The details are not "details", but the heart, a serious attitude and persistent spirit.
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（1）
Zhou Yang liked to eat coriander, and since she can remember, she has been fascinated by that taste.
When she was young, her parents were busy working hard and couldn't take care of her, so they lost it to their grandparents in their hometown.
Northerners generally prefer to eat pasta, especially dumplings. Whenever she got good grades in the exams or was praised by her teachers, her grandmother always made dumplings to reward her.
The love of the elderly is never reasonable, and will always let you eat enough food that they think is the best to eat.
Zhou Yang liked to eat dumplings at that time, and coriander egg trap was her favorite.
After entering junior high school, because I live on campus, I can only go home on weekends. Grandma was upset that she hadn't eaten well at school, and every time she wrapped the dumplings of coriander eggs and waited for her to go back.
It was a snowy day, there were no coriander in the nearby market, and Grandma carried a basket to the town a few kilometers away. Unexpectedly, the truck overturned halfway and pressed Grandma under the car.
When Zhou Yang rushed back, Grandma had closed her eyes forever.
Since then, Zhou Yang has never eaten coriander again.
In the years we've known each other, we've eaten together many times, and she's almost never picky, except for coriander.
No matter which dish is in it, as long as the coriander is placed, she will not move the chopsticks.
Many people know this habit of hers, some people feel arrogant, some people feel that they do not understand, and some people feel that there is nothing wrong with it.
Although I don't know the reason behind it, everyone can still respect her simple dislike.
We eat together, and when we order, I will specifically tell the waiter not to put coriander.
Perhaps it was because of this small gesture that Zhou Yang felt that I was trustworthy and always regarded me as my best friend.
（2）
Zhou Yang has a boyfriend who has talked for three years, and went with his boyfriend to meet his parents during the Mid-Autumn Festival.
The boyfriend's name is Liu Hao, Sven Sven, and he wears a pair of thick glasses.
The two have reached the age of talking about marriage, and they are only one foot away from the door.
Uncles and aunts are very good, specially prepared a very rich dinner, the staple food is Zhou Yang's favorite dumplings.
It can be seen that they should have asked Liu Hao in advance, such as whether Zhou Yang had anything he didn't eat, or something he particularly liked to eat.
It was obvious that Liu Hao's parents were very satisfied with this future daughter-in-law.
When it came to the staple food link, just after eating a bite of dumplings, Zhou Yang felt the taste of full of coriander.
Liu Hao actually didn't know that she never ate coriander?
Although it is very taboo, considering that the parents of the boyfriend are meeting for the first time, the necessary etiquette should still be there, Zhou Yangqiang endured the bitterness in his heart and reluctantly ate a dumpling.
Liu Hao's mother saw that she did not like to eat, and asked her hard whether the dumplings were not delicious, whether she was full, and whether she needed to put down a bowl of noodles.
Zhou Yang was inconvenient to say more, so he had to push that he had eaten well and refused his aunt's kindness.
Liu Hao on the side was not happy.
"Don't you like dumplings a lot?"
"Usually, your meal is more than that much?"
"Isn't there something uncomfortable?"
A series of questions made Zhou Yang overwhelmed, and the parents on the side were also embarrassed, fortunately, Liu Hao's father was still humorous, a sentence "Girls are popular for dieting and weight loss" is considered to give Zhou Yang a step.
On the way back, Zhou Yang was sullen and unhappy, and the more he thought about it, the more angry he felt, and he couldn't help but scold Liu Hao.
"You know I don't eat coriander, and I told you why, so did you forget it so quickly?"
Liu Hao's face was impatient, and he could see that he was also forcibly suppressing the fire.
"What's wrong with eating some coriander?" You are usually picky eaters, even if it is, my parents have been busy all day, and they have to give them some face, I have never seen you so ignorant of etiquette! ”
Zhou Yang was very aggrieved, and he simply did not eat coriander.
In Liu Hao's heart, not only could not understand her pain, but also complained a lot outside the words, and even attributed all the reasons to her picky eating, accusing her of being out of control and not being polite.
Where is the usual gentle and considerate boyfriend?
The two broke up unhappily.
（3）
In the period after that, they quarreled many times.
Zhou Yang said that when she ate with Liu Hao, she said that she did not eat coriander, Liu Hao did not ask why, she took the initiative to say it herself, presumably Liu Hao did not pay attention to it.
I also feel quite surprised, according to the reason, after three years of love, the girlfriend is so obvious habits, Liu Hao should not be unaware of the reasons.
Zhou Yang was full of bitter smiles, not only this matter, but also many things are like this.
The clothes and shoes that Liu Hao bought for her were rarely worn, either too big, too small, or too ugly.
Liu Hao didn't seem to notice this, and never asked her why, if he didn't wear it, he wouldn't wear it, anyway, his heart was fulfilled.
At first, she thought that Liu Hao was too straight, inexperienced, and a lot of small details were not paid attention to.
After mentioning it gently a few times, Zhou Yang found that things were not at all what she thought.
Liu Hao has said more than once that it is good to receive gifts, where is there so much exquisiteness?
After talking too much, Liu Hao began to lose her temper, saying that she was too pretentious, did not understand gratitude, and was not polite and less educated.
In his view, giving gifts is to give gifts, and there is no need to be carefully selected.
Zhou Yang did not think about breaking up, but she could not let go of her feelings for three years.
More than a thousand days and nights, does it mean that you can put it down when you put it down?
Until she went to see Liu Hao's parents, she finally understood:
There are only boyfriends who don't love you enough, and there are no straight men who are completely stupid.
When she offered to break up for the last time, Liu Hao agreed.
"You will never meet a man as good as I am to you, you don't know how to cherish, just wait for regret." 」
It was the last thing he said, and after that, he went away.
When Zhou Yang told me that she broke up, to be honest, I was very happy for her.
Between lovers, the hardest thing is to understand.
Some people are doomed to break up from the beginning of falling in love.
epilogue:
In the Buddhist saying, "Five hundred times of looking back in the previous life, in exchange for passing by in this life."
In the vast endless sea of people, two people can meet and know each other, which is the fate cultivated for thousands of years.
Not all fates have a happy ending. If the other party can't even do the minimum understanding and respect, this so-called beautiful encounter is just like adding to the annoyance.
Whether he really loves you or not can be reflected in many details.
Many people's relationships end without a problem, not that time consumes love, but that you find that the other party does not understand you more and more and does not care about your feelings.
Women are sexy and sensitive, and a lot of times, what they care about is not the gift you give her, but that you understand her and know what she wants.
In the world of love, it is not time that is cruel, but the human heart.
You give comfort when I am depressed;
When I am lonely, you give companionship;
You give encouragement when I am cowardly;
When I succeed, you give you a round of applause.
May all lovers who love each other not change their original intentions, understand each other, and warm each other. #情感 #
Light tea and light wine, read the world, taste life and everything.
The rest of life is long, trying to be a fun soul.
I am Mr. Twenty-Eight, taking you through the fog of emotion and reading human nature!
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