What to do when you meet someone who wants to love but can't

The Mid-Autumn Festival has arrived, the Mid-Autumn Festival Reunion Festival, but this makes me feel tormented in a different place. When you meet a person who wants to love and loves very much, but can't love because of reality, who can understand this kind of pain.

Two years ago, I met Junjun, we are colleagues, after working together for half a year, the two of us slowly became familiar with each other, got to know each other, and found that we have a lot in common. Since then, our relationship has heated up in a straight line. However, the biggest obstacle for both of us is that we are both married and have families. Maybe in the eyes of outsiders, we are the little three, is an extramarital affair, we all know this, but the feeling of this matter, there are a few people can control ah. Our respective families have their own problems, so the two of us can feel more sorry for each other and cherish each other more. Many times she asked me to take her away, she was willing to give up all the better conditions here, and followed me with nothing, but I never agreed, not that I did not love her enough, on the contrary, I really loved her, but I felt that I told my wife that I could not open my mouth when I said divorce, although I had a bad relationship with my wife, but I just couldn't open my mouth, and I didn't want to be the person who took the initiative to open my mouth and say divorce. In this way, we kept in touch for two years, and eventually her husband discovered our feelings. They had quarreled and quarreled, but when she said a few times to let me take her away, I did not agree, they could only compromise, she and her husband confessed their mistakes, and they continued to maintain the half-dead marriage for the sake of the children.

Alas, now every time I think about this, my heart hurts, I feel that I am not very scummy, I have not done enough grandfathers, I have lost her, I always feel that I owe her too much. I don't know if I'm doing the right thing, I also haven't dared to take the initiative to say divorce for my children, but I'm very disappointed in my current marriage, and I really want to be with Junjun. But for the sake of the families of both sides, the children of both sides, I refused to take her away, this step does not know whether it is right or not. I hope you can give me some advice