Come and open the door, I'm your captain Avi!
This is the classic line of Hong Kong actor Lou Nanguang in the movie "Mr. Zombie" 35 years ago; it is also a paragraph in which netizens ridicule him as a part-time marriage mediator and help hundreds of star couples, but they are divorced. Isn't it a great irony that the healer does not heal himself, and the marriage mediator looks at the marriage of others and is helpless to do anything about his own marriage?
Lou Nanguang, 65, now wants his ex-wife Xu Manhua to open the door, I am afraid it is impossible.
Affectionately bear a long grudge.
This life, the mirror flower and the water moon, all become empty illusions.
Lou Nanguang was born on 3 July 1954 in Lion Stone Road, Kowloon City, Hong Kong.
At the beginning of his birth, Lou Nanguang's family was still in good condition, and the family lived in Union Road in Kowloon City.
As the brother of the rich man, Lou Nanguang was a typical young master in his childhood.
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long, and his parents failed to do business in the fourth grade of Lou Nanguang Primary School, and the family was forced to move to Shek Kong in the New Territories.
Friends familiar with Hong Kong landmarks must know that at that time, shek kong in the New Territories was sparsely populated, there was no market nearby, there was no electricity, it was desolate, and the purchase of living materials had to run to Yuen Long.
From prosperity to loneliness, even if you are reluctant, life still has to go on.
Lou Nanguang's parents borrowed money to contract a small farm, and the whole family counted on this land to live hard.
Lou Nam-kwong was forced to drop out of school when he reached Secondary 5 at a secondary school in Yuen Long – when his family could not even pay for the exam for his graduation exam.
After lou Nanguang, who had been hit hard, came out of the school, he was once quite depressed. He has worked as a hotel porter, an airport stevedor, a liquefied gas porter, a worker in his own countryside, and so on.
But at that time, Lou Nanguang was thin and Sven-looking, and he couldn't eat after a long time of physical work. Wanting to escape, he applied for the 6th session of the wireless artist training course.
Unexpectedly, Lou Nanguang was lucky to be admitted.
But this issue is starless, and the more famous ones are only Lu Liangwei and Chen Yulian. The reason for this is that Shaw temporarily decided to change the training time of this year from one year to three months.
For many talented students, the artist training class is a shortcut to the superstar of the king, but for the average talented student, it is a complete nightmare.
After graduation, the wireless contract is the basic salary - some actors who can't receive the drama are paid, and the salary of the security guard at the door is not as high.
Lou Nanguang just graduated from that meeting, auditioned in nine crews in a row, tried for three months, and the result was that no director used him.
In desperation, Lou Nanguang had to continue to audition while doing some private work such as wedding celebrant and company opening ceremony host.
It is this experience of cold and warm taste and coldness in the world that lays the groundwork for the outbreak of Lou Nanguang's acting skills and being a marriage mediator in the future.
For five years after graduation, Lou Nanguang traveled to large and small crews, radio and television stations, wedding scenes, and opening scenes.
In 1982, the movie "Night Terror" starring Zheng Zeshi, Zhang Aijia and Ren Dahua was successfully auditioned by Lou Nanguang.
In this movie, he played a small clerk who did not play much, but let many viewers finally know that there was such an actor.
Sometimes fate is so magical, in 1985, when the marriage of Hong Jinbao and his ex-wife Cao Enyu was in crisis, Lou Nanguang interviewed Hong Jinbao as a marriage mediator, and the two became friends.
Under the promotion of Hong Jinbao, Lou Nanguang was fortunate to star in the peak of the fantasy film directed by Liu Guanwei and starring Lin Zhengying, Qian Xiaohao, Xu Guanjie and others - "Mr. Zombie".
In this movie, Lou Nanguang's acting skills have been greatly recognized, and the role of "Captain Ah Wei" directly made Lou Nanguang win the double nomination for the Best Supporting Actor Award and the Best Newcomer Award at the 5th Hong Kong Film Awards.
At this time, it has been 8 years since Lou Nanguang graduated from the wireless artist training class. What does it mean to be nominated for Best Newcomer? It shows that in front of him, he has been depressed for 8 years and has no opportunity to perform.
Since then, Lou Nanguang has been in close contact with Hong Jinbao, and he has starred in films such as "Zombie Family", "Oriental Vulture", "Divine Flying Tiger Overlord Flower" and so on, with little production, but most of the roles are impressive.
Lou Nanguang, who has a smooth career, also harvested his love and marriage.
As early as when he was in the trough, he met hong Kong actress Xu Manhua, a female star who was indifferent by nature, only starred in a few films such as "Mr. New Zombie" and "House Dancer", and retired after marriage.
The marriage of strong women and weak men is usually called "married to love", and Xu Manhua at that time must have also married love: he was more famous than Lou Nanguang at that time, tall and tall, and his appearance was outstanding, but what was Lou Nanguang at that time?
At the beginning, the two can also be called the "model couple" in the entertainment industry: Xu Manhua sacrificed his career for the family, and Lou Nanguang was also particularly diligent and desperate.
He has held several hats: actor, radio host, marriage mediator.
During his part-time marriage mediator, he has helped thousands of families and hundreds of celebrity couples.
For example, in 1990 he mediated Zeng Zhiwei's marriage.
For example, he once hosted an emotional program called "Happy to Have This Reason", which specializes in mediating marriage issues.
His language is humorous, his words are sharp, and his comments are often to the point, so many star artists trust him and are willing to share their emotional marriage with him.
Unfortunately, with the soaring popularity of Lou Nanguang, criticism also followed.
A number of female artists on Hong Kong Television complained about Lou Nanguang's "salty pig hand", and Lou Nanguang's image fell to the bottom overnight.
Regardless of the truth or falsity of the matter, his wife Xu Manhua was angry and took her daughter to live in Canada.
Lou Nanguang saw the situation and panicked, and he also chased after Canada.
Unfortunately, this "marriage mediator" who mediated multiple couples failed to mediate his marriage in the end.
After divorcing Xu Manhua, Lou Nanguang returned to Hong Kong disheartened.
In recent years, there have been repeated self-media revelations that Lou Nanguang fell in love with a female artist who was 18 years younger, but the pickpocket sister has searched many times, and there is no mainstream media information to support it, so here it is not a table.
Thinking back to that year, Lou Nanguang played Tan Yonglin's classic song "The Favorite of a Lifetime" and Xu Manhua's show of love in the program, which touched countless audiences.
If you are obsessed with waiting for a certain day, you can finally wait until the love of your life...
Unfortunately, this marriage did not survive the time.
Lou Nanguang, who is 65 years old this year, if he starts a marriage, will he still choose "The Love of My Life" to show her love?
I think it's better to let the other party "open the door" first.
Come and open the door, I'm your captain Avi!