Although in the world of marital love
We often say, "Once the sea was shipwrecked as water."
But sometimes, when the sea has become a mulberry field
No more sighing moments
Maybe take a back seat and choose ordinary "water"
It is better to meet the most basic needs of your own life
Just like back then, for Chen Fara to spare no expense with himself
The entire original family was stubbornly resistant to Xue Shiheng
After years of being single, he finally found the right person
Just a few days ago on October 22nd
Xue Shiheng, who had earlier announced his engagement to his girlfriend outside the circle
Suddenly, wedding photos were uploaded on social networks
Officially announce "We're married!" ”
I still remember when Xue Shiheng announced his love affair a month ago
A photo of himself dragging his fiancée in the snow was once exposed
Since in that photo
The woman wore Mo Chao, almost covering most of her face
So there's always a bit of a sense of mystery that holds the pipa half-covered
And until today, everyone is in the photos of the wedding scene
He clearly saw the true face of Xue Shiheng's fiancée Lushan
After 8 years of divorce, I did not forget that my ex-wife still refused to remarry! After Farah gave birth to a daughter, he found a girlfriend and announced that he would cut off the last thoughts and start from scratch!
That's right, looking back at this wedding
It was held at the Peninsula Hotel, one of the best star hotels in Hong Kong
More than fifty friends and family gathered at the wedding site
There are many parents of both the bride and groom
Not to mention Xue Shiheng, who had once been with himself
The younger brother Xue Jialin, who was fighting for property and collapsed
There is also a high-profile sister-in-law Zhuge Ziqi who loves to show off his wealth
However, because the protagonists of the day are the eldest brother and sister-in-law of the Xue family
Therefore, Xue Jialin and his wife love to be demonized again
It also deliberately keeps a low profile and closes the flag
Of course, those low-key and drumming are only temporary
It is estimated that the first challenge the bride will face after marriage
It is how to deal with Zhuge Ziqi, the best sister-in-law
And that said
It's time to reveal the bride
Her English name is Cherie
As for identity occupation and family background
Xue Shiheng took a sentence
"She's an outsider and it's not convenient to reveal" came hurriedly
One thing is for sure, though
Although the bride is a vegetarian
But her appearance and figure are not inferior to the big star Farah
It is also because of the reason for holding a beautiful person
Xue Gongzi treated the bride with considerable care
Take this wedding, for example
Although it is small and complete, it is a combination of Chinese and Western
Among them are the chinese weddings that are the favorite of the elderly
According to the traditional ceremony, a couple of newlyweds are arranged to toast tea to the elders of both sides
In addition, there are also Western-style weddings held in the open air
The bride, dressed in a white wedding dress, held Xue Shiheng's money in her hand
Oaths and rings were also exchanged under the leadership of the priest
During the period, Xue Shiheng was also excited to feel on the spot and issued a voice "I love you"
Maybe it's the phrase "I love you"
Opened Xue Shiheng for many years in that failed marriage with Farah
Accumulated resentment and grievances
Then his emotions were like a gushing river
The public said such a playful statement
"Thank you Mom and Dad, they talked to me many times, big boy, because I was so naughty when I was a child, looking back is to make Mom and Dad worried and excited, to this day I am still a child, let them worry and provoke, but I found a wife who reassures you, she is so careful, she will take good care of me!" 」
As soon as Xue Gongzi said this
Clear-eyed people can see that he has some connotations of Farah
All because of his previous sentence, "It makes Mom and Dad worried and angry."
The last sentence is "Find a wife who will reassure you."
It seems to be regretting myself for those years
He once fought against his parents for his ex-wife
Sure enough, Xue Gongzi seemed to only say it at the wedding
Not enough to convey affection, after the wedding
He continued to post long articles on the Internet to make a gushing testimonial
Because Xue Gongzi's article is too long
I don't call them out one by one
Just summarize his three main points for everyone
Words are at the beginning of the article
Xue Gongzi first opened the door to the mountain and came to a period of love
Pointing out that his wife Cherie is a person who has a sharp understanding with her own heart
"I knew what she was trying to say before she spoke"
It is precisely because of this one "understand"
So Xue Gongzi thought that Cherie was very contemptuous of himself
He also often tortured himself to the soul, "Will I not be wanted one day?"
