Although Qi Tongwei openly knelt down on the playground of Handong University of Political Science and Law to propose to Liang Lu, and married Liang Lu smoothly, he was very, very annoying to Liang Lu, and after marriage, he was also full of contradictions, all day long in the Shanshui Manor with Gao Xiaoqin, and did not have a good look at Liang Lu, Liang Lu basically endured Qi Tongwei's bullying every day. However, even so, Liang Lu still suffered silently, did not propose the idea of divorce, or continued to maintain this superficial marital relationship with Qi Tongwei.
Qi Tongwei married Liang Lu not because he liked Liang Lu, he looked at the power of Liang Lu's father Liang Qunfeng, perhaps at the beginning when Liang Qunfeng did not retire and had power, Qi Tongwei was very good to Liang Lu, but with the retirement of Liang Qunfeng later, coupled with his own higher and higher status, his attitude towards Liang Lu was constantly changing. Especially after Liang Qunfeng's death, this change in attitude was more obvious, and he did not take Liang Lu in his eyes at all, if it were not for the power of Liang Lu's two brothers, and could not affect his promotion at the sub-provincial level, he would have abandoned Liang Lu long ago and married Gao Xiaoqin.
We know that Liang Lu also used a very unobtrusive means in order to get Qi Tongwei, Liang Lu talked about a boyfriend in college, and was pregnant with the mysterious boyfriend unmarried, but in the end he was cruelly abandoned, which made Liang Lu's emotional view seriously distorted. Therefore, in order to get Qi Tongwei, she used the power of her father Liang Qunfeng to directly intervene in Qi Tongwei's life, assigning an honor student to a remote area, and also assigning Qi Tongwei's beloved Chen Yang to Beijing to completely transfer them. In the end, when Qi Tongwei desperately tried his best or failed to reverse it, there was a scene where he openly knelt down and proposed to Liang Lu in order to change his life.
Therefore, the marriage of Qi Tongwei and Liang Lu was originally a union with different purposes, not a mutual pleasure that everyone envied. But from Liang Lu's point of view, he cherished Qi Tongwei very much, and when she couldn't stand Qi Tongwei's exoneration of gang rape for her relatives, she just sought out Qi Tongwei's teacher Gao Yuliang, reflected the situation to him, and told Gao Yuliang not to tell Qi Tongwei, otherwise she and Qi Tongwei would really not be able to live on, and even the superficial marriage could not be maintained.
From this point of view, Liang Lu silently endured Qi Tongwei's bullying, but one of the reasons why she did not divorce was that she still loved Qi Tongwei. There are also some external reasons, Qi Tongwei is the director of the provincial public security department, and she can certainly enjoy the status brought by Qi Tongwei as a wife. The more important reason is that like Gao Yuliang and his wife, if they divorce, they will lose face and let everyone see jokes. As the saying goes, the ugliness of the family cannot be publicized, so Liang Lu will prefer to endure Qi Tongwei's bullying and never file for divorce.
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