< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > primer</h1>
When it comes to wealth, "after gambling" He Chaoqiong is high up in the sky, and thousands of people look up.
When it comes to emotions, she, like the general public, has experienced bittersweet and bittersweet.
Even, she is "miserable" than we are. (This is the view of some people and does not represent the general public)
Strong women have gone through 4 emotional feelings, and it is difficult to find happiness after all.
alas!
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >01, first love</h1>
(1) Girl Star Dream
Becoming an entertainment star has always been the dream of many young boys and girls, and He Chaoqiong of the Gambling King Family is no exception.
Born in August 1962, He Chaoqiong is the eldest daughter of the gambling king He Hongshen, and is deeply loved by the family.
At the beginning of 1981, He Chaoqiong, who was 19 years old, sneaked in an artist training class held by TVB behind her family's back, where she did not have the arrogance of a rich woman, just like a girl next door who was not deeply involved in the world.
In the same year, TVB began filming the youth idol drama "Breakthrough", starring Chen Baiqiang, Weng Jingjing, Mao Shunjun, Feng Quanfan and other stars, and the unknown He Chaoqiong also won a role with few roles, she was excited and looked forward to her future star.
However, her dream of stardom came to an abrupt end, because her father, Ho Hung-sun, interfered, he did not want his daughter to be a "drama", he wanted to train her daughter to be a "successor".
Here's the background: In 1981, Ho's eldest son, 33-year-old Ho, died in a car accident. He Youguang is intelligent and capable, and is the successor that He Hongshen strives to cultivate. With his sudden death, He Hongshen, sad, pinned his hopes on his eldest daughter He Chaoqiong.
He Chaoqiong did not disobey his father's will! Is the character too weak?
More than ten years later, her sister He Chaoyi was much luckier.
He Chaoyi was born in December 1974, and in 1994, at the age of 20 (the same age as He Chaoqiong at the beginning), she officially entered the entertainment industry as a singer, and her father, Ho Hongshen, did not object and sent blessings.
He Chaoyi later married the entertainer Chen Zicong.
She is a thousand times luckier than her sister He Chaoqiong?
(2) Get to know Chen Baiqiang
He Chaoqiong extinguished the star dream, but her heart remained there, because she met her crush Chen Baiqiang.
Chen Baiqiang was born in September 1958, his father is a businessman, and his family is well-off.
Chen Baiqiang has loved music since childhood, especially the electronic keyboard and piano. After graduating from middle school, he did not study business administration according to his father's wishes, but dropped out of school to "play" music, and made cameos in the "Wenna Band" of Tan Yonglin, Zhong Zhentao and others, and also sang English songs on the radio.
In 1978, Chen Baiqiang participated in the "Hong Kong Yamaha Electronic Organ Competition" and won the championship, and his strength was beyond doubt.
In 1979, Chen Baiqiang joined the record company and officially debuted. In the same year, he released his debut album "First Love", in which the single "Tears Flow for You" won the Golden Melody Award of the Year's Top Ten Chinese, and he has since become popular.
In 1980, Chen Baiqiang's second album "A Few Minutes of Dating" became the platinum album of the year.
At this time, Chen Baiqiang was 22 years old, and he was already an "emperor superstar" and had become the dream idol of countless young boys and girls!
Chen Baiqiang, who became popular in the music world, has also developed into film and television.
In 1981, in the youth idol drama "Breakthrough" filmed by TVB, the popular star Chen Baiqiang and the super fan He Chaoqiong met.
Chen Baiqiang is 23 years old, and He Chaoqiong is 19 years old.
(3) Know each other and fall in love
The musical talent Chen Baiqiang is handsome, elegant, gentle and elegant; the rich and beautiful Woman He Chaoqiong is generous, smiling, and beautiful like jade.
The two young men saw each other and felt very close.
Chen Baiqiang and He Chaoqiong's personalities are also similar, Chen Baiqiang is talented but not proud, He Chaoqiong is rich and not proud, and both of them like a quiet life and do not like hustle and bustle.
The two did not forget to invest in each other as soon as they met, Chen Baiqiang struggled for the entertainment career and was very busy; He Chaoqiong went abroad to study, busy with the family business.
Although the two places are separated, they do not dilute each other's love and concern! The two exchanged pleasantries and exchanged heartfelt complaints.
At the beginning of 1985, Chen Baiqiang released the famous song "Deeply in Love with You" and let He Chaoqiong play the female lead in the MV. Why didn't He Chaoqiong know Chen Baiqiang's heart? After Chen Baiqiang's death, this song "Deeply in Love with You" became a song that accompanied He Chaoqiong throughout his life.
