Recently began to learn the concept of money, because this year I realized that my concept of money is very problematic, before I have been very repulsive to money, for example, I never ask my parents for money, when I study, I do not ask my parents for money, my mother will be from junior high school once a week to college once a month, fixed to give me living expenses, as if there has never been enough to spend, I can still have money to lend to the primary school sister every month, there is a period of time, she almost every month asked me to borrow, living expenses arrived, she will also return the money to me for the first time.
Sometimes the money will be tight, I will only desperately save, almost never ask for money with my parents, I do not like to borrow from friends, and the other sources of money in the student era are scholarships and part-time jobs (tutoring, promotions, leaflets, etc.).
After work, I immediately shouldered my brother's living expenses, and I asked my father for a few hundred yuan in the first month of graduation, just once, other times I never had a palm upward, after work, among my classmates, my economic income is also relatively high. So I don't have a particularly big financial pressure, when I have money, things buy better, live better, when there is less money, things buy ordinary, live a little worse, now I find that in fact, this idea is not right, the original I was particularly lacking in my heart, and there is a strong feeling of unworthiness, just like before I wanted to be with my husband' palms up, I will be very angry from the heart, but now it will not be.
At present, we have just entered the field of correct view of money, and now the initial change is:
1. I am self-sufficient
Truth: We have enough, we are self-sufficient, and any situation is full of opportunities to experience "abundance."
2. My husband's income is my side income
3. When you receive money, be thankful for both small and large money
4. Spending money happily will attract more and more money babies, when spending money, there must be a state of blessing, when spending money, think, although the money is spent, it will bring more brothers and sisters
5. Belief is a prerequisite for change
Recently, when I was looking at the soul of money, the biggest shock to me was the following story:
Although Champi was 26 years old, until a few years ago, he had little contact with money. The Achuya tribe, to which he belonged, had never used money for thousands of years. Over this long period of time, the inhabitants of the Achuya people grew up generation after generation, working to feed their families, build houses, and maintain the operation of the group, all without the intervention of money. Past and present, these indigenous peoples have always lived in harmony with the most important factors affecting their lives, such as the forces of nature, their relationship with each other and their relationship with the forest, and have nothing to do with money. "Reciprocity" is their "social currency", they share with each other and take care of each other. If Tantu's daughter married Nat's son, their friends and neighbors would work together to build a house for the two. If someone hunts a wild boar, it means that the whole village will have a feast. The ups and downs of life depend mainly on the forces of nature, and even if there is a battle, it is a battle for honor, and has nothing to do with money.
The first time I saw this story, I was particularly shocked that there was a people who had never used money for thousands of years, but they lived simply happy and happy!
And now I am less and less anxious about money, think about people do not spend a penny and live well, and when I need to spend money, I can have this money, there is nothing to worry about, enough is good.
