Jiang Ziya debuted at the age of 80 liu bang 40 years old to start a business, but you are not Jiang Ziya and you are not Liu Bang

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A reader read the previous one: My husband is 34 years old, his career is not smooth, he wants to study for a doctorate and do scientific research, should he support him?

Asked me a question, that is, she read a lot of chicken soup texts, the text said that Jiang Ziya fished in the Weishui River, fished until more than 80 years old before being discovered by King Wen of Zhou, debuted a few years after the assist of King Wu of Wu, made a great achievement; and Liu Bang, more than 40 years old or a small in Pei County, in addition to the credit to flirt with widows, there is no specialty, but also within a few years, he started a business to establish the Han Dynasty.

So, the conclusion is that it's not too late for you to start working on it.

So according to this theory, do you think that the 34-year-old husband in the text is not good at studying for a doctorate in the enterprise, and takes the academic route from the beginning, why not?

He wants to work so hard, why don't you give him a chance?

That's a very good question, but to be honest, it's all.

I didn't give him a chance, I just analyzed his situation, as for what he likes to do, what does it have to do with me?

For example, you said that Jiang Ziya fished in the Weishui River until he was 80 years old, did I stop you from fishing? Nothing.

You can buy a plane ticket now, fly to Xianyang Airport, and then take a taxi to the Weishui River, as long as there is no sign prohibiting fishing, you can fish, not to mention fishing until 80 years old, you fish until 800 years old is your freedom.

Let's go.

See? Whatever choice you make is your freedom, and no one has the right to interfere.

I wrote that article only to point out some phenomena in reality, I did not say that reality is reasonable, existence is not necessarily reasonable.

If you think that it is reasonable for everyone to fish in the Weishui River until they are 80 years old and then meet King Wen of Zhou, you can think so, I support you, I agree with you, you are right, you are right.

No disagreements, right? No, it's OK.

Other people's statements of probability do not interfere with what you think of as it is.

Just like you think that the lottery ticket you bought must win 5 million, this is your freedom, you think it is right, you are happy.

Similarly, according to the number of lottery tickets sold, others deduce that the probability of 5 million in this lottery ticket is one in ten million based on the amount in the pool of funds, which is just data analysis, and so on, no other meaning, no. Maybe you're one in ten million lucky, and who says it's not?

Like an old reader said to me that day, who said that there is no way out of studying for a PhD at the age of 34? Yes, when Mr. Jin Yong was 80 years old, he still went to Cambridge to study for a doctorate, and he really read a doctorate and had to go to class to send a thesis.

Is there no way out after reading it? Doesn't the tutor charge for a PhD at the age of 80?

Yes, you are right, Mr. Jin Yong went to study for a doctorate at the age of 80, still passed the interview, still achieved very good results, and after reading it, he is still a billionaire and still a successful person.

so tama what？ What does it have to do with the person in the last article?

Mr. Jin Yong went to study for a doctorate, and I probably know something. At that time, the leader of Zhejiang University, Zhang, used to work in Hong Kong and was very familiar with Mr. Jin Yong. Later, he did not return to Zhejiang University as a leader, so he invited Mr. Jin Yong to Zhejiang University to be the dean of the Humanities College.

Then there are some problems with getting along, that is, getting along with professors and academic circles. In fact, there are some differences not only with Zhejiang University, but even with some professors of NTU, and even with the students they recruit.

Mr. Jin Yong is my idol, and if you are interested, you can check that history for yourself.

Then it is because of some academic doubts and controversies that Jin Yong, who did not have a special systematic education in the history department before, studied a doctorate in Cambridge at the age of 80.

That's it.

In other words, this is the starting point of Jin Yong's doctoral study, he has already achieved fame before he read a doctorate, and the purpose of his doctoral study is only to read a doctorate.

This is with me a lot of friends, 40 years old and still go to a doctorate, very normal.

Because his previous identity was the vice president of a party group, after work, it was not bad to let his academic qualifications rise again.

Did you go to school full-time? There are also. I have a neighbor's wife, in her 40s, who went to the UK to study for a PhD because her son studied in the UK.

For her, accompanying reading is also accompanying reading, and reading a doctorate by herself is also a matter of convenience.

So what do you say is wrong with admissions? No problem. Don't say you're 40, you're 60, it's not a problem, the question is whether you can solve people's problems.

For example, the neighbor's wife, who attended a very famous school in London, I was embarrassed to say it.

How did she read it? Why would such a famous school be willing to admit her as a Doctor? She had no previous academic experience in this area.

The reason is simple, let me give you an analogy.

You go to Chongyang Palace, you want to worship Zhang Sanfeng, Sanfeng said that you are old, how to practice martial arts can not be practiced, you look at the Yang Palace, said, I think your hall is a little old, to use Nanmu to rebuild again, to give the statue a golden body, to give each of the little Daoist monks fifty-two silver per month, to .........

Zhang Sanfeng immediately interrupted and said, I think age is never a problem, Jiang Ziya debuted at the age of 80, Liu Bang started a business at the age of 40, they all succeeded, I believe you can.

From tomorrow you come to class, the seats are in front of the Songyuan Bridge.

Then you pull out an LV limited edition duster, hand it over, and say, Brother Tobashi, is it okay?

Song Yuanqiao smiled and took over, patted your shoulder, are all brothers and sisters, still so see the outside, what is uncertain in the future, just come to me, there is my Song Yuanqiao No. 1 figure in the jianghu, there is a master and brother you No. 1 figure.

You see, is there a problem? No problem.

The question now is, what is the situation of the dude we talked about yesterday?

His wife said that he was 34 years old, 2/3 of the family's annual income was earned by his wife, had children, had a mortgage, he could not continue in the company, thinking of running to school to escape, thinking of letting his wife pay for him to study, and engaging in scientific research in the future.

His wife's problem is also very simple, what should I do if I can't afford it? If you go to a PhD and then engage in scientific research, when will you get that investment back? When will I be able to live a good life?

Please don't run away, the questions people ask are very realistic, how are you going to answer them?

Jiang Ziya fished until 80 years old? Is Jiang Ziya a bare stick? He was married once, with an old girl, and as a result, the old girl hated him for not doing his business all day and could not earn money, and divorced him.

Therefore, he fed the whole family alone and was not hungry, and loved to fish until he was 800 years old.

Liu? Is Liu Bang's husband a rich man good, and Liu Bang's wife is a strong woman? Is Liu Bang good at eating soft rice?

People Liu Bang can get the boss lady on credit, and the boss lady has a leg, you first go to eat a bully meal, vertically walk out for me to see.

People are different from people's situations, and there is nothing to say if they are different.

What you have, what you want, what you are willing to give up.