One
One day, Jiang Xin blocked Faye Wong and Dou Wei in front of the hotel, and the three of them went to the courtyard where Jiang Xin and Dou Wei lived together for a conversation, taking advantage of the gap between Dou Wei to pour water, Faye Wong asked: "Do you think he loves you?" "
Jiang Xin replied excitedly, "Why are you together if you don't love?" "
Faye Wong heard only one sentence here: "That's what he told me..."
Dou Wei, born in 1969, is a native of Beijing, the family lives in the courtyard, the family is not bad, his father is engaged in folk music, his mother is in Beijing's first machine tool factory to work, the small life is also very moist, and he is also influenced by his father, from a young age to love music.
When he was six years old, he could perform the flute when he was just in kindergarten, but the good things were more grinding, and he accidentally blew himself out of nephritis because he blew too hard, but even so, he did not give up.
When Dou Wei was in middle school, his parents chose to divorce because of emotional discord, and since then, Dou Wei and his sister have been living with their mother. It was also at this time that Dou Wei heard rock for the first time, he felt that this thing was very magical, and his heart couldn't help but lean up, which should be the so-called "ear" for ten thousand years.
Maybe because of setbacks in life, or maybe because he had no intention of learning, Dou Wei only took a vocational high school later, and also chose a particularly magical major - psychiatric nursing, but this is not Dou Wei's hobby, in order to stick to his dreams, Dou Wei also learned a little guitar when he was in high school.
Two years later, dou wei, who was only 18 years old, was admitted to the youth light music troupe with his own efforts, and began to engage in his own music, walking every day to run the mat field, and he could earn 30 a day, at that time, 30 yuan could already be regarded as a high salary, and Dou Wei could be said to be an infinite scenery.
Perhaps it was his efforts that made Heaven give him a chance.
In 1988, Ding Wu, the lead singer of the Black Panther Band, suddenly chose to leave, and after Learning of this news, Dou Wei hurriedly gave a sample of himself to the agent of the Black Panther Band, thus getting the opportunity to join the Black Panther Band, and it was here that he not only showed his talent, but also found his first love.
Two
In 1989, Dou Wei and Jiang Xin met.
At that time, Jiang Xin was also singing in the bar, and the two people also had a common love, and from time to time they would communicate, and as the days went by, the two of them wiped out a different spark and talked about love. After that, with the warming of the feelings of the two, it began a sweet cohabitation life, and the relationship was stable.
Also in this year, Faye Wong successfully debuted in Hong Kong with a song "Still An Old Sentence", but the development did not seem to be good.
Faye Wong is also a very rebellious person in her bones, she was in love when she was 17 years old, she liked a little boy who played volleyball in the next class, the two have common characteristics - they don't like to talk, they are hazy and good feelings, like and don't want to say it, although occasionally there will be intersections, but no one has broken through the layer of window paper.
For Faye Wong, who does not love to express, the only way for her to vent her emotions is to write a diary, and for love is no exception, and then Faye Wong's mother found that her daughter's grades declined, she secretly looked at Faye Wong's diary, and the two had a big fight, and Faye Wong's "first love" was gone.
Later, after taking the college entrance examination and going through a formality, Faye Wong moved to Hong Kong with her family, and also worshiped her father's friend Dai Sicong as a teacher and began her own path as a singer.
At that time, Faye Wong would go back to Beijing to hang out for a walk, and every time she would find people in the rock circle to play with, she slowly met Luan Shu, the keyboard player of the Black Panther Band, and over time, the two sparked.
In her spare time, Faye Wong will run to the lair of the Panther Band with her own boyfriend Luan Shu, and call everyone inside a brother, not only that, Faye Wong also helps the Panther Band match and makes it a beyond master.
It was also here that Faye Wong met true love.
Three
When Faye Wong first met Dou Wei singing, her eyes were full of stars, and at that time she was like seeing an idol, full of admiration, and over time, Faye Wong was deeply attracted to Dou Wei.
