The keyboard entered the two words "Ai Qing", and the two words "love" also came out.
Such a romantic poet linked to love, he has done a lot of poetry, but along with his poetry is his sensational love.
Speaking of love, Ai Qing's love story is a sensation.
In order to chase after his students, Ai Qing did not hesitate to kneel, he not only jumped into the lake to threaten, but even divorced the original Zhang Zhuru.
This man who is desperate for love, how his life ends, let's reveal them one by one.
The love sinus is just beginning
At the beginning of 1936, Ai Qing went to Changzhou Wujin Women's Normal School to teach, and fell in love with female student Zhang Yueqin (later renamed Wei Yan) at first sight. However, after the summer vacation, Ai Qing was told by the school that he was dismissed.
Later, when Ai Qing went to Shanghai, he wrote two letters to Wei Yan and poured out his thoughts.
At that time, Wei Yan was only 15 years old, young and not familiar with the world, and his father learned that his daughter was "harassed" by Ai Qing, so he broke off contact between the two.
Until one day in June 1939, Wei Yan appeared in front of Ai Qing. This reunion gave Ai Qing a chance, and he knew that he must firmly seize this opportunity.
While the two were walking by the lake, Wei Told Ai Qing that her sister had asked her to go to Guiyang to apply for a university.
Ai Qing was extremely depressed when he learned about it, and in an excited mood, he grabbed Wei Yuan with both hands and fell to his knees with a thud: "I love you, I was already in love with you when I was a female teacher in Wujin!" ”
He kissed her hands furiously and said, "I can't leave you, I can't leave for a moment!" ”
Suddenly, he pounded his chest and shouted, "I don't want to live, I jumped down!" Ai Qing was so affectionate, Wei Yan couldn't bear to live up to it, gave up the university, and stayed.
This is reminiscent of a sentence in "The Little Thing About First Love": "If you want to work hard for love, you must do your best to do it, and the people you love will come to you by themselves." ”
If that's the way it is, it's a simple love, but life is always bloody. Ai Qing was married, and zhang Zhuru had a big belly and came to the door.
There was no chicken flying dog jumping, no dog blood sprinkler, Zhang Zhuru learned that Ai Qing wanted to divorce her, and after giving birth to the child, she left, which also fulfilled Ai Qing and Wei Yuan.
On June 20, 1939, the 29-year-old Ai Qing married 18-year-old Wei Yuan.
After the Anhui Incident in early 1941, the situation in Chongqing became very severe. Ai Qing wanted to leave Chongqing, and Wei Yan, who was eight months pregnant, said that even if the child was born in the middle of the road, she would resolutely go to Yan'an.
So Ai Qing risked his life to go to Yan'an to meet Wei Yuan.
One day, Ai Qing got a piece of glue from the art factory of Lu Yiwen College and wanted to make a relief head for his wife. He used those dexterous hands to operate carefully, especially deliberately shaping Wei Yuan's beautiful eyes.
A few days passed, and an oval-shaped, half-sided head gradually emerged. On the dreamy and feminine face of the eight- or nine-inch-sized statue, the tightly closed lips exude a stubborn personality.
Ai Qing carefully buried the statue in a charcoal brazier, and when it was removed, there was no crack.
He meticulously polished the statue to the ideal luminosity, and a lifelike work of art was finally completed.
Mr. and Mrs. Ai Qing have always treasured this symbol of love, always keeping it intact.
As Erich Fromm writes in The Art of Love, love is an art, and to learn love one has to act like any other art—such as music, painting, carpentry, or medical art and technology.
In 1985, Ai Qing was awarded the highest medal of French literature and art, and perhaps love is an art for Ai Qing.
However, with the passage of time and the changes in the environment, their seemingly happy married life has an irreparable rift.
In 1950, Ai Qing filed for divorce, but Wei Yan refused. It wasn't until 1955 that they divorced, ending a sixteen-year marriage.
I only want to win the hearts of one person
After the divorce, Ai Qing was a free person. For love, he still maintains his original intention, and when he meets someone he likes, he boldly pursues it. In 1955, Ai Qing met Gao Ying, who had just transferred to the Chinese Writers Association.
