On January 5, 54-year-old Ni Shibei rarely shared her recent life situation on a radio program.
Since revealing the fact that her ex-husband did not care about her children in 2017, she has taken care of her autistic son alone over the years, and in order to make a living, she has to return to the entertainment industry and find a job to do a show on the radio station, and finally be able to support herself and her children.
Ni Shibei, who does not complain about her life, seems to be in good shape, and also expressed the hope that she can produce a show about autistic children in the future, and she can share her experience with everyone to encourage the parents of other sick children.
In addition, she invited her stylist friend Du Zhenzhen in this episode of the show to recall the fun of gathering with Friends in the circle such as Mei Yanfang, Chen Baiqiang, and Du Dewei on holidays in previous years.
Du Zhenzhen recalled alongside that at that time, everyone would play mahjong, and whoever lost was painted as a big flower face, and had to go out to buy things to "parade the streets to show the public", even Mei Yanfang could not break the rules of the game.
They posted a precious photo with Mei Yanfang, only to see that the two people in the picture were radiant and beautiful.
Seeing this, some people may still want to ask, who is Ni Shibei? Retired from the entertainment industry for nearly 30 years, few viewers remember this Li (ATV predecessor) as the head of hua dan.
Her biggest name, I am afraid is still the identity of "Zhang Guorong's first love", mentioning Zhang Guorong's ex-girlfriend, many people only know Mao Shunjun, and they do not know that Ni Shibei is the only legitimate girlfriend confirmed by her brother.
<h1>First love Zhang Guorong</h1>
Ni Shibei's original name was Ni Wenjuan, and now this poetic name is quite lethal with her early debut as a young man.
At the age of 13, with a pair of large and pure eyes, a round and cute face, a doll-like face, plus a height of 171 centimeters, she was taken by Shi Yingying, the editor-in-chief of the popular magazine "Sisters" in Hong Kong, and thus officially debuted.
Ni Shibei first met Zhang Guorong, that is, in the studio where the photos were taken, when she was just a small model, the other party was a promising newcomer singer, so the two only knew each other, and there was no opportunity for deep friendship.
"The magazine arranged for the two of us to take costume photos, and we had a good time and had a good conversation, and exchanged phone numbers."
Until a year later, Ni Shibei participated in the selection of new stars held by Li's TV, stood out from the competition, officially joined Li's TV, and transformed from a model to an actor, that she had the opportunity to cooperate with her brother Zhang Guorong for a long time.
In 1981, they co-starred in the TV series "Pairs of Paste", which also had another couple played by Chen Xiuwen and Lin Guoxiong, and the four protagonists laughed and played on the set every day, and the relationship became more and more familiar.
In the same year, Ni Shibei and Zhang Guorong cooperated for the second time in the TV series "Sweet Twenty-Four Tastes", the other heroine of this drama is the big beauty Guan Zhilin, but Ni Shibei still pressured each other to become the most eye-catching female number one, at this time, her and Zhang Guorong's love affair also changed from mutual goodwill to sweet stage.
She later recalled in a column: "How many people remember their former favorite people, probably they are impressed!" When I saw it, I felt a little flustered in my heart, and I felt that my face was hot and my heart was beating faster. The feeling is hazy, wonderful and simple, having a good feeling for each other, enjoying being with each other, and having fun. A happy first love may not be successful, but it will never be forgotten. ”
When they cooperated in the TV series "Bump Detective" for the third time, the love affair between the two could not be completely concealed, and there was a scandal from the outside world, and they simply went out on a date, ate snacks, watched movies, and were free.
<h1>Tang Zhenye pursues</h1>
Unfortunately, the happy time soon dissipated, in love for two years, Zhang Guorong realized that he was "a person who was not emotionally stable enough", he was not ready to get married at this time, to avoid dragging others, he took the initiative to break up.
He said that this was "the most memorable piece of pure love" and commented on Ni Shibei: "She is a smart, rational girl, she knows how to master and arrange herself." ”
The two broke up peacefully, and Ni Shibei, who is being praised by Li's TV, also devotes all her energy to filming.
Unexpectedly, in 1985, she ushered in the fierce pursuit of Tang Zhenye, one of the five tiger generals of TVB, how inappropriate this pursuit was, when Tang Zhenye's girlfriend Weng Meiling had just committed suicide, and the media involved Ni Shibei in this public opinion storm.
Fortunately, Ni Shibei refused to admit this scandal throughout the whole process, ignored Tang Zhenye's pursuit, and the two of them broke up unhappily, and the storm was calmed.
But she also made a less wise decision - to abandon the declining Li TV and move to Taiwan, after which she diligently made movies, released albums, and held concerts, but she still could not stop the decline in her career.
In contrast, the career of ex-boyfriend Zhang Guorong was booming, in 1986, Zhang Guorong took the movie "The True Colors of Heroes" to Taiwan to participate in the Golden Horse Awards ceremony, the reporter asked him whether he had any contact with Ni Shibei, and he bluntly said that he had not contacted for several years.
The dialogue spread to Ni Shibei here, with deep affection she was sad, perhaps thinking of her own and the other party's dilemma, she took medicine in the apartment to commit suicide, fortunately was found early, in time to the hospital for rescue, she only picked up a life.
The tepid first half of his life ended with an uproar in the acting world.
