Today, I saw a passage of Xu Zhimo's words, and some comments said that he was a scumbag, and his words were not credible. I fought back casually, how much do you really know about him?
I hate it in my heart that others say Xu Zhimo, although I don't know him, the first time I heard Xu Zhimo, it was still a sentence of "Gently I go, just as I come gently; I gently beckon, as the clouds of the Western Heavens" I only know that he is a poet.
Or through Lu Xiaoman's biography, I know him, he loves Lin Huiyin deeply, and also let Zhang Youyi beat the child, he did have some ruthlessness towards his original wife, but it was an arranged marriage, no love, no feelings, and now in society, even if two people are free to fall in love, get married and have children, there are many such men, nothing more than he is a celebrity, so he is so much condemned, he is indeed quite ruthless, Zhang Youyi is indeed very pitiful. Born in that era, Ben was pitiful.
For love, crazy infatuation with one person, to hurt another person is a common thing in life.
Falling in love is falling in love, where there are so many right and wrong, the feeling itself is inexplicable, obsessive, and heart-wrenching.
He and Lu Xiaoman walked together, in that era it was really quite difficult, they all had families, and they were still people in a circle, but they broke the shackles and still worked hard together, that kind of vigorous, quite enviable.
Anyone wants to have a vigorous love!
Although morally, it is still quite difficult to accept, but that kind of courage, is not ordinary people can have, I am quite admired, may have been bound since childhood, do anything to consider the consequences.
For Lu Xiaoman, I am quite envious of him, there are men who love him around him, and after being with Xu Zhimo, he can also enjoy material enjoyment, and Xu Zhimo also strives to make money for her to eat and drink. Women should all like this feeling.
For Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman's behavior, men should be 99.9% can not accept it, but also save expenses for Lu Xiaoman to spend, he loves Lu Xiaoman, I think he is also quite bitter, obviously there is a virtuous wife, but in order to pursue love, but cut off everything, and finally met such a wife. It seems reasonable to say that it is self-inflicted, obviously there is Lu Xiaoman, and I still have to go to see Lin Huiyin's speech, which is a scumbag, and also said the past.
Before watching Lu Xiaoman pass on to see a man's humility, a man's love for this woman, and the courage of two people to break through the shackles of morality together, I didn't think so much...
In short, history has passed, and everyone looks at it differently, so we will not judge.