I don't know if you have watched the variety show "Summer of the Eaves"?
In this variety show, Liu Xuehua, 62 years old and living alone for 9 years, his private life was exposed for the first time.
She we remember is Qiong Yao, who is accustomed to seeing all kinds of beauties, and the heroine she loves the most.
Beautiful and moving, just like the person in the painting.
The crying drama is even more crushing the invincible hand of the crowd.
However, in this variety show, she will sleep on the TV that emits sound.
24 hours a day, the TV in the living room and bedroom is played non-stop
I don't use my mobile phone to order food, nor do I want to go out, and I laugh at myself as out of touch with modern life
Feeding the dog, watching TV, playing mahjong on the phone, and talking to her sister on the phone make up her day.
Liu Xuehua, who lives alone, is not afraid of anything else, and what he is most worried about is, "In case one day, I accidentally wrestle or do something, no one knows." ”
Therefore, she plans to live in a nursing home for another 10 years.
Therefore, after many netizens saw the video, they pitied her and felt sorry for her.
In their view, Liu Xuehua is so old, childless, and alone for 9 years, which is too desolate and does not meet the public's cognition of the old age life of big beautiful women.
However, does Liu Xuehua really need this pity and heartache?
The sheep felt, not necessarily.
Liu Xuehua was born in Beijing and grew up in Hong Kong.
Her father disciplined his children strictly, and she began to study Chinese painting at the age of 12.
After growing up, he was admitted to the Great Wall Film Company and starred in many films.
The 22-year-old starred in two TV series, but both received mediocre responses and were stereotyped as "Chivalrous Women".
Dillon watched her pass by the Shaw Film Company and said to the bystander, "This girl must have martial arts, you see her walking with the wind."
According to the current point of view, an actress, who has been stereotyped in a large company, has not yet made her own masterpiece at the age of 22, and her future is estimated to be worrying.
But fate is sometimes the elusive wind.
The 24-year-old Liu Xuehua has become popular in Southeast Asia with the TV series "Maiden Cixi", and was even invited to Thailand to sing to the king.
Although, according to her, the sound walking was a mess at that time
It is also because of this drama that Qiong Yao noticed Liu Xuehua and invited her to star in "Several Degrees of Sunset Red".
For Liu Xuehua, who has loved to read Qiong Yao's novels since he was a child, this is simply a godsend.
Because, in those days when she was a heroine and acted in martial arts films, she once again and again wondered when she would be able to make literary and artistic films.
One loves to write literary and artistic films, and the other loves to act in literary and artistic films, as if he is a good partner who is destined to be born.
As a result, Liu Xuehua not only became a Qiong girl, but also became Qiong Yao's "royal heroine".
In one Qiong Yao drama after another, she is beautiful and moving, crying heartbreakingly, and has the title of "Queen of Tearful Eyes".
After that, when Qiong Girl mentioned Liu Xuehua, she would more or less sigh, Sister Xuehua, really good to cry.
There are also people who speculate that the rule that qiong yao heroine must cry beautifully is not starting from Liu Xuehua.
Under this tacit cooperative relationship, Qiong Yao let Liu Xuehua live in her own house and personally decorated the house for her.
Even, to the elderly Liu Xuehua said, "I don't want you to play my mother, you are still the heroine in my mind."
I don't blame Qiong Yao for favoring her so much.
After all, at that time, Liu Xuehua not only had good acting skills, but also was extremely beautiful, just like the Qiong Yao girl who came out of the book.
The three courts are balanced, and the five eyes are appropriate.
Although it is a square face, it is a square that is just right, the front contour is smooth, plus the chin length is appropriate, and the overall appearance is still a goose egg face.
Moreover, her eyes were particularly well-born.
The pupils are large, the eyes are high, the whites of the eyes are clear, and it looks like a pool of water in the eyes.
At a glance, it is convincing that the lingering and breathless love in Qiong Yao's drama will really happen to her.
The most rare thing is that her beauty has a fairly long shelf life.
When she was young, she was a big beauty in a romantic drama
When he is older, he is also the most beautiful empress dowager and mother-in-law in the romance drama.
When "The Biography of Zhen Huan" was popular, some netizens made a video of Liu Xuehua's costume when he was young, saying that Long Keduo knew nothing about the beauty of the empress.
