Presumably everyone is familiar with Li Nian, she has created many classic roles, the most deeply rooted in the hearts of the people should be Zhu Li in "All Is Good", in the hit drama "I really love you", Li Nian's performance is also good. She plays a character named Yuya, who is a happy full-time wife, has a husband with a successful career, and has a good life. You don't have to worry about it financially, and you don't have to worry about it emotionally. You know, the strong woman Xiao Yan is living in a rented house in that city with little land, but Yuya, who has not gone out to work since graduation, has already lived in a villa. Of course, it's all thanks to her wonderful and successful husband.
Because there are not too many troubles in life, Yuya's mentality is better, so the whole person looks younger.
How would you describe her mindset? Take Chen Jiaorui for comparison, friends who have watched the play know that Chen Jiaorui got depression after giving birth, and her ex-husband Mo Ming believes that it is because Chen Jiaorui is too pretentious, and depression is also temporary, after all, Yuya recovered quickly. The reason why the latter recovers quickly is because she has a husband who loves her, and another is to accommodate her girlfriend, and she does not have to worry about her career, let alone money, and she enjoys production. The woman in the honeypot is yuya, who is definitely standing on the tip of the full-time mother's tower.
But a closer analysis shows that Yuya's happiness is not solid. In the process of talking to Chen Jiaorui, Yuya bluntly said that she had a good attitude. So what is the premise of a good attitude? Of course, it is her obedient husband, even if she is pregnant, Cheng Haonan will not stop her from drinking coffee. But Chen Jiaorui is different, she is a strong woman who can do everything for her career. But since she became pregnant, her husband interfered in her life in the name of being good for the child, could not drink drinks, could not wear high heels... In fact, if two people think more from each other's point of view, they will never go to the step of divorce. Later, Mo Ming worked at the Confinement Center, and his understanding of the child became clearer and clearer, and he finally knew Chen Jiaorui's feelings as a mother, but everything came too late.
Remember Chen Jiaorui asked Youya if she did not rely on Chen Haonan financially, would she be happy. The latter bluntly said that money is not omnipotent, this sentence sounds very cool, but it reflects from the side that she is really too well protected, even a little silly and sweet, so that she may not be happy to leave Chen Haonan. All her happiness is based on the protection of friends, parents, and husbands, and on the surface it looks solid, but in fact it is all bubbles.
If Cheng Haonan is no longer rich, then there will be no cleaning hourly work in the house, and Yuya must do housework, so can she still be happy? Later, Cheng Haonan's company was indeed facing bankruptcy, but at this time, Grace was pregnant with a second child, and everyone around her felt that this child was not the right time, but Yuya was very insistent, and she did not think about Cheng Haonan at all. If this child is not born, how much effort will everyone have to put into it. In short, when the second child came, Yuya did not pay attention to her husband's hardships, but only selfishly considered herself.
No matter who she talks to, Yuya is emphasizing that the reason for her happiness is that she has a good attitude, which invisibly weakens Chen Haonan's kindness to her. In fact, the moment she became economically dependent on Cheng Haonan, Yuya lost her independence. Seeing this, do you still think her happiness is very secure?