After the age of listening to love, prefer a slower relationship

The 18-year-old's favorite is a test paper without simulation, which is a succession of judgment and multiple choice questions, and there is no reference answer.

20-year-olds like shirts with the smell of sea salt, shadows under street lamps, showers that dry out seconds to reply to messages, last glances yesterday and first glances today.

But these are not the whole of love, just some beautiful scenery that appears in the long river of life. Because there is selflessness and thoughtfulness in love, and there is also selfish indifference. There are efforts that do not count the gains and losses, and there are calculations that weigh the pros and cons.

A few years ago, I saw a very healing movie, "The Strange Journey of Young Spyway". The protagonist, TS, is a ten-year-old boy. The family lived on a farm and lived a simple and happy life.

Ts is a genius with a clever brain who loves scientific illustrations, but he can never figure out how his parents fell in love.

My father was a pure cowboy, but unfortunately he was born 100 years later, and he had already passed the age of cowboy breezes. His favorite thing was to lean back on the couch every night in the denim lounge he designed, break the chocolate in half, half clamp it on his feet, and let the family dog lick and eat it.

Her mother was a Ph.D. who studied beetles, and her world consisted only of specimens of insects whose names no one else could name, and she was mesmerized and immersed in them.

The film uses a set of contrasting shots, and their distinction is like day and night. But they use the same action in different things, but there is an inexplicable tacit understanding.

It wasn't until one day, when TS saw a small movement of his parents in the hallway, that he realized that they had always been closely linked, and their palms were lightly brushed.

It is as if a few seeds have been secretly exchanged, although it is impossible to say how they love each other, but love has become family affection for a long time, and they are inseparable from each other, even if there is occasional quarrel, the heart is approaching.

This is a love pattern that has touched me more.

What to do, not too much to tie and interfere with each other's joie de vivre. Maybe the mother doesn't like the rude father of the father as a cowboy, and the father doesn't like the neuroticism of the mother as a doctor. But two people can still love each other happily.

Falling in love is not a tired drag, but a spiritual dependence, and how precious the trust between two people is.

The phrase "if you want to be fast, you can't reach it" also applies to love.

I've seen a lot of couples who rush together without much thought and don't end up with the love they want.

Some people are urged to marry when they are old, and they casually find someone to live together, and finally because the slippers are not laid out, they keep making noise.

After the age of hearing love, we all like slower relationships.

Two people spend time chatting, coming out together for a meal, watching a movie, and learning about their preferences.

Falling in love with a person, not to drink it all, but to raise the wine glass and tell the other party a little bit, no harm in loving me thinly, but courting me for a long time.

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