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Recently, the crew of "Seven Fairies of Joy" reunited on the "Ace to Ace" program, and the reunion of fairies is like a return of childhood, as if returning to the summer of playing the seven fairies with friends and buying fairy bracelets.
When I recall my childhood, the words of Yang Rui, the actor of the Seven Fairies, made me think deeply.
Yang Rui said that due to her pregnancy, she had gained weight, so she lost confidence in starring in film and television works and has been taking care of her family at home. She stood on the ace stage this time, also to explain to her daughter what her mother's previous job was like.
Yang Rui has also starred in many film and television works, the role setting of Qing'er in "Seven Fairies of Heaven and Joy" is the most beautiful of the seven fairies, as well as the cute and agile Zhong Ling in "Tianlong Eight Parts", and Lu Wushuang in "Divine Eagle Hero".
I believe that Yang Rui's family still respects her, but it can also be seen from her daughter's words that as a full-time mother, Yang Rui's efforts have no weight in the eyes of her young daughter, so her daughter will feel that her mother is very relaxed at home, and she also wants to stay at home like her mother.
Recently, the TV series "Growing Up with You" is being broadcast, in which Lin Yunyun, played by Ying'er, is a full-time mother. Her husband has a strong ability to work, in addition to being a little cut in life, but basically did not treat his wife and children too badly, and often bought gifts for his wife.
But he never felt how hard his wife was, thinking that all the expenses of the whole family were earned by his own work, and his wife was just at home with children, and he warned his wife by lowering the amount of the bank card at every turn.
Even if the villa they live in has never hired a nanny, all Lin Yunyun cleans by herself, three meals a day, children go to school, interest class learning, homework tutoring, basically Ying Er does it herself, but her husband often complains that her wife can't do it well.
In the play, Lin Yunyun's husband is not without love for her, he will line up for two hours in order to buy a bag for his wife when he is on a business trip, his wife's cosmetics and skin care products are also high-end, on these expenses, he is very willing, he also said a popular sentence on the Internet: "I am responsible for making money to support the family, my wife is responsible for beautiful flowers."
But because he occupied the family's economic initiative for a long time, over time he felt that the whole family, whether it was a person or the current life, was dependent on him, and he put himself on the highest point, could not see his wife taking care of the family up and down the house, and the delicious meals that came home every day were only taken for granted.
Although full-time mothers do not have to go out to work, the work at home is more difficult than the outside work, 24 hours a day standby, year-round, no salary and bonuses, if you do a good job, it may be a few praises.
In the Korean drama "Kim Ji-young in '82", Kim Ji-young wants to go to work, but her husband says: "Watch the children at home, take a break." Jin Zhiying was extremely angry: "Watching the child is resting?" ”
Jin Zhiying went to pick up the children during working hours and was ridiculed by those office workers as a "mother bug". The term is demeaning to stay-at-home moms who have no income, rely solely on their husbands, and stay at home with their children.
Principal Zhang Guimei, an outstanding female principal, once said to a student who was a full-time mother and came to the school with money to donate: "Get out." She does not look down on full-time mothers, but the current recognition and protection of full-time mothers in society has not yet been achieved, and she does not want the students who have worked hard to cultivate to give up their careers.
Being a stay-at-home mother means that there is no financial initiative, when you have no source of income, you need to rely on your husband, when you have no money, you often need to reach out to your husband, and you will slowly lose your confidence, and the worse the economy, the more embarrassed you are to open your mouth.
With the development of society and the progress of education, I believe that the recognition of full-time mothers in society will gradually increase, and some women may have to become full-time mothers for the sake of the family, whether voluntarily or for whatever reason, I hope that other family members will also pay more attention to the efforts of full-time mothers, understand each other, and tolerate each other.
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