Today we live in an era of extreme material abundance, we buy and buy every day, always feel that there is a lack of ornaments at home, less clothes in the wardrobe, when the mood is not good, buying a sentimental object will also make our depressed mood get temporarily calm, but this will also make our home like a miscellaneous shop, more items The room will become untidy, and there are many things we can't use at all, we buy it and let it fall to ashes there.
We also tidy up from time to time, but we always seem to be helpless about the numerous skirts, books, underwear and socks, and small things that can be avoided, because we can't always store them well, we can't give them a precise place, we can't always find the dress we want to wear, the documents we want to use are always not known on which bookshelf, and so on.
Until one day, I found this book, "The Magic of Life Tidying Up", ah! There is such a profession in the world! The author of the book, Marie Kondo, actually began to love storage and finishing from the age of 5, read a large number of related books at the age of 15, and began to serve as a finishing consultant at the age of 18.
The highest level of The "Kondo" rating of Japan's cleaning industry is named after her, and her influence in the finishing world is evident in her 2015 inclusion in Time Magazine's 100 Most Influential Who's Who in the World.
But what I want to share with you today is not the specific storage and arrangement method in the book, but through the organization of items, let us give ourselves a chance to think deeply about life. In this book on storage and tidying, there is a word "thrilling", yes, our lives will always have exciting moments, but if the storage and tidying time is long, we will be impatient, in the face of unorganized messy items we will also throw away the big ones, where will there be a feeling of excitement?
Kondo said: The so-called thrill is not just a simple charm such as "intoxicating", "inviting", and "making people's hearts beat faster". The "sense of peace of mind" conveyed by the simple design, the "convenience" of rich functions, the unspeakable "harmonious fit", and the "role" in life are the characteristics that make people feel excited.
There are some things that we think we will not be moved, but they actually really move us, but we do not notice it at all, but say to ourselves that "there is no heartbeat". Therefore, the relationship between objects and our people is probably very profound and complex.
Although Kondo's words are used to describe objects, is it also used to compare our human emotions? Our love from the initial acquaintance to the familiar, from the feeling of no love began to have a deep attachment, from the unsightly appearance type to the lover's eyes out of the west, our heart in the true sense of the heart turned out to be so dull.
We used to think that only the things that made people's hearts beat faster and blood rush upwards could make people feel excited. But when we are really excited, we find that we are not really able to grasp and have them for a long time, they are like beautiful soap bubbles that make you feel romantic and happy, but when you want to touch them, they are broken...
Through the sorting out of items, people eventually live in harmony in the items they really like, people will feel happy and content, so this book teaches us the physical skills of storage and sorting in detail, but also allows us to have a correct understanding of the sorting, so as to become a "person who can organize". Then discover the true desire in your heart, soberly insight into yourself, review yourself, learn to give up decisively, give yourself the ability to control life, and bravely pursue the ideal self.
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The ideal life starts with tidying up for ¥100
To borrow a phrase from the book: the real life starts with tidying up!