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After having children, whether to give up work and be a stay-at-home mom has always been a controversial topic. In the eyes of many people, the companionship and education of children are far more important than work. Even many highly educated mothers, in order to better educate their children after having children, choose to be full-time mothers at home.
But many people think that being a stay-at-home mom for a highly educated woman is a waste of resources. But I never think so, high education makes women's own vision and knowledge broader, know better partners, highly educated women marry families are generally not bad, even if it is a short period of full-time, partners can maintain the basic operation of the family.
And a highly educated mother can better educate her children and invest in her children with her own knowledge and literacy. The more the upper class of the family, the more they can realize that the children in the family are the first, and the next generation is well educated, which is the greatest wealth of the family. And the more low-level mothers, the more they can't give up their jobs to become housewives, otherwise they will delay their own babies.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > what many low-level moms call full-time, but low-quality meaningless companionship and not much value</h1>
Many low-level mothers have limited education level, and she herself does not understand education. Even if she doesn't work and spends time with her children at home, she's just that kind of nanny-like companionship. Attentive mothers may take care of their children's food, clothing, shelter and transportation, three meals a day.
Those parents who do not care, do not pursue, do not know how to educate their children, the child's homework tutoring she can not help, all day at home if there is nothing to do, idle to play mahjong, play mobile phones, no help for children's learning. Moreover, these low-level mothers themselves have limited education level, and if they stick to the family for a long time, their thinking and cognition are even more limited, and it is difficult to guide their children. Coupled with the limited living conditions, every day have to worry about chai rice oil and salt, the mood is generally negative and negative, it is easy to pass this emotion to the child.
It can be said that the children of the bottom family, go to school all by talent, even if the mother is not full-time to learn to get ahead, the rest of the untalented, the mother to follow every day, not much use? So many low-level mothers are full-time, free family nannies who revolve around their children and families. Often such women have no place in the family, not only can not talk about the good education and companionship of children, and even many children still look down on such mothers.
The bottom mother should go out to work and earn money, on the one hand, go out to increase the following insights, broaden their horizons, increase family income, and first change the family's economic situation. Only when their lives and insights change can they better influence and educate their children, and they can also pave the way for their children better in the future. On the other hand, it will make children experience the difficulty of parents and the difficulty of life, but it will stimulate the motivation of children to work hard.
Therefore, the bottom mother should not give up on herself and put the hope of the family on the child. Moreover, we should first strive to change ourselves and use our own strength to set an example for our children.
【Topic Discussion: Do you have more full-time mothers around you? 】
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