A hard-working boy gave everything he had, but in exchange for being ruthlessly abandoned.
In the early morning of April 11, 2024, I jumped off the Yangtze River Bridge in Chongqing and never woke up.
The beginning and end of the event
Fat Mao, who was born in 2003, has an amazing talent for playing games, and earned 500,000 yuan by playing Glory of Kings.
Because I like the character "Mongie" in the game, I named my game ID "Fat Cat".
Later, he met a girl named Tan Zhu, born in 1997, 27 years older than him. Later, he falls in love with her because of her sweet and fat appearance and begins this sadistic relationship.
After the two met, they couldn't stop. The fat cat believes that this will be his life's dependence. Obviously, the fat cat is still a little immature. Whatever the girl wants, the fat cat will do its best to satisfy it.
In the chat logs, it was found that 80% of the messages were from girls asking for money. But fat cats live very frugally, and will spend 12 yuan to eat on an empty stomach for 5 or 6 hours.
Some coaches wanted to invite him to dinner, but he said that he had a coupon, as long as a 15 yuan snail noodles.
The girl didn't want a long-distance relationship, but the boy ran away from Hunan to Chongqing without hesitation. In order to save money, he actually took a green car.
Upon arriving at the place, the girl said that she could not live with him. At first, she agreed to live together. The fat cat first rented a simple rental house. But there was nothing in this rental house until he died, and there was not even a quilt.
Some people feel sorry for him making money like this, but he says that it will be expensive for his girlfriend to open a store.
But his girlfriend doesn't even know his birthday. They were going to talk about getting married in May, but the girl was going to break up with him in April last year.
About these years ago, Fat Mao transferred 510,000 yuan to her. Later, Fat Mao found that the relatives and friends card she bound was used by her to spend money on others, and she unlocked the relatives and friends card in a fit of anger.
The two mentioned breaking up for the first time, and Tanzhu deleted the fat cat's WeChat.
But a few days later, the girl added the fat cat back. March 2024 is Tan Zhu's birthday.
The fat cat gave her an Apple 15.
But since then, the girl has become violent. On April 10, Fat Mao transferred 66,666 yuan to the girl. And pay attention to voluntary contributions.
At 3 a.m. on April 11, he ordered a bouquet of roses and gave it to Tan Zhu.
At 4:43 a.m. on April 11, the fat cat jumped into the Yangtze River Bridge in Chongqing.
Before leaving, he also expressed his reluctance to go to McDonald's for a meal. Since yesterday, hamburgers and milk tea have been served on the Yangtze River Bridge in Chongqing. In this way, people are using this way to fulfill the "last wish" of the fat cat.
But what is very disgusting is that many people find that many empty takeaway bags are complained about, and the famous Chamomochi is complained about, and all that is delivered is boiling water.
He was really PUAd by his girlfriend before he died, and he was pit by takeaway after his death.
Reversal of events?
After the incident, Sister Fat Cat exposed all their chat records.
Soon, the girl responded to yesterday's hot search incident. She admitted that the two were in love, but denied that she had been asking for it, and said that she only spent 350,000 yuan, saying that it was normal to be in love for two or three years.
She said that public opinion on the Internet was clearly biased against her sister. At present, both his girlfriend and sister stand their ground and feel very aggrieved.
The horror of a morbid obsession
Psychiatrist Christie proposed in 1969 that humans can explode with frightening powers in the process of falling in love.
This obsessive state of love is actually a state of a continuum. At both ends of the spectrum is "true love" and the other end is called "morbid infatuation".
Pathological obsession is actually what we call the love brain, which is characterized by:
1. Extreme desire for intimacy and companionship, requiring to keep in touch with your lover at all times and report your whereabouts at all times;
2. Will give up his needs and please his partner to keep in touch;
3. Fear of abandonment. You feel uncomfortable when you're alone, and you feel abandoned when you're being slighted.
The more the love brain cares, the more likely it is to suffer from gains and losses. It craves intimacy and companionship, but is sensitive and suspicious. I especially like to test each other in my relationship. It is accustomed to self-sacrificing devotion. When it is alone, it is afraid of being abandoned. Once it can connect with its loved one, it will be like grasping at a life-saving straw.
In the course of love, there is a marked regression (regression, a term in psychoanalysis, simply put, the stage of degeneration of the mind to a younger than its actual age, reacts and behaves like a person younger than its actual age).
Therefore, it is important to discern whether it is healthy love when you are in love. Some psychologists say that healthy love requires that the relationship between the two parties must be reciprocal/reciprocal. And the self-function will also be enhanced. The level of self-esteem increases, the mental outlook and sense of hope improves, cognitive abilities become sharper, and intuition and creativity improve.
The fat cat's love for Tan Zhu is obviously a little humble, and this is not a healthy love process.
There are still many unknown foreshadowings for the development of the fat cat incident. Behind the continuous fermentation of public opinion, there may be more truths and secrets hidden.
How the fat cat's family and girlfriend will respond to the pressure of public opinion, and where the incident will eventually go, are the focus of attention.
Let's wait and see how things develop.