Once, the Black Panthers held a celebration banquet after the performance, at that banquet, everyone basically drank too much, And Faye Wong and Dou Wei were sent out to buy food, but who knew that the two of them did not come back all night.
According to insiders, Faye Wong and Dou Wei went out and went straight back to the courtyard where Dou Wei lived, and the two people walked out of the room the next day.
However, what makes people curious is that what happened that night did not seem to make the relationship between Dou Wei and Faye Wong go further, Dou Wei still called Faye Wong "Little Wang", perhaps At that time, Dou Wei was more inclined to his first love girlfriend Jiang Xin, so there was no intention of breaking up, but Faye Wong was moved to be serious and proposed to break up with Luan Shu.
After that, Faye Wong, who was far away in Hong Kong, often mailed packages to Dou Wei, but what she didn't know was that every time the packages were opened by Dou Wei and Jiang Xin. Faye Wong is very sweet, she knows that Dou Wei likes to sing, so she sent him a box of CD records, in addition, she also wrote a full two pages of letters to Dou Wei, and the last sentence of the letter was: "Can you not call me Xiao Wang again in the future?" "
Perhaps it was precisely because of this sentence that Jiang Xin had doubts, but some of Dou Wei's actions did not fall into any handle, so Jiang Xin was not good at borrowing the topic to play, and this matter was so rampant between the two of them, until it became uncontrollable later.
In 1991, Dou Wei suddenly left the Panther Band and formed a dream band by himself, there are rumors that at this time, Dou Wei and Faye Wong are together, the reason why he left the Panther is because he does not want to meet with Luan Shu awkwardly, of course, as for whether the rumors are true or false, we don't know.
The next year, Dou Wei's dream band began its first performance, Dou Wei regarded this performance as very important, Jiang Xin even made up special makeup, presumably to meet the dawn of victory with him, but did not expect that after the performance, Dou Wei first looked for Faye Wong, and the two people met and left.
Jiang Xin was very angry after learning about it, after finding out the hotel where Faye Wong lived, she killed her in a hurry, even if she was blocked by bodyguards at the hotel door, she broke through hard, when she knocked on the hotel door, she should regret breaking in, right?
Four
As soon as he knocked on the door, Jiang Xin saw Dou Wei and Faye Wong with wet hair, both of them looked at her with a smile, and the angry Jiang Xin turned and ran, but what was strange was that Dou Wei and Jiang Xin did not break up on the spot, perhaps at this time Dou Wei was still lamenting his charm, after all, it was very powerful to let two excellent women like him at the same time.
After that, Dou Wei and Jiang Xin broke up, as for the exposure of the feelings of Dou Wei and Faye Wong, it was still after the photos of the two queuing up to go to the public toilet in 1995 were exposed, that day, the rumors about the two people were boiling, and the next year, the two were married and entered the palace of marriage.
However, it is regrettable that not long after the two got married, Dou Wei and Gao Yuan got together.
In fact, as early as 1994, Dou Wei and Gao Yuan knew each other, at that time Gao Yuan was a videographer, the relationship between the two was a bit ambiguous, maybe at that time the two people had feelings for each other, but Faye Wong did not know.
Until one day in 1999, after Faye Wong finished her hard work, she wanted to give Dou the only surprise, but she didn't expect it, but Dou Wei gave her a fright.
Faye Wong returned home, but found that there were two pairs of slippers at the door, there was a man and a woman in the room "doing games" the sound came out, Faye Wong opened the door, she caught Dou Wei and Gao Yuan two people in bed, this time Faye Wong did not choose to forgive, resolutely chose to divorce, sentenced to death for this marriage that lasted for three years, as for the daughter of the two Dou Jingtong is living with Faye Wong, there are rumors that Faye Wong is worried that Dou Wei is too casual and can't take care of her daughter, so she will take her daughter away, as for the real reason, We don't know.
