People go to the doctor out of trust, rest assured of the doctor's professional authority, and the doctor will generally do what he says.
It is undeniable that the profession of doctor is great, they work seriously and responsibly, but under the serious appearance, there will also be "naughty" times, and even "lying" to people who come to the doctor, which is very common in the face of pregnant women and maternity.
Many of the mothers around me, including myself, were deeply impressed by the doctor who gave birth to me, and had a sense of gratitude in their hearts.
Natural delivery and caesarean section are not easy, the husband and other family members cheer for themselves, although the mother is comforted, but the heart is still a little afraid.
At this time, the doctor's words can play a great role, but the way the doctor speaks is not necessarily comforting, and often uses a lot of "white lies" to reassure the mother.
I still remember when my cousin gave birth, because she was afraid of pain and just arrived at the hospital to give birth, she wanted to have a caesarean section, and as a result, the doctor saw that her conditions were good in all aspects, so he frightened her how painful the caesarean section was, and there would be scars and other issues.
Later, the cousin just opened 2 fingers and wanted to hit painless, the doctor saw that she was so timid, calmly said a sentence just opened can not hit painless, and then insist on it for a while.
As a result, when the cousin felt that she could not hold on, she called the doctor, but the doctor said that she could enter the delivery room, and a few days before giving birth to the baby, the cousin was still complaining that the doctor deliberately did not give her painlessness.
Later, I heard other mothers say that the painless needle tube was much thicker than the ordinary one, and there was also pain when the needle was injected. My cousin, who had been sick with needles since childhood, couldn't help but sigh that the doctor was so good, otherwise he might have run away when he had inserted the needles.
Doctors do not lie casually, especially in the face of pregnant women, he must consider both adults and ensure the safe birth of children, have you experienced the following types of "white lies"?
The "Lie" about waiting time
Everyone has different feelings about having a baby, and the doctor will also say the corresponding words according to the specific situation of the mother. They will not tell the mother that it is not painful at all, but use the "OK" way to reduce the psychological pressure of the mother.
When confronted with a person who wants to have a caesarean section like his cousin, a piece will lie to tell him that the caesarean section is very hot or it is painful to use anesthetics, and the mother will abandon her own ideas and choose the mode of delivery that is suitable for her.
Similarly, when there is a lateral incision tear during a caesarean section or vaginal birth, the wound needs to be sutured, and the doctor will calmly tell the woman that the stitches are not worth mentioning compared to the baby. Under this comfort, the mother let down her guard.
Lies about the birth of a woman
Giving birth to a baby is not a small matter of giving birth to the hospital, from seeing red and breaking water, labor pain to opening the finger, and then to many labor processes in the delivery room.
Some may end the process in an hour or two, and some women have to wait a day or a night or more, a process that is both painful and difficult.
The comfort of the mother's family next to it can only play a part, at which point the doctor will tell some white lies, telling the mother that "it is very fast, and it will be possible to enter the delivery room after a while.".
Let the mother rest assured that she and the fetus are in good shape, and some relaxed words make the mother relax. In fact, doctors are well aware that pregnant women have a slow finger opening rate and need to wait longer.
Lies about the delivery room
Formal delivery is a crucial part of the labour process, and it is common for women to be afraid of pain or not want to persevere.
In the face of a mother who has a long process of giving birth and is unwilling to cooperate, the doctor will scare her, and if she does not cooperate with the child, she will be in danger, and bring maternal motivation to the child's state.
Many women want to give up before the birth is officially over, and then the doctor will tell him that I have seen the child's head with more effort. In fact, the doctor may not be able to see, saying that he wants to tell the mother in this way, and he will succeed soon and do not give up.
Finally, a "white lie" that doctors often say is that the child is so beautiful that when the mother successfully gives birth, the doctor will praise the baby. But in fact, the little guy may have swollen eyes and a body full of fetal fat, which is not as good-looking as the doctor described.
The doctor said this in order to make the mother feel a sense of accomplishment, to make her happy after the exhausting childbirth, and all the white lies of the doctor were for the good of the mother and the fetus.
【Today's topic】What doctors have you experienced white lies?