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Recently, Li Na participated in a talk show, in which her complaints about her husband Jiang Shan resonated with many mothers. Due to the special period, Li Na's family of four is staying at home and can see each other 24 hours a day, and it is naturally a good thing for the family to get together, but there are also many unexpected troubles. Li Na bluntly said that during that time, she seemed to have 3 children, and the third child was her husband Jiang Shan.
Li Na said that when cooking, she was busy, but the child was always looking for her mother, and she was most glad that she still had a little sanity and did not bring a knife to the living room.
When Li Na put down the kitchen knife and ran from the kitchen to the living room, she found her husband Jiang Shan sitting on the sofa playing with Erlang's legs and playing with her mobile phone, allowing the two children to shout at their mother.
Li Na was originally a straightforward personality, and when she saw Jiang Shan, who ignored the child and only cared about playing with her mobile phone, her fire came up at once.
Li Na gently told Jiang Shan, "Mom can help, Daddy can too." "The implication is that when a child has something to call his mother, you as a father can also help the handle."
But it may be that Li Na said it too subtly, and Jiang Shan did not understand the true meaning of Li Na's words, and only said to the children: "Listen to your mother's words." "
After experiencing all of the above, Li Na began to doubt that she did not know why she was like this.
It is difficult to imagine that Li Na, who scolded Jiang Shan mercilessly on the field, has the same helplessness as ordinary people in life.
The way Jiang Shan and Li Na get along has actually always been very recognized. Although Jiang Shan was only two years older than Li Na, he was Li Na's senior. Li Na and Jiang Shan played mixed doubles, trained together, and went shopping together, Li Na said: Sometimes Jiang Shan is around me, I will suddenly have an illusion, as if my father is still alive and still guarding me.
Li Na's request to the team when she returned in 2004 was that Jiang Shan come to be her coach.
For Li Na, Jiang Shan is like a teacher and a friend, and he can become Li Na's punching bag on the field, and he can also become Li Na's nanny under the field.
But Jiang Shan, in today's terms, is a "straight man of steel", he does not understand romance at all, will not share his life with his wife, and will not take the initiative to solve the contradictions between husband and wife.
Li Na said that Jiang Shan never quarreled with her, because every time it was a cold war, and once even lost contact for 12 days.
Jiang Shan's friends all said that Li Na was the only one who had lived with Jiang Shan for so many years and was still alive in the world, which showed that the flaws in Jiang Shan's personality were only tolerated by Li Na.
It seems that Jiang Shan has been tolerant of the wayward Li Na, but in fact, Li Na has made a lot of concessions in this relationship.
Jiang Shan witnessed Li Na gradually becoming stronger, but after getting married, she became a child in Li Na's mouth.
Leaving the arena, Jiang Shan and Li Na were confronted with Chai Mi Oil and Salt and the two children.
No one could have imagined that Li Na, as the world champion, could not escape the fate of widowed parenting.
First popularize what is called "widowed parenting", in short, it is clear that the children of two people are only one person in the raising, and the missing party is mostly the father.
Widowhood is not an isolated case, but a universal phenomenon.
Taking female artists as an example, many female artists have basically withdrawn from the front line after getting married and having children, and even if they come back to work, they have to spend a lot of time taking care of their families.
After Hu Ke married Sha Yi, he gave birth to two lively and lovely sons, and was a proper winner in life in the eyes of others. However, in the variety show, it can be clearly seen that from taking care of children to washing up to sending children to school, everything in the family is handled by Hu Ke alone, and Sha Yi rarely helps.
Hu Ke also said that Sha Yi did not do housework at home at all, "The soy sauce bottle will not be helped when it is poured." "
When Hu Ke wanted to come back to the group to shoot, Sha Yi did not give enough understanding and support, feeling that she worked too long to take care of her children and home.
In the face of her husband's doubts, Hu Ke couldn't help but shed tears. Perhaps Sha Yi did not think about how fatal it was to have children in the golden period of her career for a few years, not to mention that Hu Ke was not recognized by the market at this age, and it was difficult to receive good roles.
Also widowed parenting is the actor He Fei, who played "Ma Xifeng" in "Li Niang Tian Xiaocao".
He Fei gave birth to a son in 2017 and entered the group to shoot in 2018. Compared with the average actress, He Fei's comeback is very fast. But the reason she was able to come back so quickly was that she brought her children into the group, filmed during the day and with a baby at night, and her husband was seriously absent.
If you want to talk about widowed parenting, you have to mention He Jie, it is said that this word is because of He Jie and He Ziming.
He Jie and He Ziming's divorce was in a big fight that year, and the two sides tore each other up for a long time, and He Jie claimed that part of the reason for the divorce was widowhood parenting.
After giving birth, He Jie quickly transformed her identity into a mother, sacrificing a lot of work time to accompany the child. But He Ziming did not realize the responsibility that needed to be a father, to play games and games, to exercise and fitness, and before becoming a father, there was no change. He Jie had difficulty accepting unilateral payment and eventually divorced.
Said a few examples of female celebrities, and then look at male celebrities, such as this Hong Tianming who was sprayed by netizens some time ago, there may be people who do not know him, then say another name you must know: he is Hong Jinbao's biological son.
In one of the links of the variety show, the mother's flight was earlier than the father and the child, and when everyone was confused and did not know why they should be separated from their families, Hong Tianming opened his mouth, he said, "Mom should go there first to prepare things, let us go over and enjoy it."
Qi Wei, who was on the side, immediately objected: There should be.
The child is two people, why does the mother bear everything alone, and the father only needs to enjoy it?
The opening credits of this variety show also interviewed many young mothers, most of whom lost their time after giving birth to their children, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
And dads take their children no more than 1 hour a day.
Some people start to get irritable after more than 10 minutes, pushing the child to the mother.
And their efforts will not be understood, and they will even be said, "Isn't it just housework?" "Is it that hard to bring up children?"
One mother said that she hoped that in the next life, her mother and father would be exchanged, and she had never experienced the difficulty of never knowing how to be a mother.
The deformed marital relationship of widowed parenting is often beautified as "male outside, female inside", in fact, I don't know what I am busy with every day, so busy that I can't even remember which class the children are, just like Yang Kasa said: "They are so ordinary, but so confident." "
What is even more helpless is that most women are powerless to resist widowed parenting, and after getting angry, they can only choose to accept, holding the idea of making things up for their children, reducing the requirements for the other half again and again, and personally burying their yearning and pursuit of a better marriage.