It is said that the divorced couple Lao Yan flew separately, each wonderful. Some are like strangers, and some are enemies, and they are not in contact with each other.
However, there is such a couple, after divorce, the feelings are more harmonious, even more harmonious than during the marriage.
They are Xie Xian and Deborah.
For these two people, some people may feel strange. However, when it comes to the sons of the two, they are famous in today's entertainment industry, it is the famous singer and Nicholas Tse, who also makes a good job.
However, in 1995, when Nicholas Tse was only 15 years old, Deborah chose to divorce Xie Xian. What kind of story happened between the two people, and what reasons and contradictions made the husband and wife choose to divorce?
Before Xie Xian and Deborah were together, both of them had their own love affairs. When she was young, Deborah was outstanding in appearance, sexy and slim, and was very popular after entering the show business circle.
The beauty with such a posture naturally made countless men at that time flock to it. Soon, Deborah fell in love with one of the wealthy merchants and began a cross-border love affair between the two.
At this time, Xie Xian is also in love with his girlfriend Zhen Zhen. However, just after the two married, Zhen Zhen's heart did not seem to have the intention of returning to the family, and soon began to communicate privately with another man.
This is undoubtedly a major blow to Xie Xian. After the collapse, Xie Xian no longer had the heart to work, and indulged in the gentle countryside full of red wine and greenery.
At this time, Deborah was already a double gain of fame and fortune, and she was determined to make a lot of money outside the show business, so she aimed at renting a house as a source of income.
It was also this decision that made Deborah and Xie Xian get together, and under the matchmaking of friends, Xie Xian, who was in urgent need of renting at that time, met Deborah, who rented and sold a house. At this meeting, Xie Xian also fell in love with Deborah at first sight, and immediately launched a fierce pursuit.
However, at that time, Deborah was still accompanied by a foreign boyfriend, so Xie Xian also spent a lot of effort in pursuing beauty.
He began to invite Deborah frequently, accurately capturing the desires of Deborah's heart. Finally, during ten consecutive days together, Deborah also began to develop a good feeling and attachment to Xie Xian.
Even though Deborah later had to return to the United States to reunite with her boyfriend, Xie Xian had occupied all the places in her heart. Therefore, Deborah resolutely chose to break up with her rich businessman boyfriend for the sake of Xie Xian.
Xie Xian, who wished to return to the beautiful place, soon held a wedding with Deborah. The grand scale of the wedding also shocked the whole of Hong Kong, costing two million Hong Kong dollars.
At the wedding scene, Deborah, dressed in a valuable white wedding dress and wearing a crown, smiled and nodded to the guests who arrived, and she snuggled up next to Xie Xian, as if she had become the happiest woman in the world.
However, many people are opposed to this marriage. Some people think that Xie Xian's amorous affair is well known in the circle, and such a marriage lacks security.
But Deborah didn't think so, especially since she was pregnant at the time, so she insisted on marrying her beloved.
The criticism of the crowd was also confirmed shortly after the marriage, and although he had already married a delicate wife and entered the door, Xie Xian could not change the nature of Hua Xin after all.
Although Deborah gave birth to Xie Tingfeng and Xie Tingting successively, she still could not save her husband's playful heart.
Such an insecure marriage made Deborah extremely miserable. As early as before, Nicholas Tse talked about his mother as an orphan when she was a child, and was placed at the door of someone else's house not long after she was born.
Therefore, for the protection and care of emotions, Deborah is very important, and After marriage, Xie Xian's series of actions have made Deborah feel pain. So, in 1995, the two decided to divorce.
More than ten years of feelings scattered, originally thought that Deborah for her ex-husband Xie Xian will be a hateful attitude of iron and steel, after the divorce will also be a situation of never interacting with each other, but the reality is not so.
In recent years, there seems to be news of the imminent reunion between Xie Xian and Deborah. It turned out that on many occasions, Xie Xian's side still had The companionship of Deborah, and even in some public places, Deborah had kissed Xie Xian in public.
Such a move is really puzzling, and it completely subverts the concept of being a stranger after divorce. Unlike ordinary divorced couples, after Xie Xian and Deborah were separated, the two got along more than during marriage.
To another extent, the way the two get along after divorce seems to have reached a different kind of balance and tacit understanding.
Just last month, Deborah and Xie Xian were captured watching a movie starring their son, Nicholas Tse.
Also at the funeral scene of the gambling king He Hongshen, Deborah and Xie Xian also put on each other's waists, looking particularly intimate.
Not only now, not long after the divorce between the two, the relationship between Deborah and Xie Xian is already so intriguing.
After divorcing Xie Xian, Deborah once fell into a period of depression for a while. At that time, Jiang Yaocheng, who had always regarded Deborah as an idol, accompanied her without abandonment, and out of gratitude and touch, Deborah chose to marry Jiang Yaocheng.
As an ex-husband, Xie Xian was also invited to participate in the wedding, and was very moved at the wedding scene. And Deborah is also very emotional to call on the fourth brother to Xie Xian, passing on her joy of marriage. The relationship between the three people, and some people jokingly call this the three in-laws.
Moreover, although they have been divorced, the family of four still appears in the same frame from time to time, making the outside world have the illusion that Xie Xian and Deborah have never been separated.
In dealing with the relationship between her current husband and ex-husband, Deborah also succeeded in making the two men friends, and the three were often photographed drinking tea and chatting together.
In addition, Deborah's relationship with her ex-husband is also particularly delicate, and it is completely a friendship that is not enough. Xie Xian also often habitually put his arms around Deborah and talk happily, and Deborah kissed Xie Xian intimately many times despite the presence of her husband Jiang Yaocheng.
Such a relationship is really confusing, so why on earth did Deborah and Xie Xian get along so calmly and even more amicably after their divorce?
In fact, the reason why the two can still get along so abnormally after divorce is that in the final analysis, both of them have sincerely paid for each other during the marriage.
In a previous show, Xie Xian sweetly complained that choosing to divorce Deborah was actually that she loved herself too much.
This seems to be strange, Xie Xian explained, it is out of love that Deborah loves to control him, which invisibly makes Xie Xian feel unfree.
To what extent do you love? Xie Xian gave an example, for example, if he liked a suit, Deborah knew that without saying a word, he would buy six sets for him.
Moreover, Deborah also has great respect for Xie Xian in terms of having children. After learning of Xie Xian's wish that her first child would be a boy, Deborah began to adjust her diet and even put into practice the method of eating oysters for two weeks to have a child.
It can be seen that for her husband Xie Xian, Deborah has poured out all her love.
And Xie Xian, although he was in the twilight, he also had compassion and heartache for Deborah. It is rumored that during the time when Deborah was pregnant, reporters frequently came to the door to take pictures, and deborah was excessively asked to lift her clothes to reveal her pregnant belly.
This move of the reporter also annoyed Xie Xian, in order to protect his wife's privacy and prevent her from interference and infringement from the outside world, Xie Xian made a strong deterrent and warning to the reporters. Invisibly, it also gave Deborah a firm sense of security.
Not only that, after the divorce, Xie Xian did not become a hand-throwing treasurer, throwing two children to Deborah to raise alone.
Instead, it is to choose husband and wife to face together, and at the same time declare that the two children are the crystallization of their love with their ex-wives from beginning to end, and will always be the flesh and bones of the two, so whether they are separated or not, both have the responsibility and obligation to accompany the healthy growth of the children.
It was Xie Xian's sense of responsibility that made Deborah look at him with admiration. For the above reasons, it is not surprising why Deborah and Xie Xian were able to get along so kindly after leaving.