In families with many children, we will always hear such words as "if you are the eldest brother, you must help your younger brothers and sisters", "Our whole family is the most successful for you, and we can count on you in the future."
As the child that the whole family wants, it is usually a tragic figure. For his family, he bears everyone's expectations, strives to carry everything, and in order to change the fate of the family, he is willing to make any sacrifice, including sacrificing his marriage and wife.
Da Su never dreamed that he could marry Xiao Ling.
XiaoLing is a typical urban only child - her father runs her own company, her mother takes care of the family full-time, after graduating from college, Xiaoling and her friends partnered to open a design studio, and now she is financially independent and has a full and stressful life.
In contrast, Dasu's situation is much worse, born and raised in the countryside, and there are two younger siblings in the family. Among the three children, only Dasu studied hard and stayed in the city smoothly after graduation. Da Su is practical and diligent, and has accumulated a lot of contacts and resources since graduating, and with these convenient conditions, he saw the opportunity to leave his original unit and become a small boss.
After marriage, everything is fine, and the days are getting more and more prosperous. By the time of the New Year, Da su carried a cart full of gifts and returned to his hometown with Xiao Ling.
Relatives who had never moved around, after seeing Dasu return, all took the initiative to come to visit, and when they took various gifts and said words of compliment to Dasu, Dasu was a little fluttery.
When I was looking for a job in the next year, many relatives called Dasu, this side wanted to help arrange work, that side wanted to entrust the relationship to do things, Da Su was thin-skinned, did not know how to refuse, had to all agree.
Who knows, this help is for many years, at first it was still relatives who were still related to the deceased to find help, and later some people who could not hit the eight rods also asked for Dasu here. In order to solve everyone's problems, Dasu spent a lot of time and energy, so that it delayed a lot of business things, and finally the capital chain was broken, and the business was closed.
In this regard, Xiao Ling has always been quite dissatisfied with Dasu, she originally appreciated Dasu's responsibility and responsibility, but she did not expect that he was like this to everyone, so that he delayed what he should have done, but every time he communicated with Dasu, his attitude was very good, which made Xiaoling think that Dasu had changed.
In order to help Dasu's cause revive, XiaoLing had to inject capital into Dasu again and again, and Dasu also promised not to care about the affairs of his relatives again, but there were never few people who came to ask for help, and Dasu's promise was overturned again and again.
After Xiao Ling subsidized Da Su five times, she finally woke up to the fact that as long as Da Su did not change his "fraternity" mentality for a day, his career could not be done. Over the years, Dasu has solved countless problems for his relatives, and the relatives have done things smoothly and their work is getting better and better, but their own lives are a mess, the business is at a loss, and Xiaoling has also posted a lot of his own income.
Faced with this situation, Xiao Ling gave Dasu an ultimatum, and after she found out that Dasu had once again broken his promise and secretly helped his relatives go through the back door, she was furious and directly filed for divorce.
Da Su stayed fruitless, was driven out of the house by Xiao Ling, for a while Da Su had nowhere to go, he called his cousin who also worked in the city, hoping to temporarily put things in the other party's place.
When Dasu had just finished talking about the beginning and end of the matter, the cousin on the other end of the phone was silent for a while, and then said: "Cousin, you know that I just talked about an object, she has moved over, and it is inconvenient for you to come again." My brother and I have spent a lot of money lately, and if you need money, I don't have any money. ”
It was only at this time that Dasu finally understood Xiao Ling's bitter heart - relatives could not become their own dependence, even if they hollowed out themselves to pay, they might not be able to exchange their gratitude. On the contrary, those who love themselves and tolerate themselves at the beginning are the objects that should really be worked hard.
As for the praise and praise of relatives, it is not a sincere praise and affirmation, but hopes that one day they can use the relationship of Dasu to hitchhike. When Dasu has a problem, they don't really help, they want to stop causing me trouble.
Unfortunately, Dasu understood this truth too late, and he was worthy of all his family and relatives, but he was only sorry for his wife. Finally, he sent Xiao Ling this message:
"I'm sorry Xiaoling, thank you."
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