Although Chen Baiqiang and He Chaoqiong both love each other deeply in their hearts, and even the Chen family has tacitly acquiesced to this future daughter-in-law, the two have not publicly patted off, let alone the flower before the moon in love, which is related to the integrity and honesty of the two, and also related to He Chaoqiong's huge wealth background.
In September 1988, Chen Baiqiang's 30th birthday celebration banquet, a group of friends in the circle attended, the hostess position was reserved for He Chaoqiong, and the 26-year-old He Chaoqiong also dressed up to attend.
Chen Baiqiang once gently and affectionately snuggled on He Chaoqiong's shoulder, and He Chaoqiong's face was full of shyness and happiness!
However, this sweet time is only a flash! Subsequently, his father, He Hongshen, knew about it and did not hesitate to stop it, and the weak and docile He Chaoqiong once again chose to give in.
He Chaoqiong and Chen Baiqiang's nearly 9 years of emotion quietly passed away.
After many years, He Chaoqiong once said: "Although we (and Chen Baiqiang) have never really fallen in love, we have tasted the taste of lost love, and at that time, our hearts were very painful and our emotions were also very depressed."
(4) The last trip
Forced by family pressure, in January 1991, 29-year-old He Chaoqiong married Xu Jinheng, the son of a wealthy family.
He Chaoqiong's departure is a big blow to Chen Baiqiang, the emotionally rich and fragile love song prince!
Sadness in addition to the music, unfortunately, at this time his entertainment career development is not smooth, for a variety of reasons, here is not detailed, in short, in response to the sentence "the roof leaks in the overnight rain".
In May 1992, a disheartened Chen Baiqiang inhaled an overdose of ecstasy and fell into a coma, dragging it out until his death in October 1993, at the age of 35.
At this time, He Chaoqiong was 31 years old, and had been married into the Xu family for 3 years, she ignored the taboo of "people's wives helping the coffin is not auspicious", and even more disregarded the opposition of her father, husband and others, and resolutely helped Chen Baiqiang to help the spirit and send Chen Baiqiang on his last journey.
The scene of He Chaoqiong and Mother Chen holding their heads and crying made many people burst into tears.
At this time, He Chaoqiong's true love for Chen Baiqiang was fully revealed, but it was too late, if he dared to resist his father's will, life would be a different story!
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >2, forced marriage</h1>
Hui Jinheng is the grandson of Ship King Hui Ai Zhou (one of the four major ship kings in Hong Kong), his father Hui Shixun is a famous Hong Kong entrepreneur and chairman of Hong Kong China State Construction Enterprise Group, and the Xu family is a huge wealthy family in Hong Kong.
Xu Jinheng was born in February 1962, the same age as He Chaoqiong, and both have a background in California, but the two do not know each other.
Hui Jinheng is a famous playboy in Hong Kong, who lingers in the "flower bush" all day long.
After He Hongshen separated He Chaoqiong from Chen Baiqiang, he found Xu Shixun, and the two old-school rich men hit it off, and the marriage between Xu Jinheng and He Chaoqiong was thus decided.
In the face of the strong family, Xu Jinheng and He Chaoqiong did not have the courage and room to resist.
On January 8, 1991, the two rich people married, and He Chaoqiong married into the Xu family.
Will it be a happy marriage?
At the beginning of the new marriage, the amorous He Chaoqiong was also happy and longing, but the ideal is the ideal after all, and the reality is the reality after all.
First of all, without experiencing unforgettable love, marriage is a lack of emotional foundation. Some people say that it is okay to get married and fall in love first, yes! But this model is not suitable for these two, Xu Jinheng and He Chaoqiong are the darlings of each other's families, they have always been arrogant and domineering, where do they know how to accommodate each other and understand each other?
Secondly, the personality is not compatible, Xu Jinheng is outgoing and open-minded, He Chaoqiong is introverted and quiet, and many times the social occasions that should have been attended by the husband and wife are Xu Jinheng's lonely pity. Among the rich families, there are more such social activities. Over time, the cracks between husband and wife have grown larger and larger.
Third, Xu Jinheng is a playboy who can converge during the new marriage and then reveal his tail. In fact, He Chaoqiong also has a Chen Baiqiang in her heart, the difference is that Chen Baiqiang only exists in the depths of her heart. If you have a heart for each other, your husband and wife's feelings will inevitably be hurt.
In October 1993, He Chaoqiong insisted on supporting Chen Baiqiang, which was the watershed of their marriage, and since then, the two have separated and gradually died in name only.
In August 2000, the 10-year marriage officially ended.
