If there is no Dou Wei, Faye Wong may not have her current achievements.
Back then, Dou Wei dominated the rock music scene, a flute played superbly, but he had a temperament that was not stained by fireworks in the world, and was called "Dou Xian'er", and the queen of heaven fell for it and gave birth to his daughter.
But now, judging from the photos exposed by the media, Dou Wei has long lost his fairy spirit, and he is a bald and decadent greasy uncle at the bottom of society. On the contrary, his ex-wife Faye Wong has lived as a light, dazzling.
The contrast of the explosion also makes Dou Wei on the hot search several times a year, some people say that he wants to make a comeback, but his career has never been brilliant.
Dou Wei, who was frustrated in the workplace, was not proud in love, and gave birth to two daughters with his two wives, but he was not by his side.
However, his life seems simple, but he has done a great thing for his two daughters, not a good husband, but a good father.
Dou Wei is gifted in music.
In 1969, he was born in a courtyard house in Beijing, his father is a wind musician, under the influence of his ears and eyes, Dou Wei has been familiar with music and rhythm since he was a child, he began to play the flute at the age of 5, and began to perform on stage at the age of 6, and is a "musical prodigy" in the mouth of his neighbors.
After graduating from junior high school, Dou Wei, whose cultural performance was not very good, could only choose to go to vocational high school and study psychiatric nursing.
This major requires learning music so that the patients who will be cared for in the future can calm the patients' emotions, which is a course that makes Dou Wei very happy.
However, the good times didn't last long, and it didn't take long for him to find out that the so-called music teacher was just a number, and his level was not as good as his own.
Since then, his studies have become more serious, and he began to teach himself foreign songs, break dancing, and gradually became a famous "break king" in the capital.
Especially in 1985, when the United Kingdom mighty band came to perform in China, Dou Wei was completely fascinated by rock music, driven by love, he was admitted to the Beijing Youth Light Music Troupe, and began to go in and out of large and small occasions.
Some people say that after listening to Dou Wei's songs, they know that today's music scene is just a piece of chicken feathers.
At the age of 18, with a cappella and powerful music, Dou Wei successfully attracted the attention of Guo Chuanlin, a big brother in the rock circle, and soon parachuted into the Black Panther Orchestra and successfully launched the "Black Panther" album.
This album, which is almost entirely composed by Dou Wei, became an instant hit in the market after an interview, with genuine sales exceeding 1.5 million copies, and pirated copies even more exaggerated to 30 million.
However, when the Black Panther was in full swing, Dou Wei unexpectedly chose to quit.
For Guo Chuanlin's sentence "You can't sing the song of the panther when you leave, otherwise we will not survive," so far, Dou Wei really has never sung a song of the panther.
After quitting Black Panther, Dou Wei turned around and formed the Dream Band, which launched the avant-garde album "Black Dream", which was like Wang Bang, which exploded in the Chinese rock orchestra, and his god-like singing skills completely conquered rock fans, making them boil and scream for it.
In the early 90s, in the Hung Hom Coliseum in Hong Kong, Dou Wei's black suit and indifferent expression formed an explosive contrast with the boiling stage rhythm of the scene, and the scene was chaotic for a while.
After this performance, Dou Wei was quickly regarded as "Dou Xian'er" by the outside world.
And Dou Wei, who is playing a flute and wearing a suit on stage, has also become the dream of countless girls, and the impact and madness are no less than the little fresh meat in today's music scene.
At the same time, Faye Wong was photographed by the paparazzi walking out of Dou Wei's house, wearing pajamas, unkempt, and the relationship between Dou Wei and Faye Wong was exposed.
Since then, Dou Wei has been dragged into the whirlpool of entertainment scandals, and people's attention to him has gradually shifted from music to love and hate with the queen.
At that time, Dou Wei and Faye Wong's ex-boyfriend Luan Shu were both in the Black Panther Band, and Dou Wei also had a girlfriend, who was the band's lead singer Jiang Xi.
In that vigorous love triangle, the queen became the final winner, and in 1996, she gave birth to Dou Jingtong unmarried, and the family of three lived in an old courtyard house in the center of Beijing.
