Since the dead person should be a funeral, although the person concerned was 80 years old when he died, where did the joy come from? Hey hey, no need to discuss, folk is this way of saying! Moreover, the preparation of funeral rites will not attract slander, but most of the bereaved families are not willing to handle it with red affairs.
Not all the old people over the age of 80 are called happy funerals, which is a prerequisite, first, joy: refers to the old people who have died in addition to enjoying advanced age, and have not been tortured by illness like the history of the mallet, naturally old people are happy; nor have they brought too much economic burden and energy to the younger generations to drag fang for joy, second, mourning, dead people do not call mourning is not called happy? Before the joy plus the mourning, the joy and mourning were thus conceived in the folk.
My uncle was a logger in the early years of sichuan Aba Prefecture Forest Industry Bureau subsidiary company, 50 years old due to diabetes retirement back to Yibin life, people look lean and lean, life self-discipline ability, very know how to avoid, diabetes brought him the trouble is completely within his control, 90th birthday party wearing a pan hat around the neck with a light blue scarf, the voice loud to the guests who came to congratulate him to give a thank-you speech! I said with deep feeling: I have participated in revolutionary work for 30 years, and I have received a pension for 40 years, and I am very grateful to the country and the party very much! Speaking of excitement, the old tears and hands tremble slightly... This may be a special feeling of the older generation of the working class for the party and the country.
One evening at the age of 95, after dinner, he said that he was a little dizzy, so he went back to the bedroom from the balcony early to go to bed, and the night was as quiet as a sound, and the next morning when the eldest daughter-in-law went to ask him to get up for dinner, he knew that he had passed away in his sleep, and his face was very peaceful!
This allows to be the funeral within the category of joy and mourning, which is said by the people.
Cry and shout, go quietly!