See this paragraph of sunshine love content
I have to admit that men and women really think differently
It is enough for a girl to say that "I wish to have a heart of people with white heads and not be separated"
The pursuit is the harmony and happiness of respecting each other such as Bin, Qinse and Ming
But the love of straight men is more like PUA, blindly improving their position
It was as if others couldn't do without him
But it's fine anyway
Also bless Xue Gongzi to be able to find one
It is available for the woman who has pua herself, and after the sunburn is in love
Xue Gongzi immediately turned his words around and praised his newlywed wife as "very capable."
As for the sign of her "ability", it is not that she has a successful career and has learned
It's about "being able to reconcile among all people."
It makes the elderly happy and satisfied, and things are done properly."
As can be seen from this remark
Whether it was Xue Gongzi or the thinking of the entire family behind him
All stay in the most traditional patriarchal society
That is to think that my wife is not marrying me as a person
It's about marrying the original family behind me
So the most important task after she got married
It was to learn how to coax my parents to please
Of course, the core competitiveness of coaxing the man's parents to be happy
It is always "no filial piety has three nothings to be greater"
So Xue Gongzi also hinted
"This wedding was prepared a little urgently because we wanted to start a family quickly, but it was a gift from Heaven, and we still prayed for it, thanking her for being able to bear the grace of life together, the grace of God, and the grace of my parents." We are new people together, and the old things have become new."
Behind this remark, Xue Gongzi did not forget to send a photo of holding his wife from behind and touching his wife's belly, which was combined with these photos, which immediately made people think
"Did he marry a son?"
Although this "Bongzi married" speculation
It was soon denied by Xue Gongzi himself
But I pig Mimi estimated
With Xue Gongzi's straight male thinking and family pattern
His wife Cherie will certainly be the first to be married
Quickly ma and whip for him to conceive and give birth to a child, and spread leaves
And it's not just about having children
You have to give birth to a son, and a son is not enough
You still have to catch up with two, at least you have to catch up with your sister-in-law Zhuge Ziqi
After the tie, she didn't just want to make her mother-in-law happy
You also have to fight with Zhuge Ziqi just to compete for Neway
The "rotten boats left by this river group also have three pounds of nails"
Such a life, such a future, I feel tired when I think about it
But even if outsiders are tired, it's fine
Marriage is always a wish to fight a wish
This is also doomed
People with different patterns, different thinking, and different concepts
Sticking it together can only be a nightmare of failure
So no matter xue shiheng is in this side of the box
How to connote Farah does not know how to circumvent his parents
How to sigh that the past has become a cloud of smoke
He couldn't make any waves in Farah's heart
All because Farah recognized it earlier than Xue Shiheng
The family behind Xue Shiheng is a feudal and traditional mansion door
Since he could not escape the ideological confinement and economic support of his original family
It is also impossible to give yourself the life you want
Tie up with them and love and kill each other
It is better to leave early and separate two wide
This shows that for Farah
Marriage failure is not the bottom of life, but the rebirth
Only Xue Shiheng had been standing still for many years
Self-packaging and self-intoxication with infatuation
Thus covering up the mediocre life of people to middle age and doing nothing
So "marrying a man is the equivalent of marrying his family."
This statement is both unreasonable and quite correct
It is unreasonable that each girl is an independent individual
We should all have our own beautiful life pursuits
When we marry a person, we should simply marry love
Not marrying his family
From then on, he had to bear the responsibility of having children and filial piety to his parents
Become a free babysitter for his family
But the right thing is that "men are teenagers until they die"
He could never leave the three views of his original family
Once you choose to be with a man
He had to accept the three views of his original family
So in the end, women's choice of mate is not only from qiang mu handsome
You also have to see the other person's family background clearly, only by doing so
Only in this way can we better avoid detours in marriage