The marriage between Liang Lu and Qi Tongwei in the TV series "In the Name of the People" has long been in name only, but she is determined not to divorce. Because she knows that life without divorce is hard, and divorce is just as hard. However, I have always felt that the misfortune in her marriage is self-inflicted. Today, we will talk about Liang Lu.
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Liang Lu was once a school flower and also had a relationship. At that time, she was pregnant, and her boyfriend chose to go abroad to study and gave up the love. When encountering such a thing, everyone will be sad. Liang Lu was no exception, but she wanted revenge. Her choice of revenge is extremely stupid, and it seems to her that falling in love with a younger and more handsome person is the best revenge on her ex.
But in the end, her revenge did not hurt her ex, but hurt herself. In fact, when the former ren left her, he didn't love her anymore and didn't care about her anymore. Well, whatever she does, the ex won't care.
Liang Lu felt that meeting someone unladylike was the beginning of her tragedy, and it was true. It is unavoidable to meet people who are not ladylike, but she does not love herself enough. A woman who lives in the past cannot be happy. A person who wants to prove to others that he is living well is not actually doing well. Liang Lu is like this.
Liang Lu began to pursue Qi Tongwei, when Qi Tongwei had a girlfriend, and she still expected peace. It's not that she loves Qi Tongwei much, it's just that Qi Tongwei meets her goals. However, Qi Tongwei loved Chen Yang. Liang Lu did not chase after it, of course, he was not willing. She used her father's power to suppress Qi Tongwei.
Qi Tongwei wanted to be with Chen Yang, but he just couldn't be promoted. He made a contribution, and so did he. However, when he became Liang Lu's husband, he went all the way up. Qi Tongwei began to fight for power and profit, and began to degenerate, and Liang Lu could not be blamed for all. However, Liang Lu made him see the importance of power.
Qi Tongwei gave up love, and Liang Lu got married, which was the beginning of her tragedy. This misfortune was her own request, and she could not blame others.
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Liang Lu did not love Qi Tongwei, but when Qi Tongwei knelt on the playground and proposed to her, she was moved. However, it didn't take long to break her dream, she was just a tool for Qi Tongwei Qingyun to go straight up. In Qi Tongwei's view, Liang Lu's father did not help himself. However, as long as he is the son-in-law of Mr. Liang Lao, who does not give him some face. In Handong at that time, there was this signboard, and he mixed it like a fish.
At that time, he needed their help and could still pretend in front of Liang Lu. But with the death of Liang Lu's father, his wings grew stronger, and he didn't care about Liang Lu any more.
Qi Tongweiming is in love with Gao Xiaoqin, why not divorce Liang Lu? He once said that liang Lu should be his wife of the palace and leave others alone. In fact, he needed Liang Lu's identity. He needs to accompany him on some occasions to show his love. The position he was in, the marriage did not change, was best for him.
In fact, the person who least wants to divorce is Liang Lu. If her father is there, he can still support her. In her father's absence, she lost her patron. She once told Zhong Xiaoai that only Qi Tongwei bullied her without divorce, and everyone bullied her after divorce. At that time, the marriage that was sought with power now did not even have the confidence to leave, which was Liang Lu's biggest tragedy. It's not that she didn't think about leaving, but she didn't have the courage and confidence to stop the loss, and after weighing the pros and cons, she could only make it up.
Liang Lu took a good hand and played it badly. In the end, what was fulfilled was Chen Yang's happiness. She did test love for Chen Yang, and also let Chen Yang see the true face of Qi Tongwei. As a result, Chen Yang became a winner in life, and she has always lived in tragedy.
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Liang Lu was really stupid, Qi Tongwei loved Chen Yang so much, suddenly proposed to her, she could be moved. This shows that she lacks love in her bones, and she also longs for love. But the more this happens, the less love you get. On the other hand, Chen Yang, she is the final winner.
When a third person appears in love, it is easiest to see the other person's true heart. At the beginning, Qi Tongwei tried very hard to be with Chen Yang. But then, he gave up. His abandonment just fulfilled Chen Yang.
A person will definitely change because of one thing. However, qi Tongwei changed his mind. People cannot have a smooth sailing in this life, and they will encounter such and such troubles, which will not change this time and will change in the future. This separation was precisely Chen Yang. He gave up on Chen Yang, as if he had been struggling for himself all his life. However, Chen Yang found his own happiness.
After Liang Lu married Qi Tongwei, there were too many things that she could not accept. She couldn't stand Qi Tongwei's relatives, but she had to. She was not accustomed to Qi Tongwei doing evil, but she had no choice. The only luck was that they had a bad relationship and she wasn't involved.
Liang Lu has always had expectations for Qi Tongwei, and she had wondered if if their marriage would not come to this point if they had children. Thinking of this, she blamed her boyfriend at the time. A handful of hope and happiness pinned on a man will not lead to true happiness. Liang Lu is indeed very unfortunate, but her misfortune is self-inflicted.
She and Qi Tongwei had a conflict, and the person who advised Qi Tongwei not to do things too desperately was Qi Tongwei's new favorite, Gao Xiaoqin. Is Gao Xiaoqin so kind? Of course not. She just didn't want to make things bigger, so that she and Qi Tongwei had no way back. How ironic this scene is.
All of Liang Lu's misfortunes are self-inflicted, and from the moment she destroys the love of others, her tragedy is doomed. She was the one who started out as evil, but she didn't have the ability to stop losses.
Today's Discussion: How do you think of Liang Lu?
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