Sad love affair, in reality, many people have seen, even if they have not seen, have heard, or on TV, or in books to understand. In our day and age, sad romance is like some people who have worked hard to find a girlfriend, spent years of their own savings, and talked about love for several years.
But as a result, to the point of talking about marriage, it was rejected by the woman's parents, why? No houses, houses in the countryside, no cars, no deposits. Finally, I saw the person I liked, the person I loved deeply, the person who gave a lot for her, and was arranged by her parents to marry a man who had a house, a car, and money.
Such a relationship is not very sad, the problem is that women are not happy after marriage, and often think about the men who loved him before. But they dare not divorce and are afraid of their parents. And the man is also very sad, very uncomfortable, do not know what to do, has not been able to get out of this failed relationship, affecting his life, even work, living very inferior, not confident.
Such a sad love affair often happens in reality. There is also a sad love affair that people who do not have a house or a car are also married, but they are divorced within a few months, or half a year, or a few years after marriage. The reason for the divorce is that there is still no house, no car, no money, and the marriage cannot continue.
Such a love affair, in our village, there is, soon after getting married, it will leave, making people feel that modern young people get married, as if children live in the family, when playing, playing! There are also some news that appears on the Internet, because of the bride price, the two families are not in harmony, the marriage is not married, but the boy and the girl still have to be together, but they are forced by their parents to kiss others and get married.
The newlyweds, both poisoned and died, and both parents regretted it and buried them together. It is a bit like the bridge section described in the "Peacock Southeast Flying Southeast" Lefu poetry collection, which makes people feel sad.
A love affair that is providential but contrary to human consent can often be recognized by society after the lover's martyrdom. ——Natsume Shushi "Later Things" - Natsume Shushi #Natsume Shushi Quotes #
There is no doubt that this quotation of Natsume Shushi tells us the last analysis above, many relationships, really have to be martyred by both parties, parents understand that they are true love, are dead together, are forced to kill their children, only to know regret, only to admit that they are lovers, bury them together.
Such lovers are the most pathetic. The students could not be together, but they were buried together. Such a love affair, each other are strong, very persistent about love, unwilling to live, there will be such a sadness. If you are willing to live on it, you will not think about dying.
If you are martyred, your parents will feel guilty for the rest of your life. If you don't martyrdom, you will suffer for a lifetime and you won't be happy. This is often the case in this world, and there is no way to have the best of both worlds. Just as Cangyang Gyatso sighed, "There are two perfect laws in the world, and it is not as good as it should be!" ”
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If true love does not have to pay a lot, does not have to pay some price, it is too easy to get, and it is easy not to be cherished. This is often the case in this world, and only after experiencing each other's tempered love and still being together, can we go to happiness.
Otherwise, the love that has always been very smooth, once there is wind and rain, will be scattered. The really beautiful love should be experienced together through the wind and rain, but can not be separated, can not be separated, such love, often the most true, the most know that it is not easy to be together, suffered.
But some love, as Zhang Ailing said, "Say good forever, somehow scattered." In the end, I thought about it myself, and I couldn't even figure out what separated them in the first place. Then, you suddenly wake up to the fact that feelings are so fragile. It can withstand the wind and rain, but it cannot withstand the ordinary. ”
It can be seen that love, as Bill Gates said, "Love is harder to develop than software!" Even Bill Gates sighed like this, it can be seen that love is really difficult to develop, it is also difficult to operate, those who can manage love very beautifully, must have met people who know each other, they can tolerate each other, trust each other, in order to manage love perfectly.
Therefore, Natsume Soseki's very harsh quotation reveals a very sad love affair, which makes people very sad after reading it!