In the case of the New Year in recent years, everyone has encountered a new game play, that is, the set of five blessings, what is the five blessings? The simple name is: long life, Wishing you prosperity, physical and mental health and calm, noble character, beginning and end. But some people say that the last one is more difficult, the fifth blessing: a good beginning and a good end. Fruitfulness begins and ends well; because there is cultivation and cultivation, practice is blessed. In fact, this is also a kind of funeral that everyone encounters in folklore, called: joy and mourning. The criteria for joy and mourning are vague, there is no actual requirement, and it can be said that after considering all aspects, it will be rated as happy and mourning.
Of course, the funeral is very easy to understand, the lively funeral ceremony is held, the mourning atmosphere is far less intense, and some people say that this is the same as the banquet, in the past there was a name that the elderly are older, and the funeral can be held according to the funeral, but this age, how much is big? With the change of time, each link is different, the service life in the past is relatively short, people come to seventy years old, sixty years old a nail, beyond the seventy years old even if the age is older, the current can be different, the average life expectancy of people has been widely increased, so according to the age method of joy and mourning, it is indeed too much ambiguity.
Here, for joy and mourning, consider four criteria under general conditions: 1 the children of the elderly are alive, 2 must be in the same house for four lifetimes (above), 3 must be above 90 years old, and 4 must have no luck. Those who meet that standard are happy and mournful. Don't think that this kind of standard is generally impossible to achieve. The old Lady Zhao of the big village, the age is a village first, lived a hundred and five, the children have been left by the old woman, so the age can be guaranteed, to the children can stay up for so long, this is not very good to talk about, so the children must be alive, it is the first key point belongs, can reach this after, and then look at whether the following standards are in line.
Above 90, the difficulty coefficient has already begun to increase, 90 years old has long been counted as a high life expectancy, experienced ups and downs, has a high age, according to folklore, it is a blessed person. The third criterion is that the four generations are in the same house, and the premise is that there must be children and young grandchildren, so that the four generations can be guaranteed to be in the same house. The fourth is more difficult, just like the fifth of the five blessings, called: there is a beginning and an end, a safe and stable fate, no need to serve and take care of others, no inconvenience to the children, relaxed as if they were sleeping, and when they never woke up again, that standard was actually impossible to do. Therefore, the regulations for joy and mourning are quite high.
At present, the regulations for joy and mourning also have a change, under normal circumstances, if the elderly are old, the children are built, are handled in accordance with the funeral application, the age of the old woman in the west of the village is similar to one hundred and eleven, the children are almost ninety, as a child of heavy filial piety, according to the big truth, it should be in the front of the screaming and crying, but this filial piety is also close to 100 years old, walking is not very good, where there is the strength to cry according to the original method, by others with three wheels of electricity pulled in the front, The whole village is full of happy and nourishing duanzi, his filial piety and grandson, in fact, that is also a real method of joy and mourning.