After understanding, the two fell in love, and Gao Ying openly and honestly revealed to Ai Qing that she was married to a fellow countryman before she was eighteen years old, and had two sons. After Ai Qing understood the situation, she still boldly pursued love.
One day in early April 2003, Lu Yu interviewed Ai Qing's wife Gao Ying to talk about the matter, and it was because of Ai Qing's insistence that Gao Ying took the initiative to divorce her husband and walk out of that unfortunate marriage.
"She will truly love him, so she is willing to be his wife, believing that his life will start again," Gao Ying drew with red pen in Tolstoy's novel "Family Happiness".
In 1956, 23-year-old Gao Ying and 46-year-old Ai Qing finally became family members after a year of acquaintance.
As Anne Lades said, "Love is fiery friendship, quiet understanding, mutual trust, shared enjoyment and forgiveness." Love is faithfulness that is not affected by time, space, conditions, or environments. Love is about learning from each other's strengths and acknowledging each other's weaknesses. ”
Lu Yu came up with an emotion after the interview: I think the most beautiful love is to start vigorously, and then two people have lovers and eventually become dependents, and then they will fight each other for a lifetime.
I think that ai qing and Gao Ying's love is like this, talking about Ai Qing, although I can't see the eyes of old man Gao Ying, I believe that at that time, her eyes must be full of love.
Gao Ying once wrote a poem with the title of "Vine", "She is the most affectionate, and whoever she falls in love with will be entangled with for a lifetime."
In her poem "Mountains and Clouds", Gao Ying also deeply expressed her deep feelings for Ai Qing.
It is the attachment of the mountain to the cloud, and it is the entanglement of the cloud to the mountain. Without the clouds, how lonely the mountains are, how lonely the clouds are without the company of the mountains.
From the beginning of the union in 1956, Gao Ying and Ai Qing were never separated until The death of Ai Qing on May 5, 1996.
The story of Gao Ying and Ai Qing was also written into a book.
Xin Yiwu wrote in "To the Youth We Will Eventually Pass Away": We may meet many people in our lives, sometimes just on the same road, we will walk together for a while, until we meet the person who really wants to spend a lifetime together, we will give the rest of the journey to this person, and go to the end together.
Gao Ying is to Ai Qing, the person who accompanies him to the end.
Love feelings
Ai Qing, who had tasted sour, sweet, bitter, and spicy love, wrote a poem about love:
In this world, everything is ancient, only love, but it is always young;
This world is full of weirdness, only love, but always innocent.
As long as there is love, the fish swim in the water, the birds fly in the sky, and the night is transparent; the love is lost, the piano with broken strings, the lamp without oil, and the summer is also cold.
Love should know how to cherish, and cherish doubly with the years.
Love, not walking under the bright moon, not sighing on the bench, anything will be ah!
There is mud and snow, because it is necessary to live together for a lifetime, love, just like a beautiful song, but this song is not easy to compose.
This is to treat love as an art.
As psychologist Wu Zhihong said: "People who are good at a certain field are because they respect their feelings in this field." Whether it's food, art, sports or even life, listening to the feelings and being yourself is really a wonderful thing. ”
accomplishment
Ai Qing once said: "I am always eager to create, every day I wake up like a farmer before dawn, and when I wake up, I think about the characters in my poems and the language I should use, and how to make my works improve a little... Even when I was eating, even when I was walking. ”
It is this love that makes Ai Qing a "Chinese poetry hero".
Ai Qing is a master of poetry of the Chinese nation, an outstanding representative of realist poets, and one of the giants of the world poetry world with extensive influence.
In order to commemorate Ai Qing, the state planned to invest in 1994, and in November 1998, it was officially completed as the Ai Qing Poetry Museum, located in Shihezi City, the Eighth Agricultural Division of the Xinjiang Production and Construction Corps.
Ai Qing spent 15 unforgettable years in Shiheziken District, the first poetry museum in China named after a poet, and this honor belongs only to Ai Qing.
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