#小爱豆的感情破事不想理 to see the sisters' thorough washing of their eyes #
Recently, the two dramas and comprehensives have been completed, one "Goodbye Lover", one "Human Disqualification", watching the 25-year-old me have mixed feelings, and after watching it, I am a little empty.
Their delicate tentacles pierce the tear glands and constantly swirl in the softest and softest places inside you.
Inside, two middle-aged women, soft and tight, face different dilemmas on and off the screen, so similar and so different.
First of all, "Goodbye Lover", when it started broadcasting, we wrote about three pairs of guests, but the 18-day journey did change a lot.
We see high-quality complex human emotions, personal limitations, and they also shine back into themselves.
YaQiong and Lao Wang really loved and resented, and finally clearly put it down
Tong Chenjie and kk, because of love, tolerate each other on the issue of whether to continue drinking and whether to have children
At first, Guo Keyu and Zhang He, who seemed to be independent, had no love, and refused to communicate, had a deeper bond.
In the process of gradually opening up the self, the audience can't extricate themselves in their emotional vortex -
The small sweetness that appears from time to time will make people involuntarily raise the corners of their mouths, and those grievances and helplessness will make people sad
In the end, Guo Keyu listened to his heart, and also fulfilled the wishes of all the audience and Zhang He, got out of the car and flew into the arms of the other party, confirming that "these 18 days have been moved".▼▼▼
How many netizens who snorted sugar in the divorce variety show directly broke the defense.▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼
Even if the screenwriter writes such a bridge, it must be that the actor has enough acting skills and a sense of faith to make you believe it.
In this show, you will see that marriage cannot pronounce the beginning or end of the relationship, the emotions between people are always fluid, and the intimate relationship can have many kinds of appearances
Today, the official micro updated the tidbits of the two people reading each other's diaries, and netizens were looking for divorce sugar.
In the diary on May 31, Guo Keyu only read out the three words "I love her" and bent his eyes with a smile
And Zhang He was momentarily a little excited and a little shy
Everyone will admire and appreciate tong Chenjie, who is sober in the world, but it is Guo Keyu who often empathizes with him.
At the age of 44, after experiencing young fame, marriage, family and illness, she still loves life, is gentle and determined, and lives very transparently.
When I was young, I loved when I wanted to, and I sang when I wanted to sing in a band, and in her words, I ran out of my savings of love and felt that I would no longer love others.
When I was 32 years old, I wanted to stabilize, especially if I wanted a child, so I chose to get married
He and Zhang He met during filming, and Zhang He also felt that he had reached the age of starting a family, so the two had been dating for a month and then flashed marriage
"At that time, I felt that I could lower a lot of requirements, I could not work, career, do not want my past achievements, I have never valued these things, I can live a life of chai rice oil and salt." In fact, I do enjoy living my life, making food every day, going to the supermarket to buy something, telling stories to the children, washing, ironing, and watering flowers. "@ People
In the next ten years of marriage, Guo Keyu did not appear in any film and television dramas, retreated behind the camera, did not even have any noise in this circle, did not make a cameo appearance, and completely lived the life of chai rice oil and salt.
But the conclusion of the life she wanted did not make the marriage work well
At the end of the day, personalities don't fit in.
Guo Keyu is highly emotional and cares very much about some subtle resonances in emotional relationships, while pragmatic Zhang He, with some romantic behavior, is difficult to understand this state.
Guo Keyu's inner turmoil could not be exported, causing her to be more and more reluctant to say, and Zhang He chose to escape and be cold, like two isolated islands, blending together.
When she had heart problems, many family affairs could not be handled, and sometimes she did not even have the strength to speak. The side effect of regular medication is that the fat is out of shape and the nerve is weak.
In the process of running the hospital, she began to re-examine her life and reflect on her past life.
"It's been too smooth before, there's been a highlight moment, it's time to be content." Why should you get everything in life? ”
The answer is to end the marriage, end each other's bondage and uncomfortable state, and be better yourself.
Separated for two years and divorced for one year.
Now, the middle-aged Guo Keyu has a set of self-consistent life logic, and if it is not, it will come, and if it is not, it will be scattered.
She still loves life, observes life, and all the details are so vivid and interesting in her eyes:
Go to the restaurant to notice that the earrings brought by the hostess are particularly beautiful, see the moon like a loving cantaloupe, raisins sunburned is a grievance expression ....
Delicate and sensitive, and firm.
She admitted to feeling the "spark" between them
But I don't think it will continue, the past is the past.▼▼
I know exactly what I want.
"Just like my body, those ineffective social interactions, those unhealthy lifestyles are what I have to worship decisively."
"I'm very grateful that my body can be so good, I must shoot some good scenes, first be a good person, and then be a good artist." I can't think of anything to bring to others for a while, and I think I'll sort myself out first. ”
There is no limit to the future.
Even after ending ten years of marriage and now having to pick up a new career, she does not regret it and is still full of expectations for love:
"When emotions occur, don't suffer from gains and losses, you love him as much as you want, don't avoid lightning, don't fear anything or set anything, or keep something, you go to it, when the emotion occurs, the ship is naturally straight to the bridge." 」 ▼▼▼
At the beginning of the show, Guo Keyu was the most old-fashioned person, but he didn't expect that it was just a layer of sad and regretful eggshells, and after it was broken, it was a girl with dreams and love and starry skies.