<h1>Ex-husband Huang Yulang</h1>
The second half of Ni Shibei's miserable life began with an acquaintance with the Hong Kong painter Huang Yulang.
In 1987, Huang Yulang had just ended his 16-year marriage with the student's ex-wife, Ma Mengni, and ruthlessly abandoned his two sons and a daughter born to his ex-wife, and the children followed their mother to live in Canada, and he disclosed his love affair with Li Zi, who was only 16 years old.
At this time, it was also the stage when Ni Shibei first knew Huang Yulang, Huang Yulang was 16 years older than her, and Li Zi was 20 years old, and clear-eyed people could see how unreliable this man was, but Ni Shibei had to moth to put out the fire.
However, Huang Yulang is indeed a qualified love field master, in 1991, he was sentenced to 2 years in prison for suspected fraud, from a billionaire to nothing in an instant, before going to prison, he claimed that in order not to involve his little girlfriend Li Zi, he decisively proposed to break up.
This caused Li Zi to mention him every time later, and her tone was full of nostalgia.
After being released from prison, Huang Yulang soon made a comeback, Huang Baiming asked Ni Shibei to talk about film cooperation, yin and yang, the three people met together, Ni Shibei and Huang Yulang chatted more and more happy, the two slowly began to communicate.
"He would often draw some comic cards and send them to me, which made me both proud and moved. I often turn a blind eye to the age gap between us and only remember his romanticism and thoughtfulness towards me. ”
In 1999, they were already in a state of default marriage, but in fact the two did not get a license and hold a wedding, despite her mother's strong opposition, Ni Shibei, blindfolded by love, still gave birth to a son for her.
"After becoming pregnant, he said that the company was going to prepare for the listing, and he could not register for marriage for two years, because the feng shui master said that it was unfavorable, and he promised to register after two years."
Naturally, the registration of marriage has not been able to wait, but the family of three has also spent a long period of happiness, which should be Ni Shibei's most cheerful time.
<h1>Autistic son</h1>
The change occurred when her son was 3 years old, Ni Shibei found that he still could not learn to speak, she immediately took her son to see a doctor, the doctor gave the result of congenital autism, IQ forever stuck at 2 years old, making Ni Shibei's eyes black.
In order to take care of the children, she had to drop all her work, but the situation was still frequent, "when eating out, he ordered food that he didn't like, because he couldn't speak, so he just lay on the ground, kicked his feet, and lost his temper in protest." ”
"In order not to hurt my son, I will clamp his feet with my feet and protect his head with my hands, so that he will not crash into the foot of the table when he resists desperately." Sometimes he clutched my hair and brought me to tears in pain. ”
The contradiction caused by his father's absence became more and more prominent, Huang Yulang was busy socializing and rarely went home, Ni Shibei tried to contact him when he was helpless, but in exchange for cold words: "Your own nerves, giving birth to a boy is a nerve."
"After trying to take a phone call, the other party directly said: 'It is best to be careful with your son and not be hit by a car.'" At that moment, I was ready to scold back, but the other party hung up the phone when he finished speaking. ”
Just don't care about the mother and son duo, Huang Yulang also took the opportunity to be ambiguous with other women, he even rekindled his old feelings, wanted to recover Li Zi, but Li Zi's relationship with the rich businessman boyfriend Ma Tingqiang was very stable, and did not pay attention to him.
Ni Shibei fell into a breakdown and wanted to end everything with suicide, but looking at her son's innocent childlike face, she decided to divorce, end the 10-year-long marriage relationship, and take her son out of Hong Kong, a sad place, to Singapore.
Once a trade-off is made, she has to bear the corresponding pressure, there is a sick child to take care of, savings are spent quickly, how to earn money to subsidize the family has become a big problem, she has to return to her old business, dress up and make a living by singing and dancing on the stage.
High-intensity work, resulting in Ni Shibei suffering from high blood pressure, has entered the hospital many times, the reporter asked her what to do when she is old and can't jump, Ni Shibei firmly said: "In case the entertainment industry does not want me, not afraid, go to McDonald's to work I can also." ”
In 2017, every time the son went to see his father, there were always unknown scars on his body, Ni Shibei was angry and publicly questioned her ex-husband, Huang Yulang did not pay attention to her, but in the presence of Huang Baiming, he proposed to his girlfriend who was 36 years younger.
Less than a year later, Huang Yulang actually came to fight for the custody of her son, and Ni Shibei was angry and scolded, but she immediately adjusted her emotions and apologized to the public for not venting negative emotions.
Fortunately, her ex-husband's plan failed, she also regained her strength and sorted out her mood, went to the radio station to start a program, and now the program is doing well, and the mother and son have finally rained and sunny.
<h1>epilogue</h1>
In 2003, when the news of Zhang Guorong's suicide by jumping off a building came, Ni Shibei couldn't believe it: "This incident was too sudden and too unfortunate." And Zhang Guorong has not met for a long time, people sometimes in a moment will not be able to open, at this time especially need good friends to be around to enlighten. ”
This is also the year when her son was checked for autism and she began to live a painful life, just as Zhang Guorong commented that she was "smart and rational, knows how to arrange and master herself", Ni Shibei withstood all the blows and survived.
She is so optimistic and positive, believing that the future and her son's life will be better.
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Author: Seven Dreams
Editor-in-charge: Zeria
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