The news that the large and small cram schools outside the school were "destroyed" really made parents happy for a long time. My children do not go to cram school, other people's children do not go to cram schools, everyone saves money, and saves effort, the child pressure is small, everyone is standing on the same starting line, what a happy thing!
However, after a short period of joy, many parents are not happy, because they find that their children's starting line is different from birth. The economic strength of the family is not the same, and the parents of the rich can always find a way to let their children start early.
The annual salary is hundreds of thousands, Tsinghua University graduates as nannies, the nanny's academic qualifications are a bit high!
A few days ago, there was a post on the Internet saying that there are Graduates of Tsinghua University who go to work as a live-in nanny, and then the annual salary can get hundreds of thousands of yuan. Some people say, isn't this a waste of talent? Some people also say that this is what a nanny, and at first glance, it is a tutor for the child. Coincidentally, a family in Nanjing is more direct, recruiting tutors with hundreds of thousands of annual salaries, just to tutor children's homework.
Such a thing, we ordinary people just look at it, after all, we don't have the strength to participate in the competition anymore. In the past, children were dozens of people going to cram school together, tens of thousands of dollars a year, and we could also grit our teeth and take it out. Now such a "one-on-one" tutoring is just a game played by rich people themselves. Most ordinary people can only be three words: please!
In fact, "one-on-one" tutoring is also explicitly prohibited
Even if you can afford a "one-on-one" tutor, it is against the rules. The Ministry of Education has a code of conduct that prohibits any organization from providing subject tutoring to students in the name of "domestic service" and "tutor". One-on-one tutoring is also to be investigated, prohibited, and punished.
It is obviously a good thing that students make up classes are explicitly prohibited, reducing the cost of parents raising children and reducing the pressure of children's growth, but many parents are very anxious. This is because the child's academic performance is not good, and it is related to what kind of person the child will become in the future and what kind of work he will do.
Out-of-school training classes have been cancelled and "one-on-one" tutoring has been strictly investigated, so which families' children will have an advantage in learning? Of course, it is those families who can devote some energy and time to carefully and scientifically educate their children.
For example, the child's father or mother is a teacher, who can guide the child to learn correctly and cultivate the child's good learning habits, and the child will win at the starting line.
Children do not make up lessons, how to learn well, is what parents should learn.
First, cultivating children's good learning habits is the secret of children's excellent academic performance.
Good study habits make it more effective for children to learn with less effort. Some children always seem to have time to play, and that's because they are more efficient at learning. Listen carefully to the lectures in class, summarize the learning experience after class, and do the exercises without procrastination. Good habits for children will make learning an easy thing.
People's IQs are all the same, but their habits are very different. When the child has just entered school, it is the best time to develop good habits, and parents will work hard to manage their children for a while, which may make the child's future learning easier.
Second, stimulate children's interest in learning, so that children fall in love with learning.
It is difficult to urge children to learn, and most of the children's academic performance will not be too good. Just like if we are forced to work, we are not as efficient as actively working.
It is important for parents to stimulate their children's interest in learning, from parents forcing me to learn, to my own hard work, the efficiency of which is also much worse. To cultivate children's interest in learning, you can start from giving children encouragement, helping children set up lofty ideals, and so on.
Third, encourage children to study seriously, and do not pay too much attention to academic performance.
Children's academic performance is generally the most concerned by parents, but children's learning attitude should also be our concern. Your child's test scores may be bad, but we can't rush to just look at the scores. If the child's learning attitude is more serious, it is also worthy of our affirmation, and then help the child find a way to improve academic performance, rather than denying all the advantages of the child.
Fourth, guide children's scientific learning methods and improve children's grades.
Every subject that children learn has different learning methods. For example, the study of Chinese should pay attention to the accumulation of daily learning and the improvement of reading volume and reading ability. According to the learning of different subjects of children, parents should help children learn in the most scientific way, which is also a trick to improve children's academic performance.
Tutors can't afford to ask, we come to do our own tutoring, take part of the time and energy every day, use it in the best family education for children, and believe that children will grow up to be very good.