At the end of the show, the brilliance in her eyes cannot be hidden, how attractive these eyes were to Zhang He, and how much they are now impressed by the audience.
Guo Keyu let us see that after people reach middle age, women can still have countless possibilities.
Her introspection has nothing to do with her identity as a wife/mother, it is the nirvana after her struggle, the choice to stop the loss in time after seeing it clearly, and living freely has nothing to do with age.
Therefore, many people want to become what Guo Keyu looks like.
Even if there are wrinkles, it will be fat, and there will be dissatisfaction, but every grass and tree can become a poem, beautiful and gentle, comfortable, and relaxed.
However, in real life, most middle-aged women may be like this -
Married husbands are also very healthy, but the feelings fade, get along in various compromises, and do not have so much energy to understand each other
You also have to deal with the headache of the mother-in-law relationship.▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼▼
Caring for his father with Alzheimer's disease, he repeatedly had to crouch outside the door because he forgot the password
In the eyes of outsiders, there are very decent publishing house jobs, but in fact, people who are "used to being behind the scenes and are often treated as transparent" are ▼▼▼ ▼▼
This is the heroine rich love played by Quan Duyan in "Human Disqualification", poking at the lonely pain of middle-aged women.
#一个眼神就可以倒回来看3秒, the whole sister standing there is a play #
When she saw her father recycling paper shells all over the street in the cold night, she couldn't cry, and she felt that she had failed incomparably, that she could not become anyone, and that she could not do anything
Originally, her father named her rich, because he hoped that she would be rich and affectionate.
In her imagination, after 40 years old, there should be a small house of her own, with one or two children, and a book with her name on it
But the reality is that when she gets married at an age, there are not too many feelings, and her husband has other lovers in his heart, and he has the idea of cheating during her pregnancy.
Because of the work dispute, not only did she accidentally miscarry five months pregnant, but also suffered from depression.
I lost my publishing job and had to shuttle through various neighborhoods as a cleaning aunt.
Vent on the Internet, leave a bad comment, and be sued by the other party
This ordinary middle-aged woman with a melancholy face has experienced the epitome of how many middle-aged women.
In a pool of stagnant water, she met another lonely man.
Kang Jae, played by Liu Junlie, is a 27-year-old publicist who accompanies the winery and also does various agency services, such as spending three hours with a rich woman
When he was a teenager, his father died, his mother remarried, and now he lives like an outsider.
I also feel lonely in the crowd, feeling that only money can express love
When two desperate people meet together, they are even more mournful, and they agree to die together when they meet again
The mourning ratings are falling all the way.▼▼▼
In my opinion, what really makes people think that Korean production at the moment is not "Squid's Game", but this "Human Disqualification".
The story is restrained, but the inside is very full, making people plunge into it and dive into the breath.
These bereavements are not meant to tell us how hard life is, but to say that we can overcome those cruelties and hardships.
Without a yard to dry clothes, no children, and no books with their own names published, isn't life worth living?
They went to the mountains on spring nights to see the stars and talk in their tents
Talk under the eaves of a rainy night and eat oranges and sandwiches together
Emotions flow in every breath, every look at each other
Love, gentleness, romance, two hearts collide and intersect, in the process of mutual giving, regain some of the warmth and expectations of the difficult world, a pool of stagnant water has a light again.
Between them, there is also a heartwarming hug like Guo Keyu and Zhang He.
"Can I meet without a reason, I want to see you."
At the end of episode 14, the two meet, get out of the car and move parallel along both sides of the road, but their eyes are intertwined from time to time, and the corners of their slightly twitching mouths overflow with anxiety, anticipation, and joy
When the green light counted down, Kang Jae rushed across the zebra crossing and hugged Fu Qing.
"Maybe in the end I will be nothing, even though I may be nothing, the most honest thing for me now, maybe only, I can give her love." 」
Kang Jae no longer asks his mother for child support, because he no longer needs money to determine love, but how to love others, and slowly live with a sense of reality
Fu Qing began to actively solve problems in work and life, did not choose to be with Kang Jae, and could also confess to her husband and say what she liked out loud
Finally, in the face of his father's death, he slightly understood death and the meaning of living
"To be born into the world is not to become something, but to do something, and this is what my father taught me in his words and deeds."
The name of the last episode is "Stars in the Sun", which deletes the contact information of Fu Qing and Kang Zai, and meets again on the day when the stars are shining.
It is enough for them to have a faint starlight that shines on each other
Whether it is "Human Disqualification" or "Goodbye Lover", both show the state of marriage and emotion of Asian women, and portray the multi-faceted nature of women.
Whether it is Fu Qing or Guo Ke, they have had a crisis and a sense of powerlessness to achieve nothing, but in the end they have become the belief that they must live harder and live out their own lives.
#希望郭姐能把那份敏感融入角色, creating an impressive image of a middle-aged woman #
Some people break in by accident, some people quietly disappear, and life still belongs to themselves after all.
Guo Keyu described her and Zhang He's eighteen days:
"The two of us are fateful, and when we reach such a magnificent place as nature, the love between heaven and earth is too insignificant, the love is too small, or its level is a little thin. You warm me, and I want to warm you, and we want to be sentient and righteous. ”
Yes, there are sentient beings and righteousness, in what posture should we take to accept a long life that may achieve nothing?