Some people say: The road to my mother's house is paved with money.
This point of view is somewhat absolute, many parents love their daughters very much, they can help, and their mother's family will always be their daughter's strong backing.
Especially for an only child, her mother's family is her eternal home, and everything her parents have is her daughter's.
But in reality, some women are quite pitiful, they are guests of their mother's family after marriage, and they are outsiders in their mother-in-law's house, and they have nowhere to go after divorce.
In Jiangsu, a woman wanted her mother to help take care of the child, but her mother refused, on the grounds that she couldn't bring it.
"Just let her take care of it first, her son is already studying, and she refuses, it's quite helpless!" the woman sighed.
The incident happened in a resident's house in Jiangsu, the woman wanted to go out to work, thinking that her mother was at home to help her sister take care of the children, so she asked her if she could take care of her sons by the way, all of whom were grandchildren.
My son is already in school, he is very sensible and independent, in fact, he doesn't have to worry about it, just take care of it.
It's nothing more than helping to take care of him when he goes out to work, such as occasionally picking him up or cooking for him to eat.
What the woman didn't expect was that her mother directly refused, "You can let grandma take it, the way you are now, you are asking for yourself." ”
The mother did not pity her, but felt that her second daughter was stupid, she brought a child by her side, and she suffered hardships by herself, while her mother-in-law's family was chic and happy, and when she grew up, she picked up a child for nothing.
Hearing her mother say this, the woman felt very cold, but she was used to it, just asking, if her mother didn't help, she could understand the difficulty of her parents.
Mother: Help your sister bring 5,000 yuan a month
The woman's sister has just given birth to twins, and her mother is currently helping her sister with the children.
For my sister to take care of the child, my sister pays her mother's salary, which is 5,000 yuan a month. This alone, a woman can't compare, she is a divorced mother with a baby, where can she have money for her mother, it would be good to be able to support herself and her son.
The reason why the woman understands her mother is because she still has 2 younger brothers and 2 younger sisters who are studying, and her parents have to earn money for them to study, which is indeed not easy.
It can't be said that the mother is selfish, if the sister doesn't pay the salary, the mother won't help her take care of the child, that's for sure.
It can only be said that parents also have their own helplessness, and they also have to take the responsibility of being a mother, just like they have to take the responsibility of being a mother.
Another point is that the girl has been given to others to raise since she was a child, and she is not close to her parents, and she only recognized her parents when she was 12 years old.
To put it simply, Mom and Dad don't actually love her.
The cost of marrying the wrong person
The woman doesn't blame her parents, she blames herself for marrying the wrong person.
The woman divorced her husband when her son was more than 1 year old. Before she was divorced and never left home, she would rather be angry with her mother-in-law for the sake of her son, and she also lived in her mother-in-law's house.
But her ex-husband came back with a new love, and she had to leave with her son, living alone with a baby, the house was rented, and there was no fixed home.
Originally, she was also ruthless and left her son with her ex-husband, but her grandmother and ex-husband didn't let her see her son, and told her son, "It's my mother who doesn't want him anymore", which made her very uncomfortable, so she asked her son to come back and take her with her.
Originally, the woman didn't care so much, she went out to work in the field, and she didn't look at her son. The ex-husband sent the child back to his grandmother's house and left.
The son had no one to take care of, and the woman rushed back to her mother's house, and her mother-in-law used the child to hold her in this way.
Nowadays, the woman has no better way to do odd jobs, shoot videos, and barely maintain the lives of the two.
This is the price of marrying the wrong person and marrying the wrong family, the woman regrets marrying her ex-husband, the family is not good at character, and I don't understand why they treat their children like this to themselves and their children like this.
Netizens feel that their mother is telling the truth, they can't blame their mother, they have to be able to carry it clearly, their failed marriage can't let their parents be killed, it is the path they have chosen, and they have to finish it on their knees.
At that time, my child was promoted to junior high school and was about to be sent back to the boarding school in my mother's city, so I wanted my mother to take care of the child for two days during the holidays, but my mother did not agree.
In the end, I sent her back to her biological grandmother, the boarding school in the county, and now in high school, it is still a boarding school, and I don't go back to her grandmother's house. When the child is older, I have also survived.
In this life, everything is suffering, and the only way to cross it is to cross it. The woman can only refuel, and everything will pass.