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In today's society, the divorce rate is high, of course, there are many reasons, some people want to divorce and leave, and most people are next to the eyes of the world, can only live on it, the same bed and dream of the couple is so more, but this kind of unhappy and happy marriage is still necessary to live? The experience of Xiaoli, the following party, may explain some problems.
Xiaoli in her early thirties has been divorced once, her ex-husband gambled well, and lost the family to the end, Xiaoli repeatedly advised, and later she couldn't bear it and was forced to choose divorce.
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Later Xiao li found a new partner after being introduced by others, the man just started to treat her well, Xiao Li also talked about her own experience, and said that she had a large amount of debt, including some online loans, credit card overdue overdraft, the man listened to it and did not care, but also comforted Xiao Li a few words, which made her very moved, thinking that this time found the true destiny, but when they received the marriage certificate shortly after, the problem came out, those financial companies did not know where to hear the news, thinking that Xiao Li re-established a family and had money, they desperately pursued it Xiao Li was overwhelmed with annoyance, she did not want to give her husband a burden, but after her husband knew, he changed his previous face, not only did not solve the little bit for Xiao Li, but also scolded her loudly, Xiao Li only saw clearly at this time that the man in front of her was so hypocritical, her heart was frozen, but it was too late to regret it.
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It is from this incident, the husband is more than indifferent to her, and from time to time the bad words, Xiaoli feels that she can not stay here for a day, she proposed a divorce, but her husband does not agree, he is a very face-saving person, afraid of getting divorced soon after marriage, being laughed at by relatives and friends! Xiao Li wanted to cry without tears, but she couldn't. From the bones: Xiao Li is really a little afraid of divorce, as a woman, this is the second time, that is really not laughing, so Xiao Li can only endure for a while, but the heart is very uncomfortable, she wants to come to this point between husband and wife, no one trusts anyone, no one helps anyone, the same bed and different dreams, how to live in the second half of life?
epilogue
In a family, there are contradictions between husband and wife is inevitable, less than the last resort, try not to divorce, but there are reasons, when you really feel that the two can not live together, or to make a decision, quick knife to cut the mess, otherwise the longer the time drags on, the greater the impact on both parties, divorce sounds like it is unlucky, but for their own lifelong happiness, the most unfavorable situation must be reversed in time. People's hearts are most afraid of back to each other, under the same roof, sleeping in the same bed, two people have their own thoughts, each has their own plans, then it is terrible to think, such a marriage do not stop!
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