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The times are different, before talking about the relationship between parents and children, the title is relatively decent, even if parents often say that they hope that the relationship with their children is like friends, children will not feel so.
However, it seems to be a little different now, some young mothers are really pioneering, and the way of raising children is also very special. There was a hot mom who raised her child as a cowherd before, and from a young age, she was dressed as a cowherd, from hairstyle to clothing...
This Ryuya Yuki, who is known as the smallest cowherd in history, has also been on a show, and her every move is no different from that of an adult cowherd, and the way she speaks is completely unlike that of a child.
The evaluation of Ruya on the Internet is mixed, and many people are still not very receptive to raising children as cowherds.
Some raise their children as cowherds, and some raise their children as little boyfriends. Sometimes I can often hear young mothers sweetly call their sons "my little boyfriend", and the son is also very good at saying sweet words to please his mother.
Recently, supermodel Yuri Mirai was scolded for calling her son a little boyfriend.
Yuri Higahara, who has been debuting for many years, is 40 years old this year, but looking at her face, she can't see that she is 40 years old, and she is definitely one of the beautiful witches in the frozen age world.
Because she was in the same state as when she was working as a model for the magazine "CanCam", it also gave her an additional title of "Miracle 40".
Tomoari Higahara, who married in 2009, now has a 9-year-old son. Recently, she released her own new photo album, and also held a press conference to promote the photo album.
At the press conference, a reporter asked her how she spent her 40th birthday, and she smiled and replied that she had received a painting from her 9-year-old son, and sang to celebrate her birthday... It was originally a very warm picture, but the next sentence attracted a lot of criticism, because she said that "my son makes me deer bump every day like a little boyfriend.".
In fact, just looking at this sentence is to be able to understand the love of Tomoari Sasahara for his son, and there is no other thought in the original intention of saying this sentence, how can netizens still feel that it is inappropriate to say so.
Tomoari Higahara is not the first artist to be scolded by netizens for calling her son a little boyfriend, and Tsuji Tsujimi of the former Good Morning Girls Group has had the same experience.
Tsuji, who has three boys and one daughter after marriage, usually loves to post her baby on social networks.
Interaction with children takes up a big part of life, and the photos shared look very loving.
However, once when sharing a photo with my sons, the caption read "My little boyfriends" and added the same tag.
Such a practice has also been criticized by many netizens:
Little boyfriend... disgusting! Your own children are just children, why should they be boyfriends.
It seems that there are still many people who say that their son is a little boyfriend, and it is really disgusting to treat their son as a boyfriend. What do you expect your son to do for you, and what if a dad takes his daughter as a girlfriend? It should be treated as abuse, the mother does the same, the son and the lover are completely different.
I don't want the kind of mother who will say that her son is a "little boyfriend" to be her mother-in-law, which is absolutely like a swamp.
It was disgusting to say that his son was a little boyfriend and then kiss him mouth to mouth. I love my son too, but I can't kiss him mouth to mouth. If the future girlfriend or wife knows and pays it back, I can't accept this kind of husband.
Conversely, what would you think if you saw a father calling his daughter "little girlfriend"? Obviously it's the same thing (vomit)
It is disgusting for a father to treat his daughter as a little girlfriend, but a mother does not feel disgusting when he treats his son as a little boyfriend, so it is not right, no matter which one is very disgusting. A daughter is a daughter, a son is a son, not a boyfriend or a girlfriend, although it is a child born to herself, but it is not her own property, it is really disgusting.
In fact, when I first saw the mother's title of her son's "little boyfriend", I believe that many people did not want to speculate on malice, only if there was a loving interaction between mother and son.
However, as netizens said, when this situation is changed to father and daughter, when the father calls his daughter "little girlfriend", it seems that there are more people who cannot accept it. In essence, the two are the same, and they will not be more acceptable than father and daughter because they are replaced by mother and son. However, I also believe that any title that all parents call their children begins with love, not mixed with other ideas.
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