Are there such people around you, with a general family background, not much of an outstanding appearance, but a good job, and a life that everyone admires?
After all, the beauty of life is god's reward, living beautiful to fight for strength, compared to god's gift, relying on their own out of the open life, more impressive.
You know, today's medical technology is so developed that you can pay money to become whatever you want, but if you want to dance out the excitement of life, hard work is more effective than a scalpel.
In "Please Answer 1988", Cheng Paula, who has a medium face, relies on her own life's efforts, and in the world where her parents can't help, she is stunned to kill a blood path that belongs only to her.
Such a girl is commendable, after all, most girls rarely have her boldness.
One
When I first watched it, my impression of Paula stayed at the general level, and even a little felt that she was "bullying", fighting with her excellent results, the love of her parents, and always punching and kicking her brother and sister.
But after watching it several times, I finally began to understand her, and even liked her straight, daring personality.
In this world of acquaintances, no one does not know The Bully Paula, and no one dares to provoke her, because she is always fierce, and it is common to say one thing or the other, beat up virtue, and beat the afterglow.
How good is she studying? The college entrance examination was admitted to Seoul National University at one time, and the estimated gold content is the same as that of our Peking University, which makes the students' dreams haunted.
After all, Ms. Leopard's precious son, Jin Zhengfeng, fought for the college entrance examination seven times before he was admitted to college.
And Paula desperately passed the examination in a short period of time and became the prosecutor of her choice for a long time.
This also once became the pride of the parents, at the grandmother's funeral, the father had to show off, and when Paula was hunted, the mother used it as a bargaining chip for intercession...
Of course, according to the standards of young people now, they should think that there is something remarkable about good grades, and it is the last word to make money.
That's right, Paula has good grades, studies hard, and is stunned in the narrow examination compound to force herself to pass the examination and enter her ideal career.
I don't know how difficult it is for a Korean secession, but as a legal person, the threshold is not too low in any country.
As far as our examination is concerned, the pass rate is less than 10 percent, and the total score of 600 is based on the condition of passing 306, and every year a large number of people will be stopped at the gate of the law.
It is said that the examination is our first difficult examination, followed by the note and the doctor's certificate.
Cheng Baola passed the si kao once, and people like me who knew something about the si kao knew how much she needed to pay.
How many people who fight Siko lose hair, gain weight, endocrine disorders, and even some people will have paranoia, and Paula is still smiling like a flower, and she is really admired under it.
But the director and screenwriter also really care, and the shots given to Cheng Paula are mostly written and booked late at night.
With enough footage to tell you how hard she is, you will know at a glance that this child is very powerful, not the current domestic drama, casually scribbled to introduce it, bluntly stuffed to the audience how strong she is.
Anyway, as long as you are sloppy, you can fool the audience, why elaborate? It's a bit sad to say.
Two
Don't care what others say, just move toward what you think is right.
With Cheng Baola's straightforward personality, it is very unpleasant in front of a treasure girl like Deshan.
So, Sunwoo's mother will say, I like Deoksan, Cheng Paula is too fierce; Ms. Leopard said, I really don't know how she got into Seoul National University? Aze said to Sunwoo, how can you like Sister Paula, aren't you afraid of her...
But what does it matter? Cheng Baola was originally like this, so she would not change herself easily.
Even if Shanyu's mother said in front of the parents one second that she was not, the next second she would drive Shanyu's mother to the countryside to see the sick pearl.
Because she knew that if she couldn't see the pearl, her aunt wouldn't be able to close her eyes overnight, and her heart was full of worry.
Being seen by her parents on TV as a demonstration of herself, and her father quarreled for the first time, and she did not admit that she was killed, after all, this was something she was proud of, how could she easily give up?
Of course, because of the foundation of this speech, when seeing two middle school students comparing with each other, Paula's forceful and funny preaching is both decent and humorous.
The impassioned speech, the smoothness of the hand-throwing, like a scrappy warrior, frightened Zhengfeng, who was twice as big as her, silently hid behind her, forcefully covering the damn foreign big letters.
In the play, Paula's serious joke is completely inherited from her father's powerful genes.
She is performing vigorously, as if it is a realistic version of this role, you laugh out of the eight-pack abs in front of the screen, and she may also count you down "how can it be so unstable, it will not become a big climate"
Cheng Paula's toughness, but how many girls dream of character?
Three
How fierce this bully is, not to study hard can be simply summarized, but in the face of feelings, after careful consideration, choose the future.
But it is not an unconventional abandonment of the green plum bamboo horse, turning around and marrying Gao Fushuai.
Instead, in the face of love and the future, she chose to temporarily put aside love and work hard for the future on her own.
The phrase "I choose to prepare for the Fa-kao", smart and obsessed with Sun-woo, Paula's hidden words are: "Love and career, I choose the latter." ”
Do not drag mud with water, simple and clear, directly hit the point, clean and neat, no retreat.
Sunwoo understood that she was even more torn, but she still had to look like she was doing nothing and force herself into the boudoir, crying darkly.
I liked how fierce she was, especially fierce with decisive wisdom.
At this time, shanyu can concentrate on preparing for the college entrance examination, she can also bravely go forward to chase her ideals, everything is a double eagle with one stone, it is a wise move.
But seeing Shanyu's lost soul, it is false to say that he is not distressed, but he also appreciates Paula's determination.
When you are in urgent need of bread, put down the rose for the time being, and when you have enough money, you will chase love.
Many TV dramas or girls in real life are willing to give everything for love.
At the time when it is most time to fight, choose to make a desperate bet to chase the love that thinks it can be white-headed and old, but in the end it is: the reality of paying a good year and picking up a chicken feather.
