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On the 1st of this month, Ye Qianwen spent her 60th birthday happily in the company of her family (stepson) and friends.
On her birthday, Ye Qianwen published a thousand-word exclamation essay on social platforms and posted a group of unexpected photos.
In the photo, Ye Qianwen wears a white cutout sweater dress, and her figure is quite good. The large white pearl ornament worn on the ear adds a touch of elegance and fashion to the whole person.
In addition to her usual fashion and optimism, 60-year-old Ye Qianwen actually showed everyone her true side in the photo: full of white hair and wrinkles at the corners of her eyes.
This undisguised truth is almost like the impression of Ye Qianwen, who has a lot of hair, dark hair and a beautiful face, which makes people marvel at the cruelty of this pig-killing knife in the past years.
In this regard, Ye Qianwen did not lose a little nervousness and anxiety, she said frankly: "I just want to be a complete, true and true self, I hope you can accept such a me, white hair and lovely wrinkles." ”
She also sweetly shared her husband's feelings about her 60-year-old true state: "Lam likes me very much because I can now be with him, and we look like twins!" ”
A netizen said, "Beauty twilight is the destination of everyone, elegant aging is an attitude to life, is the choice of happiness for all people." ”
Flipping through hundreds of comments, netizens sent blessings to the healthy and elegant aging posture of the former goddess. Admire the reality of her life without pretense.
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Many people like Ye Qianwen, not only because of her magnetic and powerful classic songs, such as "Blessing", "Evening Wind", "Choice", "Dashing Walk Back" and so on.
Everyone also admired her warm, unrestrained, and dashing good character. The cultivation of a good character is closely related to her superior and enlightened original family.
In 1961, Ye was born into a wealthy family in Taiwan, the father of a university professor and the mother of a famous girl. As the only daughter in the family, she naturally combines thousands of pets.
When he was 4 years old, his parents immigrated to Canada with Ye Qianwen. Originally thinking that immigrants could bring a better growth environment to their daughters, but unexpectedly, Xiao Qianwen in a foreign country was ridiculed and bullied by her classmates.
Despite this, she did not become inferior, cowardly, or depressed, because she had a "sharp weapon" to cope with adversity, that is, music.
Obsessed with music, Yu Qianwen is a double-edged sword: on the one hand, her personality is becoming more and more positive and optimistic, on the other hand, her academic performance is not satisfactory.
So much so that Ye Qianwen's mother couldn't help but complain about her daughter, "You sing every day, no one likes you in the future, and your husband can't find it." ”
Her mother definitely did not expect that Ye Qianwen, who loved music, not only charmed a large number of suitors when she grew up, but also found a husband who was a famous singer Lin Zixiang with first-class singing skills.
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"If you aim at the moon, even if you are lost, you will fall among the stars." As long as you are on the road, all your efforts will not be in vain.
At the age of 19, Ye Qianwen returned to Taiwan to visit relatives. I was walking carelessly on the street when I was suddenly picked up by a strange man: "Would you like to shoot an advertisement?" ”
The opportunity that fell from the sky, Ye Qianwen firmly seized it. Soon, she shot her first commercial.
In that advertisement promoting juice, the pure and lovely Ye Qianwen left an impression on many viewers. Riding on this shareholder wind, Ye Qianwen made a smooth debut in the song world with the album "Spring Relief".
At the age of 20, the young and beautiful Ye Qianwen and Fei Xiang, a handsome brother who had just returned to Taiwan, starred in Zhang Aijia's unit drama "Eleven Women".
Two young men and women of similar age, height and appearance, and both have overseas experience quickly sparked outside the play. Fei Xiang proudly declared to the outside world, "Ye Qianwen is mine."
A relationship between you and me, before it could blossom and bear fruit, was beaten by the man's mother. The reason is that Fei Xiang's mother does not like Ye Qianwen.
The first love with no fate has become a thing of the past, as free as Ye Qianwen, she did not leave herself too much time to grieve and sigh.
At the age of 23, Ye Qianwen moved to Hong Kong, where she gained a brilliant singing career and life love.
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When she first arrived in Hong Kong, under the recommendation of director Yang Fan, Ye Qianwen and Lin Zixiang began their first cooperation. In that collaboration, the two sang the song "Reunion".