At this time, He Chaoqiong was 38 years old.
This is in response to the old saying: a twisted melon is not sweet.
It is said that at this point, the two initiators (Ho Hung Sun and Xu Shi Xun) regretted it quite a bit, especially Ho Hung Sun, who broke up He Chaoqiong and Chen Baiqiang, and in the future, He Chaoqiong was depressed and depressed at work, and He Hongsheng looked at it in his eyes and felt guilty in his heart, so he had to make up for his debt in wealth.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >3, self-abandonment</h1>
It is difficult to let go of Chen Baiqiang's departure, and he is sad that his marriage with Xu Jinheng exists in name only, he Chaoqiong is full of affection for work, and will also go to entertainment venues to relax and relieve his sorrows.
As a result, the prodigal prince Yang Qilong broke into He Chaoqiong's emotional world.
Born in August 1967, Yang Qilong is the son of entertainment tycoon Yang Shoucheng.
Although the family is rich, Yang Qilong has been mixed with the society after graduating from middle school, determined to be a business tycoon, tossing and turning in many industries, but achieving nothing, but the failure of "entrepreneurship" does not affect his spending days and drinking, eating, drinking and gambling, and being proficient in everything.
If you talk about ideals, this kind of person can't do it; if you want to relieve boredom, this kind of person is the best candidate, and he Chaoqiong, who is exhausted, needs this kind of "talent".
He Chaoqiong and Yang Qilong quickly fought fiercely, which was in the second half of 1999, and He Chaoqiong was 37 years old.
In early 2000, the relationship between the two became public, and they did not shy away from forming a double pair in the public arena, a few months before He Chaoqiong and Xu Jinheng announced the end of their marriage.
The people watched the hilarity, and the Xu and He families were extremely embarrassed, especially He Hongshen, who was even more angry.
This time, He Chaoqiong did not succumb to family pressure and created a situation of marrying Yang Qilong, she seemed to be retaliating! Perhaps seeing Ho Hongshen's embarrassment, she stole pleasure in her heart.
Although He Hongshen loved his daughter, he really could not accept her marrying Yang Qilong, and could not persuade He Chaoqiong, so he did not hesitate to have a grudge with Yang Qilong, publicly reprimanded Yang Qilong, and criticized him for being too careful and "bad quality."
What kind of goods Yang Qilong is, He Chaoqiong of course knows it, and he will not really want to marry him in his heart.
Sure enough, Shangtian also helped He Chaoqiong. In June 2000, Yang Qilong was arrested for hiding drugs, and the society was in an uproar, and He Chaoqiong took advantage of the situation to end this self-destructive and self-abandoning feeling.
(A few years later, the 38-year-old Yang Qilong's prodigal son turned back and is now a successful family guardian))
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >4, comrade</h1>
After the hustle and bustle is silence, and after Yang Qilong's "vigorous" emotions, He Chaoqiong returns to a quiet life, concentrating and working hard for the family business.
In November 2008, ex-husband Xu Jinheng joined hands with the big beauty Li Jiaxin into the marriage hall.
He Chaoqiong is also 46 years old, and when she is about to know her destiny, she and the strong woman Yu Zheng have gradually become friends.
Born in April 1954, Yu Zheng is a daughter who loves to wear men's clothes. She is erudite and talented, and is known as "Xiangjiang Talented Woman" with Lin Yanni and Bai Yunqin.
Yu Zheng graduated from high school in 1971, entered radio television Hong Kong as a DJ, loved by the audience, and quickly became a producer, in 1982, she crossed into TVB, hosted the famous column "Jinge Golden Melody", the sound shock, she also became the "gold medal emcee", in 1988, she returned to Radio Television Hong Kong as the chief executive, from then on to take charge of the radio power, no longer leave, until finally retired from the chairmanship.
Yu Zheng is an important figure in Hong Kong's radio and entertainment industry, she can be called the "queen" in the circle, and at the same time, she is also a famous "comrade" in Hong Kong - a high-powered "comrade".
Yu Zheng and He Chaoqiong, two strong women, the stars pity each other!
In the face of people's doubts, He Chaoqiong once said: "There are many unsatisfactory things in life, if there are people around you who love and protect you, you will be able to solve all the problems." Life is rare to know oneself, and I am satisfied with the status quo."
After half a lifetime and missing Chen Baiqiang, He Chaoqiong finally met his confidant!
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks</h1>
That's life!
Missing out on sweet first love, being forced to accept a painful marriage, choosing to debauch once when the love is hurt, and finally returning to a quiet comrade, this is He Chaoqiong's life.
What about your life?