Saying that regret is too late, wanting to lose and starting over, afraid that you can't afford to lose, you have to spend the rest of your life in the chicken rib life of "tasteless food, pity to abandon it".
The domineering Cheng Paula is worthy of being the top student of Seoul National University, and these ridiculous futures are offset by her pile of tears and gritted teeth.
In exchange for the dream career, live a glamorous life.
When I first watched this drama, I had not yet graduated from college, and I always felt that the reunion between Sunwoo and Paula was too bloody.
Later, I figured it out, Heaven is really a struggler who cares for a desperate life, and this high-quality drama full of positive energy is lightly telling the audience: People who desperately earn bread, love is at best late and will never be absent.
There are many such film and television examples, such as the movie "The Queen Who Wears Prada", "The Leftover is King", "The Little Thing of First Love", and the super-popular TV series "Why Sheng ZhenMo" (the movie version is not recommended to watch) in previous years, all of which are such endings.
The right person, silently becoming better in the same place, so that one day when they meet, they will hug each other in the vast sea of people.
Of course, in real life, I would rather you become excellent, and then pursue love, I hope that in front of love and career, you can choose your career decisively.
At the very least, career can give you a bulging wallet, send you the future you want, and live like your favorite.
And at a young age, I bet all my money on a vain love, I dare not say that you are stupid, but there are eighty percent of the courage to say that you will regret it.
The other twenty percent are really the kind of nirvana reborn phoenix, and every time the head breaks and the blood flow will usher in the next brave march.
Most of us, on the other hand, are just ordinary people, prone to depression and sluggishness.
Therefore, girls must be like Paula, bravely choose bread in front of love and bread.
It is better to suffer for a while than to regret it for a lifetime.
Love is the courage and persistence of two people after separation, and it is the determination of unwillingness to settle down.
Helplessly, today, the girl has a devilish figure and a good face many years later, but the boy is already a greasy middle-aged man with a big belly and serious hair loss, holding the eldest son who is in elementary school.
At this point, will you regret that you did not become the mother of the child, or will you be glad that you chose bread?
Maybe eighteen or nineteen-year-old girls will not understand Paula's choice, but twenty-seven and eight girls will silently praise Paula.
Four
Of course, Paula is not flawless, and under the straightforward personality, there are always hard wounds that cannot be hidden.
Her relationship with her father, like that of her stepfather and stepdaughter, has feelings, but is very "light".
The money he earned part-time in college, pocket money for his sister, bought a dictionary for his brother, gave his mother a set of skin care products, and his father waited with joy, waiting, and wondering what his baby daughter would send him.
But in addition to an embarrassment, the father's disappointed self took the lead in fleeing the scene.
Yes, she couldn't be as generous and decent as Deshan and talk and laugh with her father, and even spread bridges, nor could she be like Yuhui, like a stupid child, circling around her father all day and begging for ice cream every day.
She is the eldest daughter of a family, how can she still be like a child?
Therefore, she had to carefully hand over her carefully selected shirt to her mother and let her mother pass it on to her father.
I thought that this dissolved the gap between father and daughter, but the father happily wore a new shirt, tight and breathless, but said that tight clothes are now popular, and he likes it.
The next second, awkwardly collapsed buttons.
It is reasonable to say that with this lesson, the polished leather shoes prepared for my father at the wedding should be comfortable.
But the clever Paula learned to eat a long and wise, and the shoes bought for her father were at least two yards larger.
The father still maintains the dignity of his daughter as always, saying that the shoes are comfortable and fit, and the daughter is too good at picking, and he likes it.
Even at the wedding, I did not dare to open my heart to my father, but by writing letters, like my father expressing love and gratitude for years of nurturing grace.
These things are really "Paula", I have the desire to be perfect, but I always lose it, and it backfires.
It is not to die without repentance, but to change the head.
Her feelings with her father are not light, but implicit, introverted, do not know how to express, but also try to express in their own way.
This is very much like the Chinese father-daughter relationship, don't be blinded by the spoiled style of various fathers and daughters on the Internet, it is mostly a fairy tale of a little girl and a young father, and the relationship between Paula and her father is the mode of getting along between an adult father and daughter.
Especially my friends and I are like this, not a non-biological daughter, but I can't always get close to my father, but we can't say that we don't love our old father.
All along, I haven't been able to find the reason for this.
Later, I think that maybe we are used to the majestic father, to the timid and sensible daughter, so there is always a layer of strictness and reverence between the father's love.
Five
If you want to summarize why you can still appreciate this not-so-friendly girl so much, it is probably:
She is hermaphrodite, can be as brave and decisive as a boy in front of her family, and can be a bird in front of her ex-boyfriend and Shanyu, gentle and generous;
Knowing contentment and love to work hard, will not be because of the father can not give the quality of life and resentment, but is very grateful for the father's hard work, the mother's careful care, to have such a complete and warm home.
But she is also able to fight hard enough, and all the roads after her parents try their best, she relies on herself to cut through the thorns and open up the future.
Often there is not much to say, but not a word of nonsense. It is a pity for words like gold, but it is also loyal to the ear.
Self-discipline is also fierce enough, do not waste youth with scumbags, do not delay Shanyu's studies, and do not waste their own years.
Know at what stage, what to do, clear goals, meticulous planning.
Virtue's character is easy to get help from nobles, Paula's character can only rely on her own hard fighting, there is no right or wrong, but the direction of life is different.
But I hope that if you can, try to force yourself to have Paula's courage, but also the simple cuteness of virtue, if you can only choose one of the two, I hope you will be Paula's king kong that integrates tough guys and petite women.
Because Deshan eventually wins Aze, or Dog Huan is a routine in the play, to play with life, like Paula in this way to dance a beautiful life.
After all, only by being cruel to yourself can you live beautifully, and life will be pleasant to yourself.