Change your destiny

Human fate is often also self-inflicted. Human character and character are the key to determining their own destiny.

First, can you control your own destiny?

A person's fate does not necessarily depend only on a certain big action, but more often, on some small acts of kindness in his daily life. We treat a stranger, we have a word of indifference, our mentality of dealing with various things, the heart of our interactions with people, every decision in our business activities, it is these smallest accidents, connected with the red thread of time, which constitute destiny. The code of destiny is to love the world in your own heart, from the heart, and to love everyone around you is to control your destiny. You know, it is your own mind that determines and transforms your destiny.

Second, how the ancients changed their destiny

People strive from all aspects to grasp the laws of nature's operation, to resist the impermanent fate, to grasp their own destiny, and one of the most profound paths is to develop morality. Virtue belongs most intrinsically to a person, is at least affected by luck, and is the most difficult thing to be taken away from in man.

Moral practice can change a person's destiny. Yuan Huang's "Four Precepts of The Fan" of the Ming Dynasty is a famous ancient book of exhortations. Yuan Huang used his own personal experience to tell the process of changing fate, exhorted people to accumulate good deeds and reforms, and emphasized starting from the management of the heart and strengthening moral practice.

Of course, the ancients also believed that "man will triumph over heaven" and "things are man-made". Mencius said: "Death is not good, self-cultivation is good, so it is also established." ”

Third, can reading change fate?

Knowledge changes destiny, learning creates wealth, and the opportunity to change destiny is in one's own hands. Earnestly and diligently studying is the only direction for changing one's destiny, and countless outstanding and outstanding people in ancient and modern China and abroad have proved this truth with their own personal experiences. This is also a common understanding. There are many examples of knowledge changing destiny.

The ancient Greek philosopher Heraclitus said, "Man's character is his destiny." "Therefore, if you want to change your destiny, you must first change your character. However, "the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to move", it is easy to change the personality! We need to change ourselves through education, especially self-education. As long as you read every day and accept new ideas, life will be different.

There is a saying in the West that is very vivid: "What kind of concept a person has, what kind of behavior he has, what kind of habit he has, what kind of habit he has, what kind of character he has, what kind of character he has, what kind of fate he has." Therefore, good destiny comes from good ideas, and ideas come from reading.

Even if life is bumpy and fateful, it is not without benefits, we must read more and encourage ourselves, and do not indulge ourselves. In the face of unsatisfactory fate, to those who do not read, it seems to me to be just a misfortune, so it is extremely unbearable. But I don't know that the ancients also had an unsatisfactory fate, even a hundred times more unfortunate than your encounter, but you didn't carefully experience it.

For example, Su Dongpo, after the death of his father Su Xun, was keeping filial piety, and as soon as his reform article came out, it aroused the suspicion and panic of those in power at that time, was accused and ridiculed, and was quickly reprimanded, wandering between Chaozhou and Huizhou, and fell into wading barefoot across the river and living next to the cattle pen.

Reading books can make people look at fate calmly and calmly, and talk to the great souls of mankind, so that unsatisfactory things in the world can be dissipated. Mr. Jin Yong said: To read more books, more books read, life will naturally sublimate, higher levels.

Fourth, what to do in the face of the fate that cannot be changed by hard work

Man cannot control the inevitable and unchangeable destiny, but he can control his own attitude towards fate.

People live in the world, they should understand their fate without complaining, complaining about nothing helps, it is better to understand the actual situation and accept unfortunate encounters.

In the face of an inevitable and unchangeable destiny, we must accept the facts. For example, disasters take lives, birth, old age, illness and death, encounter ups and downs, etc., you accept it, it will happen; if you don't accept it, it will also happen. These things, which are not subject to human will, must first be accepted calmly, so that we can become strong, and not be afraid, evasive, vulnerable, and knocked down by them.

To learn to acknowledge and obey destiny, different mentalities may lead to a completely different quality of life. When you can objectively understand the poverty and communication in fate, the good and bad in the world, and know that everything is natural, then you can rationally grasp the fate of the many and calmly bear the inevitable encounters that fall on your head.

Life in the world, it is impossible to become the same as others, everyone has their own destiny, the key is how to play their role perfectly. A successful life is not about holding a good deck of cards, but about how to play a bad deck of cards. Transforming fate into mission, turning passive into active, such a life is more valuable.

In the face of the fate that cannot be changed by hard work, we must learn from Su Dongpo's optimistic spirit, accept all situations, and conform to all destiny. Strong-willed, open-minded, love life and adapt to society. Guard the enthusiasm and vitality in your heart, never be depressed and depressed, live a tasteful life, be straightforward and optimistic, find your own pleasure, and enjoy yourself!