It's a shame to say that I am a person who thinks of tidying up the room unless I can no longer find what I want in the messy room. And once it is sorted out, it is out of control, and even small trinkets such as hair rope headdresses can be accurately planned.
My method of tidying up is to sweep, discard useless garbage, store similar items, and set up a unique space for each item to ensure that the items can be returned to their place after use.
However, the number of items is always increasing. New clothes were bought in the changing seasons, shopping festivals were hoarded like crazy goods, souvenirs were brought back by the tour...
The new items are all thrown into the storage box, crowded like the subway at the peak of the commute, as if you can fight at any time because of his Gasser.
Since I learned about the concept of "breaking away", I have forced myself to throw away no supplies, not to say that "my home is empty", at least to create a comfortable and concise environment. When I started to act, I found that it was just a senseless struggle.
Such a small kawaii thing, after throwing it away, there will be no more, anyway, it does not take up space, do not throw it. Oops, the train ticket when I went to school, this is a testimony to my hot youth, full of memories how to lose. Well, this may still be used in the future, so let's stay.
See? I have been completely impressed by the innate charm of the object or the meaning it gives.
Just when I couldn't resolutely and resolutely "break away" and was frustrated, after reading "The Magic of Tidying Up Life (Practice Puzzle)", Marie Kondo told me that the purpose of tidying up is not to throw things, but to keep the heartwarming items. If you like to collect cute and delicate trinkets, it doesn't matter, we can use them to create a "heartbeat space" for ourselves and become our own mysterious energy source.
Just like now, take your favorite pen, paste beautiful decorations on your favorite book, write this reading note, the heart is pounding, the sweet heart is moving, slowly melting, falling into happiness.
Kondo also taught me that the focus of tidying up is not "what should be thrown away", but to live under what things. Throwing things around alone can't make people shine.
Therefore, at the beginning of the tidying up, it is very important to think about your ideal life. It's best to search or design the photos of life you want and build a list of dreams. For example, a separate cloakroom, a neat study, a beautiful and fast laptop...
Tidying up, to the end, is a process of discovering yourself. I want the ideal life, to have a relaxed and free main business, but also to earn a side income through hobbies and interests, and a long trip with three or five confidants at least twice a year. In order to achieve a state of life facing the sea and blossoming in spring, I must have a continuous positive energy input to ensure my own excellence and eye-catching.
Tidying up, not only refers to spatial sorting, but also can be extended to emotional finishing, interpersonal relationship collation...
After reading this book, I tried to sort out the circle of friends, leaving a existence like a small sun, shielding friends who spread negative energy, quitting invalid small talk groups, game circles...
The past is not love, the future can be expected. Say sorry to the things you lost and the person, and thank you for your previous companionship. Thank you for what you have left behind and your kindness, and please pay more attention to it in the future.
May we all be surrounded by objects and people we love, and every day we will be thrilled.
This issue of Interaction: Have you created a "heartbeat space"? What have you "broken" off" for the sparkling ideal life?
Mu Wanchu, a scorpion woman, digs deep into the inner world and specializes in all kinds of disobedience. Write your and my story with warm pen and ink, welcome to exchange and discuss ~ WeChat: iiq700, add notes when you see me from where, such as: today's headlines.