Author/Pond Fish
In the past, I always saw people use these two sentences to describe the persistence of loving a person: the mountains and seas that are loved are flat.
After listening to it more, I think that true love is like this, never abandoning, no matter what difficulties are encountered, it can be firmly overcome, and run to each other without hesitation.
Later, I realized that this status quo is just the most beautiful expectation in a relationship. In real life, any reason that seems insignificant to others may gradually become the beginning of two people parting ways.
At that time, you were still in a trance, thinking that your feelings had the most indestructible commitment in the world.
When the love is strong, no one will doubt the other party's determination, but it is also countless people who hold this belief, and finally in the days of deep love, they are hurt to the skin.
I always hear people ask: So, love will disappear, right?
What I want to say is that love does not disappear, love is always balanced. Someone asked again, if this is the case, why did the person who loved me so much end up not loving me at all?
The answer is simple, because love shifts.
Unfortunately, those who have always insisted, those who look forward to the future, those who always love to the ground and are extremely persistent, and it is always difficult to harvest another true heart like themselves in the end.
In this world, there are many things that can be obtained with hard work, as long as you persist, as long as you do not give up, as long as you are good enough, as long as you are always moving forward, in the end there will be the results you want, or rush to the road to realization.
However, loving someone is really not enough.
It's even possible that the more you do it, the more you degrade your position in the other person's heart, and the more you push the person you love farther away.
You are scared and entangled, and you may cry at night, not knowing what to do, because this is not the result you want to see.
You still can't change anything.
If, in the matter of loving someone, everything can go well, then there will not be so much to ask for in the feelings.
Unfortunately, we are all out of control of all the innings.
I have a friend who told me that she and her ex have been separated for two years, and she has not come out until now, and she has been hurt so deeply in this relationship that now she does not dare to meet new people or start a new relationship.
She became worried.
She said that it is troublesome to re-understand a person, it is necessary to understand each other, two people need to run into each other again, need to argue with each other many times, need to feel his joys and sorrows, also need him to be able to understand me, need me to open my heart again, all of which, although I have experienced, is also a new attempt.
The main thing is: I can't guarantee that the next encounter, we will be able to end from one end, no longer disappointed, let alone whether everything will be in vain.
She was afraid, she was afraid of experiencing the pain of the past again, afraid of crying alone at night, afraid of the humility of trying to find someone but not bothering him, afraid of a man who had once held himself in the palm of his hand, and finally spoke coldly to her.
So, she simply chose the simplest way to hide her heart and no longer give it to someone else, and she didn't have the courage to think she could fall in love with someone else until she actually came out.
But how long does this process take? It had been two years, and she still hadn't forgotten the other person, and even when she found that when time beautified all the memories, all she could think of was full of his good. He used to love her too, so there were many beautiful moments that she remembered.
Obviously, when they first separated, she actually had complaints in her heart, but she still couldn't bear to destroy this beauty, so she finally wanted to give the feelings of the two people a decent face and leave.
He was more crisp than she was, because after almost two months of separation, the boy was in love again.
Then, she was left alone, shrouded in great sorrow, unable to get out, she said that she was not sure whether she was reluctant to love him, or because she could not let go of the haste of the next love he had so quickly, so she was unwilling.
But either way, in short, she is already the one who lost in her relationship. From the moment she had to leave him alone, she had already lost.
Unfortunately, she still often thinks about him, remembers their past, and bursts into tears, but they can't go back.
She said that even if he later regretted it and got it back, they would not be able to go back, because her heart would certainly not be as good as before, and although they loved each other, they also hurt each other. This relationship, in the end, became like this, she thought she was also wrong, but she did not have the opportunity to rehearse it again.
In this life, there is a person who cannot love and cannot forget.
When the fate is over, the beauty between you will eventually turn into the paleness of seeing each other, and you can still look at each other and smile, which may already be the best ending.
See the passage: The person who is really right for you is not the one who loves and can't. The person who is really suitable for you is the person who is willing to accompany you when your life is at a low point. In fact, in this life, it may be easy to meet people who are good to you, but it is difficult to meet a person who treats you as you always.
The most beautiful thing in this world should be that if life is like the first time we meet, everything will be beautiful that year, with a bright smile and rejoicing with each other.
However, later, no matter how much favoritism, it may also evolve into another one that does not matter to me in the passage of time, and you do not have to doubt the sincerity of love, at that time, you may all want the tree that will bear fruit, but in the end it will be wrong and become a flower in each other's lives.
This flower has been beautiful, brilliant, and has tried its best to sprinkle more seeds of vows in the sun. Then, in the end, it withered silently.
Some encounters are fates that take you through the beauty of this world, and then you can boil your memories into poetry and move together to a happy future; while some encounters only take you through the journey of love in this world, so that you can understand some truths, and then continue to move forward.
Everyone's search in this life begins with an unknown journey. But no matter what, I hope that you can constantly adjust your mentality, no matter what the scenery ahead, you can always be in the ever-changing relationship, have persistence, have principles, not forced, do not pretend, and become the best version of yourself.
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