Mention Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi, I believe that many people are not strangers, in the entertainment industry, Chinese and Korean celebrity marriage has always been a topic of concern to everyone, and there are few pairs of real happiness, especially transnational marriage, the test of two people is too big, one is a language problem, the other is a cultural factor, and then it is the business of the couple, all related to happiness.
On October 23, 2014, Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi held a wedding in South Korea, before she married Gao Ziqi, Cai Lin had a marriage with Korean singer Lee Seung-hwan, the two maintained for 3 years before divorcing, and later when Cai Lin developed in China, she met Gao Ziqi, the two were also because of cooperation, sparks, when they got married, so they also received the blessings of many people.
In December 2017, Cai Lin gave birth to a lovely son for Gao Ziqi, whose name was called "Gift" and thought that a family of three could live so happily, who knew that in December last year, the two actually divorced. After the divorce, Cai Lin took her son to live in South Korea, and her ex-husband Gao Ziqi chose to shoot in China.
Recently, Cai Lin took her 4-year-old son Minyu on a variety show, the son and Gao Ziqi looked too similar, perfectly inherited to the father's high appearance, Cai Lin cooked for her son at home, taught him to recognize the post, just like a full-time mother, Minyu's state also looks very sunny, although Gao Ziqi did not accompany him, it seems that Minyu was also well taken care of by Cai Lin.
Before Minyu was born, Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi also wrote a letter to their son, which was also exposed by the program team, which was very touching!
Cai Lin's letter reads: "From the moment when the son (gift) of mom and dad feels the fetal movement, the love for you is endless, this love will continue until you are born, I hope you are healthy, become a handsome man like a "little prince", treat the world with a simple heart, I hope you like the gifts prepared by your parents for you, let us live happily, son"
Gao Ziqi's letter: "Gao Liwu, thank you for coming to this world, bringing happiness to your parents, you must grow up healthy and happy, love you"
It can be seen that Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi were really in love and happy at the beginning, and both of them were looking forward to the birth of their son, so they wrote this letter in advance, and what they did not expect was that after Minyu was born, he had no memory of Gao Ziqi at all, because Cai Lin divorced him.
When asked if Minyu knew of Gao Ziqi's existence, Cai Lin said: When my son was three years old, he mentioned his father, why didn't we have a father in our family? When we went out, he would look intently at someone else's dad and child, and he wouldn't ask questions, but he could feel it in his eyes.
Cai Lin knew that her son did not dare to mention Gao Ziqi to her, because there was no father in his memory, so she would take the initiative to ask him, "Do you want to see your father?" For the first time, Minyu said that she didn't want to see her father. While Mentioning Gao Ziqi, Cai Lin wiped away tears, and memories also surged into her heart.
Cai Lin told Minyu: "You don't have a father, you have a father, but you can't come to see you now" After Minyu heard it, his expression also changed, and it turned out that he had a father. Cai Lin showed Minyu the photo of Gao Ziqi, and after Minyu saw it, she didn't speak, she stared at the photo silently, since that time, when Minyu went out, she never went to see people's fathers.
Once, when Cai Lin went to pick up Minyu from school, a classmate asked Minyu, why didn't your father come to pick you up? MinYu said that my father could not come in China, and Cai Lin felt very fortunate that she had told her son before that Gao Ziqi existed, so her son would deal with it calmly.
Now 4-year-old MinYu is following Cai Lin's surname, not gao, but surname Park, because Cai Lin is her stage name, her original name is Park Cai Lin, I believe that when her son changed his surname, he also got Gao Ziqi's permission. However, many netizens have different views, and some netizens say that Cai Lin is a bit miserable?
Netizen: I began to sympathize with her, and I also pitied the child, but this sister also regarded herself as a victim too much, and it was not all the responsibility of others to divorce her three times. It is surprising that the couple can get married, and it is not surprising that they are separated, but your children are also half Chinese, how can you be so educated? Parents must be very stiff, otherwise even if divorced, it is not difficult to video call with children, right? In the end, why are the children 5 years old, but they have no impression on their fathers, is it gao who does not look or Cai does not let him see, very curious?
To tell the truth, marriage itself is a complicated thing, why two people have come to the point of divorce, it is a slap can not be sounded, so for the onlookers of us, it is not clear the truth of the matter, Cai Lin did not spit on Gao Ziqi in the program, but also a good mother, selling or not selling misery is really not three words and two words can explain clearly, just the so-called family has a difficult scripture, not a party, and how to know the beginning and end of the matter, the son is innocent, even if it is not a husband and wife relationship, I also hope that parents can fulfill their responsibilities as parents!
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