However, she has high career achievements and a long career, and she has many unhappiness in her feelings.
The love affair that the public is most familiar with Liu Xuehua is the "love of double Liu" - Liu Xuehua & Liu Dekai.
At that time, when Liu Dekai fell in love with Liu Xuehua, he not only concealed the news that he was married, but also let Liu Xuehua bear the insult of "Little Three".
In the case that Liu Xuehua was pregnant, he split his legs and married others.
Because of this relationship, Liu Xuehua attempted suicide, was in a trance, and an accident occurred during the bath, and the 6-month-old child was miscarried and the uterus was removed.
The Taiwanese production bigwigs among Liu Xuehua's film fans also launched a plan to "ban Liu Dekai" for this purpose.
However, Liu Xuehua said:
"Most of the fans think that the woman is weak, this is not fair, we choose to separate is our problem, more fortunately, I am blessed by misfortune." After 4 years apart from him, I met my husband. ”
Liu Xuehua's husband is Deng Yukun.
As a screenwriter, Deng Yukun fell in love with Liu Xuehua at first sight at the party, stopped Liu Xuehua before going out, and wrote eight words to her.
Those eight words are "Ice heart wins snow, spring calyx its glory." ”
In his heart, Liu Xuehua's heart was kind and pure, whiter than snow, and the spring flowers were as gorgeous as her face.
Three days after falling in love, Deng Yukun proposed to Liu Xuehua.
The time of marriage, after many years, Deng Yukun still remembers everything clearly and clearly.
After the marriage, the two lived happily, Deng Yukun would pat Liu Xuehua's back and coax her to sleep and get up, and Liu Xuehua would work with Deng Yukun's clothes when filming.
In the interview, Liu Xuehua also said:
"Under his care, I became a road fool who couldn't recognize the road, a feeble-minded person who wouldn't go to the bank by herself, a housewife who didn't dare to shop alone, couldn't cut apples, couldn't use a microwave oven..."
The two said that they were gods and immortals, which was not an exaggeration at all.
However, the accident came suddenly.
One night, Liu Xuehua slept in the house, Deng Yukun went upstairs to debug the TV antenna, and one accidentally fell off the building and died.
At the funeral scene, Liu Xuehua's eyes were full of tears, and people were as thin as paper.
Years later, when she went on the show to talk about it, she still felt unconvinced and uncomfortable.
She didn't understand why God wanted to take away her lover Deng Yukun, why she couldn't let the two of them grow old.
Therefore, in Liu Xuehua's heart, she was just going to travel when Deng Yukun was deng, and sooner or later the two would see each other.
Usually, we feel that when the big beauty is old, it will be different from ordinary people.
After all, they have been so beautiful, and they have had so many glorious moments.
Everyone will try to keep those beautiful, shiny things, choosing to forget those ugly, bleak moments.
Those beautiful people should be the same.
Moreover, there is no shortage of such examples in the entertainment industry.
There is desperate to save time, trying to stop their beauty
There are also those who continue to be active on the screen, playing an eighteen-year-old girl at an age
These beautiful people, it seems, do not obey the old, nor do they recognize the old.
However, Liu Xuehua showed us another possibility of the fate of the great beauty.
That is, like ordinary people, living normally, plainly, and calmly.
On the variety show, the host asked her to use a word to describe the 21 days with young people.
She chose the word "cool."
The reason why I think it is cool is because after contacting young people, Liu Xuehua feels that she has also learned something new.
This kind of learning momentum is rare and valuable.
Perhaps, in the face of uncontrollable time, making choices and accepting the consequences of making your own choices is the real difficulty.
Choosing what kind of mentality and what kind of state to use to meet aging is a real lesson to be cultivated.
Therefore, we do not have to sympathize, nor do we have to pity Liu Xuehua.
When she was young, she was a big beauty who came out of romance novels, and when she got older, she was still an elegant old aunt in the hearts of others.
At an age when her peers have retired, she is still continuing her career.
Her past TV series have been playing, and the names of her works have been brought up during discussions.
Her life, as she said, "I have loved, hated, lost, and had in my life, and I have no regrets in my life except for not having children."
Such a colorful and valuable life, what is worth pitying and heart-wrenching?