Why is Lin Daiyu, the strange woman who bursts into tears in "A Dream of Red Mansions," always shed tears so easily? Is it her natural sensitivity and fragility, or is it the intricate love-hate feelings and hatreds in the feudal compound that make her soul so sentimental? Today, let's explore the mystery of Lin Daiyu's "sea of tears."
1. The mystery of life experience: the pain of the life experience of the orphan girl
Lin Daiyu's tears first originated from her floating life experience. She was originally the daughter of the Lin family in Suzhou, but due to the death of her parents, she was taken to Rongguo Mansion by Jia's mother to raise her. The life under the fence made her enjoy the glory and wealth at the same time, but also under huge psychological pressure. She knows very well that she is not the real blood of Jiafu, and this kind of embarrassment and uneasiness in her identity makes her always cautious in her interactions with people, for fear that she will accidentally break some rules and attract criticism. This kind of psychological depression and sensitivity makes her full of vigilance and precaution against the people and things around her.
Second, the dilemma of affection: the scissors with Baoyu are still messy
Lin Daiyu's tears are even more because of the unreasonable and chaotic feelings between her and Jia Baoyu. Jia Baoyu, the cousin who grew up with her and was a childhood sweetheart, is the only support and comfort in her heart. However, their emotional road is full of ups and downs and twists and turns. Jia Baoyu is always surrounded by many warblers and swallows, which makes Lin Daiyu feel stressed and uneasy. She knows that the relationship between herself and Baoyu is not all smooth sailing, but she can't let go of this deep affection. Whenever she saw Baoyu getting close to other women, an indescribable sorrow and pain would well-rise in her heart, and tears would flow involuntarily.
In addition, the emotional entanglement between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu was also bound and restricted by feudal etiquette. In that era, marriage was determined by the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers, and the feelings between them were not recognized by the world. This kind of helplessness and despair made Lin Daiyu feel painful and tormented, and she could only turn the pain in her heart into tears.
3. Sigh of Fate: Deep anxiety about the unknown future
Lin Daiyu's tears are also because of her deep anxiety about the unknown future. In that feudal family full of intrigue and intrigue, she knew that her fate was not in her own hands. She couldn't predict where her future would go, and she didn't know if she would be able to stay with the person she loved. This anxiety and anxiety about the unknown future keeps her alert and vigilant at all times, and the slightest disturbance can make her feel fearful and uneasy. Under the influence of this mentality, she is more likely to be touched by some trivial things and shed tears.
At the same time, Lin Daiyu also knew that she was seriously ill and her time was short. This kind of helplessness and despair of life makes her cherish every moment in front of her more, and it also makes her more prone to tears because of some small things. She hopes to release the pain and depression in her heart through tears, and also hopes to keep those beautiful moments and memories through tears.
Conclusion: There is love in tears, and there are tears in love
To sum up, the reason why Lin Daiyu is always so easy to cry is because she carries too much emotion and pressure. She not only has the helplessness and despair of the life pain and emotional distress of being an orphan girl, but also has deep worries about the unknown future and the helplessness of life. These emotions and pressures keep her sensitive and fragile at all times, and the slightest disturbance will make her feel sad and teary-eyed. However, it is these tears that bear witness to the true feelings and kindness in Lin Daiyu's heart, and also allow us to understand and recognize this complex and real character more deeply. In the great work "Dream of Red Mansions", Lin Daiyu's tears are not only a catharsis and release of emotions, but also a profound reflection and criticism of feudal etiquette and the impermanence of fate. Let's appreciate Lin Daiyu's beauty and talent, and at the same time, we also feel deep sympathy and regret for the pain and suffering she endured!