The tacit cooperation made Lin Zixiang, who had already become famous in the Hong Kong music scene, feel more sorry for Ye Qianwen. In 1984, Lin Zixiang personally composed music and created the Cantonese song "Zero Hour Ten Minutes" for Ye Qianwen.
In this song, Ye Qianwen became popular overnight with her calm breath, deep voice, and heartfelt singing.
Sing and act. After becoming popular in her singing career, Ye Qianwen has successively starred in films such as "Shanghai Night", "Teppanyaki", "Eros One", "Hero of The Wok" and so on.
In 1986, Ip Washim was nominated for Best Actress at the 6th Hong Kong Film Awards for her film "Knife Ma Dan".
Zhang Ailing said that fame should be achieved early. When Ye Qianwen was 25 years old, she had already achieved many achievements in her singing and acting career that were difficult for her peers to achieve in a lifetime.
Ye Qianwen, who bears a halo of aura, does not swell, she maintains an innate sense of responsibility, and always takes every opportunity to sing seriously.
The effort pays off, and the final result of continuous efforts will certainly not be bad. Since 1990, Ye Qianwen has won the top ten most popular female singers for four consecutive years.
When it comes to the good results of the "four consecutive championships", Ye Qianwen is very modest, and she sincerely explains to others: It is Mei Yanfang who said that she will no longer take the award, and she will have the opportunity to win the award.
Her low-key and modest remarks make people feel her personality charm again.
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Compared with her smooth singing career and acting career, Ye Qianwen's emotional journey can be described as ups and downs.
In his early twenties, he met his first love and was unfortunately separated by the man's mother. After becoming famous, he encountered the pursuit of the rich, and finally cut off his love because he chose to be himself.
It was not until 1997 that the 36-year-old Ye Qianwen entered the marriage hall with Lin Zixiang, an old partner who was also a teacher and friend. After marriage, Ye Qianwen gradually faded out of the entertainment circle.
24 years later, Ye Qianwen, now 60 years old, has lived a true and frank state that she longs to have.
For the marriage model between her and Lin Zixiang's immortal companion, some people did not buy it, one reason is that when she was with Lin Zixiang, Lin Zixiang had not yet divorced his wife Wu Zhengyuan.
Because of the marriage between Lin Zixiang and his ex-wife, Ye Qianwen has been carrying the name of a third party for many years.
In the eyes of the world, third parties who interfere in other people's marriages are reprehensible. Even if he and she are truly in love, even if he and his partner are not happy.
It is said that Lin Zixiang paid up to ten million alimony during the divorce. Notice, that's 1995.
In fact, instead of enduring humiliation and burden for many years in a marriage full of dog blood, it is better to live a new and wonderful second half of life with a large amount of alimony. He fulfilled others and spared himself.
Don't hate men who divorce after marriage because they meet true love, but don't be a chicken thief, don't worry about avoiding alimony, and do your duty to your ex-wife and children.
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Another reason is that Ye Qianwen did not have children after marriage.
Talking about why not to have children, Ye Qianwen generously responded: "I don't feel sorry for not having children, but I feel very lucky, and I am really happy to make this decision, because the current society is too complicated, giving birth to BB is a big responsibility, and I am a super nervous master, if I become a mommy, I must worry about my children for a lifetime!" ”
Although she did not like to have children, after marrying Lin Zixiang, Ye Qianwen, who had a strong sense of responsibility, still tried her best to play the role of a good stepmother, and regarded the children born to Lin Zixiang and his ex-wife as her own.
Those who love to go out love to return, and those who are blessed to come are blessed. The stepson was very kind to Ye Qianwen when he grew up, and he basically sent blessings every year on his birthday.
When a woman is healthy, not bad for money, surrounded by relatives and friends, having children or not deserves to be respected.
Fish and bear paws can not be both, some roads since the choice, just go down.
As Via said in "Life is for Change": "There are thousands of roles in the world, and you can play one of them, but only by being yourself can you be the happiest." ”
May we be ourselves within the limits permitted by law and morality, and walk through this life happily and fulfillingly.
Author: Jiang Yanni, get up at 5 o'clock in the morning to write, write at least 3,000 words a day, and insist on reading 2 books a week. Work hard in the workplace during the day and take the baby to read at night. Light up life with words, every day is a good day. May the years be long and you and I be safe.