In today's headlines, search for the three letters of "pua" and you will find a lot of news reports. The object of pua, like a madman, is not like a normal person who can behave, so what is PUA? I recommend a movie "Under the Gaslight", after watching it, I understand what PUA is, and I understand the horror of PUA.
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Paula, after the unexpected death of her aunt, inherited a large inheritance left by her aunt. Anton, who has an unhealthy heart, sets his sights on Paula and starts acting against Allah PUA.
1, do not give the opportunity to think calmly
Anton passionately pursues Paula, who is extremely loveless, sweet-talking, and expresses his desire to get married urgently. After Paula said that she wanted to calm down and think, Anton did not give Paula a chance to think, and chose to wait at the end of Paula. During the lake recreation, the conversation does not depart from the description of the sweet days after marriage, luring marriage. He also began to lure Allah on his honeymoon trip after marriage to live in the old House of London, the house where his aunt had been killed.
2. Isolation
Anton learned that Paula had an old house in London and began to constantly recount his love for London and the warm construction of his family.
The target is an old house in London Square, where he and Paula can live. Let Paula live in a new environment to an unfamiliar environment, cutting off paula's connection with her current friends.
After coming to the new environment, continue to cut off Paula's establishment of new communication bridges with the outside world. Interrupt Paula's chat with the new neighbor and cut off the opportunity for the neighbor to express his usual communication.
After coming to the new home, he said that he would dispose of the old things, cut off paula's connection with old things, and let Paula's environment be completely replaced by a completely unfamiliar environment.
When arranging the maid, cut off the connection between Paula and the maid. Anton chose servants for the house, a deaf maid and an arrogant maid. He also instructed the maid not to disturb Paula, and instilled that Paula had neurotic tendencies. And, let the arrogant servant instill the idea of being able to despise the hostess.
3. Fight Paula's self-confidence
When everything is in order, he begins to instill Paula in a habit of losing everything, implying that Paula is a person who loses everything, denying and belittling Paula, and labeling her as forgetful.
Anton asks Paula to bring a gem brooch, which also shows the importance of this gem, telling her not to lose it (metaphorically she will lose it because you are a person who loses everything), but took the opportunity to put it away. After Paula discovers that the gem brooch is missing, she inadvertently mentions that Paula has a habit of losing everything on the way. Also, hinting at the importance of gemstones, gems are alive and constantly stimulate Paula's nerves, making Paula's guilt and guilt worse.
After returning home, he exposes Paula's loss of gems, sits on Paula's loss of the gem, and inadvertently accuses Paula of losing the gems. And constantly guide Paula, let Paula add a forgetful label, so that Paula began to question her memory.
In daily life, Paula told the maid about it, but the maid said that she had already said it. Paula said the coal lamp was too dim and wanted to question whether the gas had been turned on. The maid is still constantly denying Paula's speculations, everything is telling Paula that this is your hallucination, making Paula begin to become suspicious of whether everything she sees is an illusion.
The servants, who tend to take care of Paula according to their nervous tendencies, begin to discourage Paula's interest in going out, constantly asking Paula why she went out, letting Paula go out and returning home, cutting off contact with the outside world. And let Paula subconsciously follow Anton's instructions and carry out all activities according to Anton's preferences.
Anton constantly denied all of Paula's activities, saying that it was all done by the servants. Began to give orders to Paula and continued to train. After calling out to the servant, Anton takes the opportunity to praise the maid, which further frustrates Paula's self-confidence. After Paula questions Anton, Anton labels Paula as fantasistic, saying that he didn't do that and did things according to Paula's ideas. The servants' contempt for Paula is interpreted as everything is Paula's own fantasy, and Paula admits it herself.
Finally, let Paula sit on her own and believe that she is sick and fantasizing.
When the new neighbors come to visit, Paula refuses to contact anyone in the outside world. And makes Paula think it's her own problem, and further makes Paula wonder if she's afraid of the maid. Anton tells Paula that she's going to a party or something like that tonight, and Paula says you didn't tell me and starts to suspect that she's really forgetful. Anton also took the opportunity to make Paula admit that he had hidden the painting in the room and asked her to take it out.
Anton's environment in his own home, debugging the brightness of the coal lamp makes Paula think that she is hallucinating. Anton also walked through the roof of another house through the roof of Aunt Allah's inheritance every night under the pretext that he wanted to work, constantly rummaging through things. Let Paula think that it is her own auditory hallucinations, ask the servant, the deaf servant indicates that it is Paula's hallucinations, Paula lives in such an environment.
At a banquet that Paula insisted on going to, Anton initially refused, but then, under Paula's tough attitude, had to follow. At the banquet, Anton repeats the trick and says that his watch is missing. And rummaged through Paula's bag and found the watch. Paula collapses, and Anton humiliates Paula at the banquet, and pulls Paula out of the unfinished party, telling the receptionist that Paula is ill before leaving. Let Paula completely fear socializing, shrinking into such an old house, clinging to Anton.
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The whole movie is filled with a psychological sense of oppression, fully feeling the horror of PUA. Paula in the movie is finally saved by a detective, but in real life, unfortunate girls like Bao Li have no angels to come to save them. It's horrible to stay away from PUA.