It was also in that year that Dou Wei publicly declared: This is my lover, Gao Yuan. Nicholas Tse pursued Faye Wong fiercely after learning of her divorce.
What people have to mention is Dou Wei's view of the marriage with Faye Wong: "I feel that this is a conspiracy, she is always busy outside, the opportunity for the two of us to meet is rare, and we can't even say a few words..."
After Dou Wei and Faye Wong divorced, they came together with Gao Yuanzheng and were married again in 2002, and in June of that year, the marriage procedures were completed, and the daughter of the two was born in August.
Rock music with the change of the times, like fireworks fleeting, but Dou Wei can not see the reality, but all the "loneliness" attributed to the back of the divorce, not only do not want to follow the trend, but stagnated, it is estimated that it is because of this that led to his divorce from Gao Yuan.
Five
With the "obsolescence" of rock music, Dou Wei's career has also plummeted, and the money he earns will naturally decrease, but he himself does not care, wearing affordable clothes every day, eating 10 yuan of noodles, and the daily expenditure should not exceed 50 yuan, but such a life is unbearable for Gao Yuan, so she chose to divorce in 2004.
It is said that the divorce road between the two did not go smoothly, and the quarrel was very stiff, and Dou Wei's view of this marriage was: "This is a conspiracy..." In Dou Wei's view, Gao Yuan and his marriage plan is his fame and money, and when he no longer has these, Gao Yuan kicked him away, and then Dou Wei also publicly accused Gao Yuan of taking the daughter of the two away, and attributed the reason why the two people were together at the beginning to revenge his ex-boyfriend Ding Wu.
However, Gao Yuan's attitude towards Dou Wei has not changed, and he has always called him a very pure musician.
I thought that life would continue so plainly, but I didn't expect that there would be such a rough time.
In 2006, an article titled "Dou Wei Gave Gao Yuan 500 Yuan a Month living Expenses Ding Wu Persuaded Him to See a Psychiatrist" was published, and its author was Zhuo Wei.
It is said that before this article was published, Zhuo Wei had approached Dou Wei and wanted to interview him, but he was rejected, and it did not take long for Zhuo Wei to publish this article.
Dou Wei was very angry after seeing it, and ran directly to the door of the newspaper office, wanting to ask for an explanation, but who knew that after waiting for three hours, he was not received, and then Dou Wei did not know what he thought, and directly lit a fire at the door of the newspaper office and burned Zhuo Wei's car.
However, Dou Wei did not run away after setting the fire, but chose to turn himself in, and was later taken away by the police, not only needing to apologize publicly, but also paying 7,000 yuan.
Later, Dou Wei seemed to want to open, concentrated on studying his own music, and became a behind-the-scenes person, until 2009, when he was once again exposed to a new love affair, and this time the object of love was only a small fan, named Chen Ran.
Rumors say that the acquaintance of the two people still comes from the car burning case in 2006, the day Dou Wei was released, he walked with his head down in frustration, but suddenly looked up and saw a little girl holding a banner, and that person was Chen Ran, a pure fan of Dou Wei.
Today, the 51-year-old Dou Wei seems to have become a middle-aged man who has been blessed, and there is a little baldness, but fortunately, there is still a person around him to accompany him, it is said that the two have a daughter, and life is also happy.
In fact, Dou Wei's attitude towards feelings, more from the influence of his parents, the divorce of his parents brought him a lot of harm, although not to disbelieve in love, but a bit of "game of human" meaning, it can be seen how huge the influence of the original family on a person, and he likes rock, why not find himself in rock, some misfortunes in life, need to vent, and singing has become the best way to vent.
There are actually many ways to vent, some people choose to sing, some people choose to exercise, some people choose to eat, some people choose to cry, I don't know which way will you choose in front of the screen? Every adult has a moment of collapse, I hope that everyone can find their own way to vent, welcome to leave your impressions in the comment area, more exchanges.
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