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"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

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Love is selfish, it does not distinguish between first come and come, love is also rational, first come, first come.

"July and Ansheng" this movie, when friendship meets love, who can do without distinguishing between you and me? When I grew up, I realized that some things are doomed to not be shared!

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

Anson and July, met at the age of 13. One is a maverick "wild child" and the other is a "well-behaved girl" who is simply gentle and obedient.

Ansheng, but people are not as good as her name, she is not at all safe. From a single-parent family, she rebelled from an early age and brought her home in July, which made her feel the warmth of home. In this way, the two became inseparable good friends.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

In July, growing up in the care of her parents, her original family gave her enough security, her parents wanted her to live a step-by-step life, and she also became herself when she grew up.

But in her bones, she is Ansheng.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

From that year on, July and Ansheng were almost inseparable, she was her light, she was her shadow. The two have endless whispers, and the girls' small privacy has become a daily routine for them to ridicule each other.

Until one day, there is a Su Jiaming (Li Chengbin) who breaks into the life of July, and everything changes.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

Ansheng rented a house, and she was glad that she finally had a place to entertain July, and the two lay in the big bed and appealed to their hearts. Anson let July lie in her arms, and July said, "You're not a man." ”

Anson asked, "Did any man make you lie down?" ”

July said: "Yes"!

July fell in love, and she told her friend Anson the news. An Sheng was suddenly a little lost at that moment, more than a joy.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

Anson went to technical school, and she lived the free life she longed for. Knowing that July was in love, she ran to the school to warn Su Jiaming, but was chased by Su Jiaming for several streets.

A mountain climbing trip, close contact, Su Jiaming in the moment close to Ansheng, so that the feelings of the two became somewhat ambiguous. Anson smelled the atmosphere and quickly kept his distance, but all this was seen by July.

Since then, An Sheng has deliberately kept a distance from Su Jiaming, and July pretends not to know.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

Anson works at a bar, and the guitarist confesses to her that she sings and drinks brazenly in front of July, telling her that she has decided to go with him just to hide her truest emotions.

I went to college in July and lived a stable life.

An Sheng decided to go to Beijing to make a living, and the two of them staged a tearful parting at the train station. Ansheng said, "As long as you want, I'll stay." ”

The train started, and the two reluctantly said goodbye, but July found that An Sheng was wearing a jade pendant that Su Jiaming was carrying close to his neck.

At that moment, July did not keep Ansheng, but just watched her leave, and her heart was full of mixed feelings.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

An Sheng left, and July's love affair with Su Jiaming continued, and they were admitted to the same university, agreeing to get married as soon as they graduated. However, the relationship between July and Su Jiaming has become strange and familiar because of Ansheng, and it seems that there is always a gap but cannot be directly explained.

They all know in their hearts that they are all pretending, but no one can "pretend" for a lifetime.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

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July and Ansheng, one wandering in a foreign land, the other living a peaceful life in his hometown. Every time Ansheng went to a place, she wrote a letter to tell July her mood, and each letter ended with the following: Greetings to Jiaming.

The relationship between the two seems to be long-lasting only in this postcard. July was also accustomed to writing letters to Ansheng and telling her what was going on, but Ansheng, who had no place to live, made it impossible for her to send letters.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

After graduation, he entered the bank in July, and the job of a civil servant was stable from nine to five, but Su Jiaming did not want to get married so quickly, but wanted to go to Beijing to break in, perhaps, he wanted to find Ansheng.

In July, Su Jiaming was sent away at the station again, and An Sheng asked him to taste the taste of parting, and she did not want to greet him again.

Years later, Anson and July met again, strange and familiar. Ansheng took July to a cheap hotel, and July said why should we stay here? Ansheng said that my money can only live here.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

July turned around and took Ansheng to the hotel to eat Western food. At the dinner table, July wants to order lobsters, and Anson wants to order salads, just to hide his shy wallet.

Anson wins a free bottle of wine in the restaurant with a "jianghu routine", and July says, "You have been cheating on men for all these years..."

July turned around and walked back to the hotel, where Anson "earned" enough money to send back to the hotel, and then pulled his suitcase and left. July chased her out and watched her get into the car, and the two disappeared into the sea of people again.

Obviously, they are worried about each other, but they are like stalks in the throat. They wanted to settle accounts with each other, but they couldn't figure it out anymore...

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

Su Jiaming met An Sheng in Beijing, and people who seemed to be familiar had to pretend to be strangers. An Sheng told Jia Ming that she was about to get married, and her boyfriend was a rich businessman and very rich. I bought her a house and planned to marry her after a divorce.

She wanted to make her image worse in front of Su Jiaming, but he didn't care. A car accident sent away Anson's boyfriend, and she was homeless and moved into Jiaming's dormitory, and suddenly bumped into each other in July.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

That time, they completely tore their faces and revealed each other's true faces. July growled, "If I hadn't brought you home, you wouldn't have been anything." "Jiaming doesn't like you like that, she likes this kind of dirt, and said she took off her clothes." She seemed to be showing off her figure, but she couldn't hide the fear of losing. ”

They blamed each other and poked each other in the heart with the most ugly words.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

After the two tore each other apart, July left, and she told Jiaming: "We are married, I will wait for you for a month." ”

Su Jiaming hovered between July and An Sheng, tacitly acknowledging each other but not breaking the relationship. A month later, Su Jiaming arrived as promised, intending to marry July.

The night before the wedding, July asked Su Jiaming to leave, saying that she did not want to marry someone who did not really love herself.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

Su Jiaming ran away from marriage as promised, and in July became a bride who was hollowed out. Fearfully, July finally left the small town and planned to live a life like Anson.

When she wandered away from home, stayed in the small hotel where Ansheng once lived, and lived a life of uncertainty, she found that perhaps, in this life, they were destined to be shadows.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

Far from home, July found that what she missed most was Ansheng. She thought, "An Sheng and Su Jiaming must be married!" ”

She still couldn't help but go to see Ansheng, only to find that Ansheng had a new boyfriend, he was very considerate and ready to get married. What she thought was not what she thought, and July seemed relieved.

July had a bold idea that she wanted to be a single mother. An Sheng said: "When you have a child, you can go anywhere you want, you do a good job of mother teaching children to learn, I am a bad mother..."

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

After giving birth to the child, he died of postpartum hemorrhage in July, and Anson signed his name on the death certificate. From then on, she was the child's mother, until Su Jiaming reappeared, but she did not tell him that July was no longer there.

Because of a man, sincere friendship can not stand the test. The saddest thing is not betrayal, the sad thing is that everyone wants to be good for each other, but they have to be selfish.

It is gratifying that there is no open struggle between them, but they are humble to each other. But love cannot be shared. The truth that I understand when I grow up is the most heartfelt.

"July and Ansheng": Don't love and don't tear! Behind the analysis of love, the conflict between reality and ideals can not be shared love, encounter no matter you and my friendship, no one can "pretend" for a lifetime"I hate you, but I only have you"! After falling in love with the same man, I understand: love is selfish and cannot be shared

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Author: Zero Morning Voice

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