"Fu Lei's Family Book" reading notes five

Fu Lei's Family Book Reading Notes 1

　　

　　During the winter vacation, I read such a book: "The Book of Fu Lei's Family". I've never read a book in the form of a family letter before, so I'm a little curious about it.

　　Fu Lei, a famous translator and educator in China, has translated many foreign masterpieces. This "Fu Lei Family Letter" is a number of family letters from Fu Lei and his son Fu Cong between 1954 and 1966.

　　When I read this book, I found that there are always words such as "hanging thoughts" and "concerned" in the book, and most of the feelings expressed are Fu Lei's deep concern and concern for Fu Cong, who is studying abroad. It is no wonder that from ancient times to the present, parents have always held a feeling of longing for the wanderers who are out of the house. I was deeply touched by this feeling of longing.

　　In the book, Fu Lei once went to bed together and thought of writing letters to his son, sometimes Fu Cong was too busy to send a letter to his family for a long time, And Fu Lei and his wife were also deeply worried about this, which showed that Fu Lei and his wife missed Fu Cong very much, and this simple and real feeling really touched me.

　　Du Fu once said: "The family letter is worth ten thousand gold", which is greatly reflected in this book. I once had this question: What is the most precious thing in the world? This question has bothered me for a few years, and now, after reading the book, I feel like I've found the answer: the love my parents have for you.

　　In daily life, you may always feel that your parents are too wordy, but when you are alone outside, working alone in a foreign country, you will find that you will miss this kind of long-windedness, because this kind of long-windedness is the love of your parents for you, the deep love for you, and the most sincere love for you.

　　The love of your parents for you is extremely precious, and no amount of money can be compared with this kind of love.

　　All in all, in short, this "Fu Lei Family Book" seems to be ordinary, just some boring family letters, but when you read it carefully, you will find that this is an extremely warm and touching book. Family letters are not a few simple blank pieces of paper, but the deepest love of your parents for you.

　　Fu Lei's Family Book Reading Notes 2

　　Family letters, I was in contact with for the first time. In this "Fu Lei Family Letter", the pure teachings of parents are condensed, the sincere communication between children and parents, and family affection overflows between the lines. How do I behave in this strange genre and how I treat life.

　　In his letters, Fu Lei implemented the meticulous, rigorous, and serious attitude and style of an art critic and literary translator. He not only talks about art study, but also talks about life, love, talking about being a person, talking about cultivation, and even his son's typos, and his father will also "solemnly" point out and patiently analyze and correct. And Mrs. Zhu Meifu is not as strict as her father in her letters, and from her writing, it can be seen that she is a gentle, quiet and easy-going, virtuous and open-minded lady. Paying attention to the body and living and eating of the son and husband, and insisting on close communication with the daughter-in-law, the image of the mother is particularly prominent. Such a soft and rigid collision is undoubtedly the formula for forming a successful family.

　　Fu Cong was a famous piano master, and his father Fu Lei often instructed Fu Cong's piano in his letters. Because I also studied piano, I also have a deep understanding of some of Fu Lei's instructions. There is a paragraph in the text that is the disadvantage of rapping, because humming is a very casual behavior, faster, slower, and it is very flavorful to chant, but if the person who plays it while humming is often at the wrong rhythm. I used to hum myself, but when I only play music, I feel that my rhythm is slow. Fu Lei's instruction to Fu Cong was that he might as well hum more when reading the score, hum as little as possible when playing, and only "silently sing" after the song was skilled. And when playing, you should also imagine the mood, deliberate on the structure of the song, ups and downs, climaxes, etc. Usually my piano teacher will guide me in this way, but I always can't understand it. When I saw Teacher Fu Lei's explanation, I easily understood it and got good results in the practice of playing the piano.

　　The book shines with wisdom everywhere, always giving people profound enlightenment, and the abnormality is the skill and human principle of playing the piano in the book. Mr. Fu Lei, because of his own knowledge and thoughts, can expound any big things and small things with profound but never difficult truths, thus giving people inspiration.

　　I am so grateful for this book, the book of true parental love!

　　Fu Lei's Family Book Reading Notes 3

　　"Books are the ships of thought that sail in the waves of the times, carefully transporting precious goods from generation to generation." This is the famous quote of the famous English writer Bacon, and the "Book of Fu Lei", which I recently read, has brought me precious feelings as this famous saying says.

　　"The Book of Fu Lei's Family" is not so much a book as it is actually a history of family exchanges. It contains hundreds of correspondence between Fu Lei and his wife, Fu Cong, and Fu Cong's wife, Mila, compiled by Fu Min, each of which contains the family's affection that cannot be cooled even if they are separated in a foreign country.