After getting married, Dou Wei took over the production of all Faye Wong's songs, and pushed Faye Wong to the peak of her career step by step.
originally thought that the husband and wife, like-minded and soul-resonant, should live the life of a fairy couple, but in less than two years, the filter of happiness was shattered.
As the peak moment of Chinese rock passed, domestic rock bands began to be abandoned by the market, and Dou Wei could only go to bars to sing, with a humble salary and an embarrassing situation, the gap between him and Faye Wong was increasing day by day.
And more importantly, as early as 1994, another important woman in Dou Wei's life has already appeared.
She is the photographer Gao Yuan, and she is responsible for shooting the concert at the Hung Hom Stadium, which is famous in the music scene.
Dou Wei, who exudes charm all over his body, is destined to belong to more than just one woman.
Out of the cooperative relationship, Dou Wei and Gao Yuan spend more time together than Faye Wong, and after Faye Wong's coffee position rose directly, she often stayed in Hong Kong to record songs, while Dou Wei became a lonely empty room, coming and going, and the two were ambiguous.
Gradually, Dou Wei crossed the red line, became a sweet couple with Gao Yuan, and gradually drifted away from Faye Wong. Even when traveling with Takahara in Japan was photographed by the paparazzi, the identity of the couple was revealed.
In the end, Faye Wong failed miserably in this love triangle, and when Dou Jingtong was two years old, the two parted ways.
Dou Wei married Gao Yuan in 2002 and gave birth to her daughter Dou Jiayuan the following year.
However, the stolen marriage was not happy, Dou Wei was damaged because of the image of the "negative man", and the rock industry was in a slump, and his income plummeted.
And Dou Wei still wants to be the male protagonist and the female protagonist, and Gao Yuan is not willing to stay at home to be a yellow-faced woman, the two have their own opinions, quarrel constantly, and in the end, Dou Wei thinks that he is not suitable for marriage and decisively ends the second marriage.
After all, no one resonates with the spiritual world of the genius, and the two women related to it are also scarred.
In the later period, although Dou Wei released albums every year, the music style had already changed from a little rock and roll metal atmosphere to a vague atmosphere, and people gradually began to fall silent.
Guo Chuanlin took him out to relieve his boredom, seeing that more and more friends came, Dou Wei turned around and left, his life was as calm as water, except for writing songs and painting.
Later, Dou Wei, who was exposed by the paparazzi, became a bald middle-aged greasy man, the former "Dou Xian'er" is no longer recalled, and the top stream of an era has finally been submerged by time.
Dou Wei looks down on life, everything is simple, ignoring the world, and the only thing he cares about is his two daughters.
Divorced twice, his two daughters were not able to stay by his side, but he did not miss his daughter's growth, as long as his daughters wanted to go out to play, and even devote themselves to the music career, he did not hesitate to support him.
Maybe it's an effort to make up for his absurd behavior back then, or it may be due to the nature of family affection that blood is thicker than water.
He lives in the old courtyard house in Beijing, and often takes his two daughters to play in the courtyard, and the sisters have a deep relationship, which makes Dou Wei extremely relieved and happy.
I am afraid that the happiness of daughters is the hope of all fathers in this world.
In 2010, the impoverished Dou Wei did a big thing, he sold his only courtyard house and secretly bought a house for his two daughters, just to fulfill the responsibility of a father.
When the real estate certificate was handed over to the two daughters many years later, people realized that the once bohemian rock and roll youth was still pure in heart.
Dou Wei's sister once said in an interview that it was a matter of minutes if Dou Wei wanted to make money, but he resolutely didn't open his mouth to sing again, and none of you knew his personality.
From the dazzling new star who attracted the attention of thousands of people, to the sloppy greasy uncle, Dou Wei's spiritual world must have undergone countless baptisms, how Dou Wei was so silent, no one could guess his heart.
People can only get a glimpse or two from what he said: the greatest salvation of a person is to quiet himself.
Quiet, everything is simple, freewheeling, this may be the path that the genius is taking, that's all.
Dou Wei is still writing songs, but he only writes them to those who understand.