When I came back from the United States in 2000, I had a small party at the same time as my original. At the same time as seeing the original couple, they chatted well together. Before I knew it, I took out their love story of that year and relished it. Other colleagues gave me eye-catching hints and didn't notice, so they couldn't listen to it and said they were divorced, which made me quite embarrassed.
I've ever heard of such a joke: The original meeting asked: Did you eat? Later it evolved into: Are you leaving? If there is no certain life practice, it is estimated that such ridicule will not become popular.
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1. Rough divorce rate
The internationally consistent rate of divorce recognized by national statistical offices is the figure for divorce per thousand people over a given period of time or in the given year.
The denominator is the total population, the numerator is the number of divorces, and the method of representation is the thousandth rate. Its calculation formula is: the divorce rate of a certain year = (the number of divorces in a certain year / the average total population in a certain year) × 1000 ‰ Because the number of divorces is composed of two people at a time, and the denominator is not proportional, if the average number of people in a certain year are married and then divorce, the number of divorces is 1/2 of the total population, and the divorce rate is only 50%.
2. Fine divorce rate
The minor divorce rate refers to the ratio of the annual number of divorces to the married women's population, which excludes the young female population under marriage age.
3, the divorce rate that ordinary people say
The ratio of the number of divorces to the number of marriages within a certain time frame. The Ministry of Civil Affairs released 2018 provincial social service statistics. Official data shows that in 2018, the number of marriages registered nationwide was 10.108 million pairs, and the number of divorce registrations was 3.8 million. The divorce rate is nearly 38 per cent, which is the ordinary divorce rate.
The divorce rate is now close to 50%, which means that 100 couples get married, and half of them will go to divorce Why?
We need marriage, and marriage can greatly promote our happiness in life. This is a universal human behavior. We have made a lot of efforts to enter the marriage, if we fail, the failure rate is nearly half, it seems discouraging, does it deter some people? I have such a person around me, who sees his brothers and sisters arguing in marriage and gives up trying to get married, and does not talk about love.
We fell in love for half a day, and only entered the marriage after having a relatively full understanding and love foundation. Are the people we hold hands with "scum"? No, it won't. There are still many good people in the world. Marriage is another kind of love between each other, it is the worry of oil, salt, chai rice, and the run-in of pots and pans. Why can't we stand these simple run-in tests? These things are all things that ordinary people can do well.
The divorce rate, which began in 2011, has been rising for nine consecutive years. Sociologists marvel that "Chinese families are collapsing rapidly, and Chinese marriages are ending rapidly."
If the divorce rate is equal to zero, is it right if the divorce rate is low?
It is true that some people are very bad in nature, and then hide well when they are in love, and often commit domestic violence after marriage, that is, they should be divorced. Money, status, popularity, career... Junko Takahata is a well-known actress in Japan. In 2016, Japanese actor Hirota Takahata, 22, was arrested for raping a 40-year-old hotel waitress. Such a person cannot marry, and after marriage, he should also divorce.
In the past, China would marry a chicken with a chicken and a dog with a dog. One of the bad aspects is that no matter how bad the other party is, no matter how unfortunate the marriage is, they cannot divorce, and they can only end their lives in pain, which is extremely inhumane and a manifestation of the backwardness of the social system.
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After every divorced couple parts, there is a lot of hurt, a lot of pain, a lot of loss.
In addition to the usual small quarrels and small troubles, the biggest harm is that human nature, which is opened by love, is blocked by hate. Blocking the passage of human nature, bringing about various losses at the cost of health, is a harm between husband and wife.
Children should get both parents' love, double sense of security, children's feedback love and behavioral interaction should also be with both parents. If it is missing, it is easy to affect the growth of the child's inner love, which is harmful to the child.
The power of love and wisdom is the main force in one's life. If love is missing or the power of love is not enough, it will undoubtedly affect the ability of the whole life.
Although the child is older and married, it will always be a child in the eyes of the parents. If the child's marriage is not happy, the parents must be very worried, and sometimes it will become a kind of self-blame, which is harmful to the parents
Divorce leads to a loss of time, a loss of life, a few years of love, a few years of marriage, and then to the failure of divorce. Time is life, and wasting time is wasting life and energy. Love, married life is laborious, the loss of money.
Family problems are usually one quarrel, two quarrels, three hangings, one quarrel, two dozen, three killings, one quarrel, two dozen, three divorces. As a result, some social security problems have been brought about.
The family is the cell unit of society. A good family is a good society, and a bad family is a bad society. To govern the country, it is necessary to make a better impact on the beauty of the family through culture. Otherwise, the social cost is very good, and there are many factors of instability.
Summary: On the issue of divorce, most of them do not have a win-win situation, only a common loss, lose very badly, and lose undeservedly.