Whether you're a man or a woman, in love or married, ask yourself:
Can you accept your partner getting tangled up with his or her ex?
I can't.
"Goodbye Lover" has an interview program. Guo Keyu mentioned her ex, who is much older than herself, and has influenced and helped her in all aspects of her. Her ex was not married and had gout. During their marriage, she was going to take care of her ex, and Zhang He agreed.
She was very happy and touched by this. She remembered it vividly: Zhang He said that if he needed his help, he could take care of it.
Really, I don't know how to have the heart and strength to support a man, can not care about his wife, to take care of the ex with her has various emotional bonds.
When I was a child, I watched Guo Keyu play the role of "crazy man" in the TV series "Life Show". It feels like she's sunny, free, and has a personality. However, in that era, there was no such development as the current search engine, computer equipment was rare, and there was even no internet connection at all.
It wasn't until I watched the first episode of "Goodbye Lover" that I recognized it, isn't this the goddess of my childhood? So when I saw that Zhang He was good to Guo Keyu, I especially hoped that the two of them could remarry and he could bring her happiness.
However, when I saw this clip of the interview, I was disappointed in the goddess. Because I know deep down that my lover is obsessed with his ex, how much of a blow to himself?
I really can't accept that.
I am completely intolerant of my goddess, who has to take care of her ex when she is married.
Why is my lover married to me and still entangled with my ex? He's sick and you're going to take care of him?
To use an analogy. For example, if you are married, you will not have a surplus of your own life. Even the main source of income comes from you. Most of the money in the family is earned by you. It just so happens that your current incumbent wants to take the money of the two of you, or even if it is completely your hard-earned money, to help his or her ex, are you willing to do it?
This side spends the money you earn, and this side imagines that earning money is good for the ex. Or take the money you earn and give it to the ex to spend, do you accept it?
To use another analogy, whether you and the other person are in love or have been married. Your partner always mentions in your ear his or her bits and pieces with the ex, good and bad. Even words reveal nostalgia, or the irreplaceability of the other party, can you tolerate it?
Whether you're a man or a woman, can you accept your partner being with yourself and still thinking about others? Thinking especially about his (her) ex, do you accept it?
Today he had gout, and she went to take care of it. Tomorrow he had a fever and she went to take care of it. The day after tomorrow he was depressed, and she went to be relieved again. Do you believe that there is a particularly pure friendship between a man and a woman, especially he or she and his or her ex, together, and there is no resurgence of old feelings, or something else?
In my opinion, the best relationship with an ex is a stranger.
Stop bothering each other and don't dwell on each other. It is best to have nothing to do with each other in this life and never see each other again.
I admit that I still see Guo Keyu's good in the show. Her forbearance to Zhanghe, her intellectuality, her literature and art, her singing well. But why would you tell your current partner that you're going to take care of your gout ex?
Out of curiosity, I went to check guo Keyu's predecessor. He is a director, but after Guo Keyu, he has fallen in love with several other female stars. Why did you break up for many years, he also found other women, you know you have a husband, you have to take care of other men?
From this point of view, are you fair to your husband (Zhang he)?
To put it mildly, since you are so reluctant and can't forget your ex, you go to him (her). What are you doing with me? Are you with me just to stimulate me and let me know how hot the love between you is?
Me, as a woman. I can't accept that my man is still thinking of other women and being nice to other women. It was particularly unacceptable that he was thinking of his ex. Take my hard-earned money and "do filial piety" to my ex-girlfriend.
Empathize. If you are Zhang He, can you accept Guo Keyu to take care of your ex?
Therefore, no matter how good Guo Keyu is, she still has to take care of her ex-boyfriend when she is already married, which I firmly cannot accept.
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