointed out in his "Theory of Jealousy and Non-Woman's Evil Virtue": "A husband buys a concubine and his wife is not jealous, which is a pity, and a bad family is a bad one." ＂
In this phrase, "恝" means indifference and carelessness, and "恝則家道 bad" means that the marriage is in danger. Yu Zhengxie believes that jealousy is the common sentiment of people, and rightly stands on the side of the jealous woman: the wife does not care about her husband's concubine, and it is extremely abnormal from the perspective of human nature.
The same is for the husband to take concubines, Lady Xing's foolish wife is hated, Sister Feng makes people roll their eyes, why do you like Yunniang?
This is inhumane.
Since then, only the new people laugh, who sees the old people crying, Chen Ajiao's thousands of gold to buy the acid chu who knows? Zhuo Wenjun has long said: I wish to win the hearts of one person, and the white head will not be separated. Kindness has no bottom line, and getting hurt is sooner or later.
As Baoyu's wife, Sister Lin will not take the initiative to take concubines for her husband, and even if she takes the initiative, she will not be happy to retreat into progress.
Even today, although some people openly claim to be willing, the reason for cheating on their own men does not suffer losses. When she said this, others could not help but sympathize with her stubbornness, but it was just a fake happiness like a pick.
Therefore, Sister Lin happily took the initiative to take a concubine for Baoyu, which could not have happened under any circumstances.