My husband and I are two people remarried, in the first half of this year I saw his ex-wife sent him a message, they also often called to contact, they have been divorced for more than ten years, is it the recurrence of old feelings?
From 04 we experienced a thousand obstacles, after the judgment of each divorced, we remarried, can be described as for love at all costs, came together, more than ten years of life grinding, in fact, is not very smooth, noisy and noisy time will often have, I also feel that although we have been so in love, but there are still many contradictions in really living together, we have a lot of things are different opinions, he thinks that what he says and does is right, he has a big temper, there is no patience, if I give him a calculation, It's hard to live.
In fact, I am very generous, generally do not argue with him, afraid of children's jokes, but also afraid of neighbors and colleagues jokes. Think about it, he was good to me after all, and he loved me, but sometimes I feel like he regretted it because of remarriage, when I found out that he had his ex-wife's WeChat, I also asked my husband, but where would he admit that there was such a thing, saying that he didn't know who it was, and then he would have to quarrel if he pursued it. I'm not in the mood to argue anymore, it's so tiring, and the life of remarriage is like a glass vase that doesn't necessarily break up one day.
Now I no longer think about whether the vase is really going to break, if my husband is willing to return to his ex-wife, I will not stop it, I have tasted the bittersweet and bittersweet of remarriage, the beautiful love that was once there has long since faded, and the rest is only a kind of maintenance. When you are in love, you feel very sweet, the focus of life will change after marriage, not as romantic as when you are in love, put your energy and time in each other's emotional world, as long as you talk about love well. After entering the married life, the focus should be on life. Just feel a lot of discomfort, you will find contradictions, the reason is attributed to "all changed", in fact, no one has changed, maybe we are only suitable for love, not suitable for marriage. Can you still live by imposing your own views on the other person?
Love and marriage are really two different ideas, when talking about love, there is no family triviality, marriage is inseparable from these problems, including the elderly and children on both sides, as well as some ways to deal with people, these things do not exist when in love, once living together, no matter how to cover up, it is an inconspicuous expression can see each other's feelings. I believe that such a marriage has no taste, it is better to do whatever it wants, the heart should go with people, as long as you think you are right, then let go of others, but also let go of yourself.
I really hope to meet the right person, live a good life, plain is the best, has been an age, can toss for a few years, passionate love has nothing to do with us. Grasp the moment, live happily, improve self-confidence, and be a dignified old man!
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