　　Fu Lei is an excellent literary translator in China, and he is also a rigorous and kind father. In his letters to Fu Cong, he involved musical skills, literary literacy, treating people with etiquette, living habits and other aspects, and his concern for Fu Cong can be described as meticulous. But such frequent care does not make people tired of watching - because he never hangs out his love and thoughts "blatantly", but carefully guides him like a teacher. He will blame Fu Cong for not writing for a long time, will encourage Fu Cong for making progress, will calmly analyze fu Cong's results, and will also question Fu Cong's path to study... If Fu Cong is a flying paper airplane, then Fu Lei is the wind that pushes him to travel.

　　Many of Fu Lei's words to Fu Cong apply not only to him, but also to all young people, such as "I blame myself for not acting, I am the most disapproving", this sentence teaches us to be consistent with words and deeds; for example, "A person only dares to face reality, face up to mistakes, and use rational analysis to avoid being eroded by memory," this sentence teaches us not to stay in the past, but to be optimistic and forward; "The naked son does not know loneliness," this sentence teaches us to learn to face life alone... Every page turned is a valuable asset.

　　The Fu Lei family is all wise, and the Book of Fu Lei is a book of wisdom. It brings me extraordinary feelings with ordinary language, and this feeling will accompany me on my journey.

　　Fu Lei's Family Book Reading Notes 4

　　Fu Lei was a great father.

　　Before reading the book "Fu Lei's Family Letter", I learned from the Internet that one of Fu Lei's sons, Fu Cong, is a piano master, and another son, Fu Min, is a special english teacher. I can't help but sigh: two such powerful people, then their parents must also be very powerful. However, a strong parent does not have to educate a strong son, but needs a lot of qualities. For example, to be responsible, to be patient, and to pay a lot while educating, such as time, physical strength, brain power, etc., and Fu Lei is such a great father.

　　In fact, not only Fu Lei, but all the fathers who do not expect their children to be good, perhaps some people will often be nagged by their parents, the ego is very very irritable, and wonders how good it would be if the parents stopped nagging. Then you're wrong. Everything parents do is not for our ego, life is our own thing, so why do they have to spend time and effort to help you manage you to teach you, you don't have to honor him, he can't get any benefits, why do they do such laborious things but not understood by you, aren't they still for our ego, in order to make our future more perfect, just look at this, it is enough. They don't expect you to repay him when you grow up, honor him, as long as you can silently watch you develop better in one place, it is enough, and even they are worried that they will become a burden to you when you are old. If the child lives for the parent, it means that the child is wrong, and if the parent lives for the child, I think this sentence must be true.

　　We exist because of the strength of our parents. No matter what you do wrong, anyone in the world abandons you, and your parents will always wait for you, wait for you to turn around, wait for you to turn back.

　　So, from today on, don't blame your parents for doing something wrong, don't let your parents do everything you need to do for you, don't talk back to your parents, don't speak loudly to your parents, your parents are old, don't bring up his mistakes when he speaks, don't complain that your parents don't give you everything that is good, because everything your parents give you is already everything they have. Start today and be a good kid. It's not too late.

　　The Book of Fu Lei's Family Reading Notes 5

　　After reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter", I benefited a lot.

　　"Fu Lei's Family Letter" is Mr. Fu Lei's writing to fu Cong, his son who studied abroad, Fu Lei used his own experience to teach his son the principles of being a man, the cultivation of art, and how to deal with the problems of life, these family letters embody Mr. Fu Lei's deep love for the motherland and his son.

　　Among them, what made me most profoundly influential was what Fu Lei said: "The most powerful argument in the world is like practical action, and the most effective education is like leading by example; do not ask others for what the self cannot do; the mistakes that the self must also make are first to criticize the self, and first to change the self." After listening to the recording of the piano part of his son's concerto, Mr. Fu Lei put forward his own views on his son and advised his son not to worry about skills and to think quietly.

　　Mr. Fu Lei talks to his son about art through this equal and dedicated communication method, which will make his son grow more and more day by day. The valuable thing about Mr. Fu Lei is that while educating his son, he always puts himself in it and guides his son to take his own shortcomings seriously.

　　I have always thought that the love of the son is the common feeling of people, but Fu Lei's love for Fu Cong has not been reduced to that kind of vulgar warm vein, but always put morality and art first, and put the love of licking in the second place, just as his strict discipline of Fu Cong's childhood, although not recognized by ordinary people, but for his son to set a serious, meticulous example, let the son listen to his words, and learn his deeds, and then steadily move forward on the road to becoming a talent.

　　This reminds me of my parents, of their earnest teachings, they are not great people, nor do they say the great truth of standing in the world like Fu Lei, but they will think about me, study for me, plan for me in everything they do, all of this is for me.

　　Strong family affection is always touching. "Fu Lei's Family Letter" made me understand the truth of being a human being, and at the same time made me feel that Fu Lei is interpreting what is fatherly love with his heart and interpreting fatherly love with words.