In the TV series "I Really Love You", Yuya seems to be very happy, but in fact, she is the most unfortunate. Cheng Haonan looks like a good husband on the surface, but in fact he is very bad. Once something goes wrong, their seemingly perfect marriage is actually vulnerable. Today, we will talk about Chen Haonan and Youya.
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Cheng Haonan opened a game company, and Yuya is a full-time wife. Her daily routine is to take the children and practice yoga. Five years after marriage, she still looks like a teenage girl, a fairy mother in the eyes of her children. Her good figure, no one is not envious. Only she knew that it was practiced day after day on a yoga mat.
Others think it is difficult to take a child, but she just likes children and wants to have a second child. The moment she learned she was pregnant, not to mention how happy she was. When Xiao Yan was worried about her, she felt very happy. However, Yuya did not know that her happy dream would soon be shattered.
Yuya can be so happy because her husband Chen Haonan is outside to earn money to support the family. Today, however, the company is experiencing difficulties. After the shareholders left, no new shareholders could be found. The anchor terminated the contract, and he did not even have the money to pay the employees. Cheng Haonan did not tell her this. When dealing with these things, they all hid from her.
Cheng Haonan never brought the emotions of work to his home, and when he saw them, he immediately put down those bad emotions and played with their mother and daughter. There is also time to pick up and drop off children for Yuya.
A lot of people want such a husband, I am responsible for making money to support the family, you are responsible for being beautiful as a flower. Whatever happens, I take it upon myself. But when he couldn't hide it, the disaster of his wife and children really came. That kind of surprise is enough to crush a family.
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Cheng Haonan never told Yuya what difficulties he had encountered, nor did he tell Yuya about his current situation, they were not suitable for raising a second child. At first, he knocked on the side to make Yuya give up. First of all, he used his son Congcong, saying that having a second child was not good for Congcong. However, Cong Cong himself said that he had no opinion.
Later, he went straight to the hospital to buy medicine for the miscarriage. Gosh, this man is really terrible, you see it now. I want to quietly get rid of my own children. The image of a good father, a good husband is destroyed in an instant.
I have always been unable to understand Cheng Haonan's approach, obviously I can tell each other frankly, I would rather make small moves behind my back than talk about my own difficulties, is it love for my wife? Not at all.
When Yuya proposed to sit in the confinement center, he began to attack Xiao Yan again. In his opinion, it was Xiao Yan who had no friends and only found Youya. Moreover, his own parents take care of the confinement, and there is no problem at all.
If there were no problems with Cheng Haonan's company, Cheng Haonan would not say these words. As long as Yuya is happy, for him, the problems that can be solved with money are not problems. But what he lacks most now is money. Spending money at the Confinement Center, he did not tell the truth, but instead made Yuya give up from other aspects.
Xiao Yan once said that Cheng Haonan wanted to keep Youya as a canary all the time. However, he could not raise Yuya for a lifetime. Too much control will make him lose Yuya. His desire for control is indeed quite strong, and Yuya has to take her son with her to the party. Seeing that Mo Ming contacted Youya, he did not tell Youya. In this way, it seems that he loves Yuya very much, but in fact, he does not trust her enough.
A husband like Cheng Haonan is really terrible, his goodness to you is superficial, but his badness to you is in his bones. He can say sweet things to you and destroy you.
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When Cheng Haonan encountered problems, the simplest and most direct way was to tell Yuya that the two people would face it together. He does not say, but also maintains the daily expenses of mother and child. In fact, there are expenses that he can't afford to pay. You can bring it up and pause it first. For example, Yuya's yoga class, and Yuya does not have to rush to buy clothes for her children after five years, and the confinement center. As long as he said it was difficult, Yuya would not continue these expenses.
He didn't say it, and also satirized Xiao Yan, hurting Yuya. If he said it, Xiao Yan could also help solve it together. Yuya told him that when he was born, a lot of unpleasantness happened. It's just that those unpleasant themselves didn't say it. She chose the confinement center, not to help Xiao Yan, but to relax herself and her mother-in-law, as well as her parents.
Mo Ming and Chen Jiaorui are good examples. The arrival of the mother and mother-in-law not only did not let Chen Jiaorui get good care, but also postpartum depression. Finally, the couple divorced.
When she was pregnant before, Yuya was wronged, not to say, because she could see Chen Haonan's hardships. But now, she wanted to make herself a little easier, and there was nothing wrong with that.
Cheng Haonan's not to say, the information received by the husband and wife is not equal, which can easily cause contradictions between husband and wife. This contradiction seems to be a small matter, and over time there will be big problems.
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This drama sees now, Yuya seems to be the happiest, but in fact the most unfortunate. Xiao Yan has always been in control of her own life, good or bad, is her choice. Chen Jiaorui was bad in her bones, but her life had always been under her control. Only Yuya, she relied on Cheng Haonan.
This dependence, if nothing happened, she lived happily. Once something happens, it is an emotional crisis. However, Yuya's today is her own choice, and it is also caused by Chen Haonan.
Obviously, Yuya enjoys such a life situation, and she feels very happy. And Cheng Haonan never planned to let Yuya go out to work, so he did not explain the difficulties he encountered.
Yuya, a person who has never been to work, she and Xiao Yan talked about the workplace, and they saw it more thoroughly than Xiao Yan. She immediately understood that Chen Jiaorui's promotion to vice president was promoted by Xiao Yan.
If one day Yuya walks into the workplace, she will not do worse than others. On the path of stay-at-home moms, she has done better than too many people. The same 24 hours a day, without a babysitter, she is alone, she can bring good children, but also manage her own image. Arguably, she's not someone who can't afford it. And Cheng Haonan's not to say, but his self-esteem and desire to control made him unable to open his mouth. However, the movement behind him was enough to destroy Yuya.
Women should never pin their hopes on men, even if the person who loves you again has a selfish side. Only if you are stronger and stronger will you better protect yourself.
Discussion today: How do you see Yuya?
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